Song Yufei in life is not very talkative, but once she talks about her daughter's little walnut, she gushes endlessly. When she was pregnant with a small walnut, she was rushing to shoot "Daddy's Insincerity Do Not Disturb", and at first she did not know that she was pregnant, until the scene was about to end. She laughed and said that this is mainly because the small walnuts are too intimate, and she has no symptoms that may occur in pregnant women, no pregnancy spots, no legs cramps, and even the "most standard" morning sickness reaction has not been reported. At that time, she had a good appetite, ate well, slept soundly, and was in a more relaxed mood like a vacation. It may be inherited from the mother's good appetite, and the small walnut must be premised on a full stomach in everything.
"There is no reaction during pregnancy, but pregnancy testing is difficult." In the impression, she did not pass a pregnancy test smoothly, and the little guy did not cooperate every time. In order to get the doctor's examination complete, she had to sit in the hospital for an hour at a time, sometimes even two hours, to complete the task. Idle, she eats and drinks to pass the time, interestingly, as long as she eats and drinks, the doctor can easily catch a variety of pregnancy test indicators. Song Yufei laughed and said that this little guy had simply come to cheat on eating, drinking, and cheating on feelings.
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For children: What are the challenges of becoming a new mother?
Song Yufei: The first challenge was breastfeeding. I am a daughter born by cesarean section, and the mother who delivers the cesarean section usually gives milk later. At first two days without milk, I was particularly anxious, it was hard to have milk, I did not expect that this little guy who was gluttonous in the fetus played the ability to eat to the extreme, not only had a big appetite, but also had a special strength, and sucked out the nipples. There was a time when I didn't even dare to close my clothes completely, and every time I fed, it hurt my heart, and it was difficult for people who had not experienced this kind of pain to imagine.
For the sake of the child: In the process of growing up, what aspects of her performance are you most afraid of?
Song Yufei: I am most afraid of her loneliness, lack of friends, and I am afraid that she is selfish and too selfish. Now she has a child in the family, such a child is actually very lonely, fortunately, she has not become a domineering little princess because of the favor of her family. Because I told her a truth early on, this home is our first, she is later, no matter what, please ask her to put us first. Many people will feel that the child is small, some of the truth can be said to grow up, in fact, don't look at them small, everything understands, because with this recognition, the little walnut has become good and loving, although she is still a food control, but as long as I am next to it, she will first hand me what to eat, grandma is around she will first give grandma to eat, although young, but has learned to share.
For the sake of the child: If the child is emotional, how will you react?
Song Yufei: Little Walnut also has a mood, and whenever this happens, my approach is to choose to ignore it. I remember that once she was eating a meal and suddenly made a fuss, I had to take the spoon I fed her to eat, the other spoons were not wanted, seeing her like this, I simply pushed her chair to the middle of the living room with her, and as a result, she did not make a fuss for less than 20 seconds. I think this kind of ignoring it works, but when she is emotionally stable, I will still reassure her, tell her why her mother is doing this, and let her understand that she can't play this kind of temper in the future. Sometimes the child's temper is to attract the attention of adults, but if she does it outrageously, she must not be accommodated, and she will naturally give up chaos when she sees that she cannot achieve the purpose.
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For the sake of the child: In the process of parenting, what aspects of the child's abilities will you pay special attention to cultivating?
Song Yufei: Let everything go with the flow, she is healthy and happy. Because I don't want to be a mother who has planned her life well, she should have her own life, even if she takes a detour, she will get life experience and experience from it, these are her own things, whether it is pain or loss, it is something she needs to experience. If I had to say it, I would focus more on cultivating her ability to think alone and distinguish between right and wrong in the face of things, which will help her take fewer detours! I have always felt that reading thousands of books is not as good as walking thousands of miles, and when she is a little older, I hope to take her to broaden her horizons, her horizons are open, and when she encounters small things, she will not put them in her eyes, will not be very concerned, will not be very angry, and can be more sensible and understand people's feelings.
For children: What do you think about early education? How do you do it?
Song Yufei: Some of my friends' children were sent to the "Early Education Center" when they were very young, but I had no intention of doing so. I think it's not too late to go to the early education center when she's older and can communicate with adults. Comparatively speaking, I pay more attention to quality education, educate her to start from small things, understand politeness and reason, and hope that she will learn to treat others kindly and be grateful. For example, when she wakes up every morning, she can thank her for breathing fresh air again, and she can see her parents again. If she can be grateful for the simplest things, it will be easy to get happy, and at the same time she will become a person who understands life. Of course, I will also cultivate her sense of self-protection in particular, probably because she is a girl!
For the sake of the children: Can you see where your daughter is talented?
Song Yufei: She especially likes music, as soon as she hears the music, she will twist herself, and the rhythm is really accurate, all on the reshoot. The most interesting thing is that once in the park, someone used a speaker to play music, the two rows of chairs in the small corridor everyone was enjoying the lake view at first, after the music sounded, the little walnut immediately moved with the sound, and as a result, everyone turned around and laughed to watch her perform, and people asked her to come again, and she did not twist, especially cooperative. Even when she is crying, as long as she plays music, no matter how unhappy she is, she will still dance with the music twice, especially funny, huh.
For the sake of children: How do you want your children to evaluate you when they grow up?
Song Yufei: I hope she will evaluate me and say that I am a mother like a friend, and I will make it clear to her that no matter when and where, my mