There are many men who are gentle and virtuous in their wives, acting arbitrarily outside, in their opinion, even if they cheat in marriage and betray the marriage, the wife will forgive him, but they do not understand that the wife is gentle and virtuous, because she loves him, because she is loyal to this marriage, loyal to this feeling, if he betrays this marriage, betrays this relationship, the wife is gentle and virtuous, it will completely disappear, she will retaliate fiercely against you and seek justice for herself.
Those men who cheated in marriage always felt that after their wives learned that they had betrayed their marriage, they became sentenced to two people, but is this not normal? Will your wife still love you, take care of you, and be gentle with you as she once did after she learned that you betrayed your marriage? That's impossible, you ask yourself, after you cheated on your marriage, did you still treat your wife the same as before? You are a person who has made a mistake, you can't treat your wife like you used to, and what attitude should a wife have towards a husband who cheated in marriage?
01. Betrayal of marriage
Last year, Xiao Wang's mother was sick and hospitalized, he took a month's leave with the company, waiting for his mother in the hospital, at that time there was an old lady living in the mother's ward, the old lady was also very ill, and her daughter also took a leave of absence to serve her in the hospital.
Xiao Wang was idle and bored, and chatted with the old lady's daughter, during xiao Wang's mother's hospitalization, Xiao Wang's wife would occasionally come to the hospital to deliver food, but the old lady had only one daughter by her side, Xiao Wang asked the old lady's daughter if she was married? The woman said she was married, but her husband was not a tool, and the family did not care at all, let alone come to the hospital to pick up the handle.
Xiao Wang was a little distressed about that woman, so usually when the old lady did the examination, Xiao Wang would also help to build a handle, always felt that the woman was not easy, and gradually Xiao Wang developed different feelings for that woman, and the woman also had a good feeling for Xiao Wang, and Xiao Wang made a betrayal of marriage.
At the beginning, Xiao Wang's mother was sick and confused, so she did not know about this matter, when she was about to be discharged from the hospital, she found the clue, so Xiao Wang quickly broke off contact with the woman, don't ruin his marriage because of a momentary confusion, Xiao Wang also felt that he had a family and a wife, that woman had a husband, and two people should not do this, so as soon as her mother was discharged from the hospital, he deleted the woman's contact information.
Xiao Wang felt that the relationship between the two people was a dream, after the mother was discharged from the hospital, everything should return to reality, but the more he told himself, the more he could not forget the woman, because of this matter, Xiao Wang did not have the heart to work, he took a month's leave with the leader, and his wife thought that he was too tired to serve his mother, so let him rest at home for a while.
02. Bumped into by his wife
The mother was discharged from the hospital for a review half a month later, when the mother was not willing to let Xiao Wang accompany her, afraid that Xiao Wang would see the woman again, originally the wife accompanied her mother to the hospital for a review, but the wife's company happened to have an emergency on the same day, so Xiao Wang accompanied her.
Before going to the hospital, Xiao Wang's heart has been looking forward to it, hoping to see the woman again, when he accompanied his mother to the place where the examination was done, he looked up and saw that the woman came with a hot water kettle, the hospital was not big, it was also very normal to meet it, Xiao Wang greeted the woman unnaturally, the woman did not say anything, carrying the hot water kettle back to the ward.
Xiao Wang's heart could not bear it, so he went to the ward to find the woman, wanting to add the contact information back, but the woman said that Xiao Wang did the right thing, both people have families, the relationship that was once was just a dream, everyone should forget.
Xiao Wang said a lot of heartfelt words to the woman, and finally the woman hugged Xiao Wang and cried, Xiao Wang's wife was busy with the company's business, she ran to the hospital to find them, the mother always said that when she was discharged from the hospital, the water cup was left in the hospital, and it was estimated that it was still in the ward, so the wife went to the ward where her mother lived to find the water cup, and as soon as she entered the door, she saw Xiao Wang and the woman hugging tightly.
The wife was stunned, Xiao Wang was also stunned, Xiao Wang told his wife that the woman's mother was also in this ward, and her mother was sick and a little sad, so he was comforting her, but out of the woman's sixth sense, the wife immediately noticed that it was unusual.
03. Gentle and virtuous wife, gave the fiercest revenge
In the evening, the wife asked Xiao Wang, "What is your relationship with that woman?" I asked the nurse, when the mother-in-law was hospitalized, the woman's mother lived in that ward, and it should not be the first time you two have met. ”
"Yes, we didn't meet for the first time, we met when my mother was hospitalized, and her mother's condition was not very good, so I comforted her a few words, you don't think too much." 」
"Don't be hard-mouthed, as soon as you lie, you keep your head down and tell me the truth."
The mother often praised her wife for being gentle and virtuous, but only Xiao Wang knew that his wife was a very strong and thoughtful person, and under the persecution of his wife, Xiao Wang could not hold on, so he confessed to his wife, saying that he had betrayed the marriage.
"You are really affectionate, when your mother-in-law was sick and hospitalized, you took advantage of the time you served her to betray our marriage, and you really had a mood."
Xiao Wang knew that it was his own fault, so he did not dare to say more in the face of his wife's sarcasm, he thought that his wife would definitely be unhappy in his heart, but as long as he promised her to break off relations with that woman, his wife would not divorce him in the feelings of the two people for many years.
However, the wife put the divorce agreement in front of Xiao Wang the next day, saw the terms inside, Xiao Wang somewhat could not believe it, the wife asked Xiao Wang to leave the house, and could not remarry within five years, within five years of divorce, every year to give her a mental loss fee, Xiao Wang did not want to divorce, and could not accept these terms in the divorce agreement, he wanted to discuss with his wife again, but the wife said that there was no room for negotiation.
The wife told Xiao Wang's mother about the divorce of the two people, let Xiao Wang's mother bear witness, this matter is Xiao Wang is sorry for her, so the requirements she made are reasonable, Xiao Wang's mother does not want to see her son and daughter-in-law make such a scene, but as a woman, she also understands the daughter-in-law, so Let Xiao Wang agree to his wife's request, the mother assured his wife that within five years of divorce, she will be given a mental loss fee every year.
Then the two went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the divorce procedures.
Xiao Wang's "gentle and virtuous" ex-wife, after he betrayed the marriage, gave him the fiercest revenge, and his next five years of life will be shrouded in the shadow of marital infidelity, to make some compensation for the ex-wife, but this is all deserved, because he is the wrong party in the marriage, he betrayed the feelings of two people, the marriage of two people.
Even gentle and virtuous women will not allow their husbands to cheat in marriage, betray marriage, and betray feelings, so men should not feel that their wives are gentle and virtuous, and you can act arbitrarily in marriage, which is impossible.
After a man cheats in marriage and is retaliated against by his wife, he always feels that his wife is a little cruel and vicious, snatches all the property away, forces himself to get out of the house, a man who betrays the marriage and is unfaithful to love, why say that others are cruel and say that others are vicious? If the wife changes from a gentle and virtuous woman to a cold and ruthless woman, it is also because of you, you have ruined her gentleness and virtuousness, and forced her to become such a person, you have no right to accuse her, saying that she is not.
Men will always make a lot of excuses for their own infidelity, for their own infidelity, they don't even feel that they have made a mistake, do not feel that they have done something unforgivable, after getting fresh and stimulated outside, come home, and hope that his wife can forgive him and understand his pain, but what is his pain? It's just that he can't control himself, and such a man must be punished, otherwise it will be too unfair to women.
Men cheat in marriage, do things that are sorry for their wives, get revenge from their wives, and make some compensation to their wives is right, don't feel that their wives are cruel, don't feel wronged, if your wife does something sorry for you, can you forgive her calmly?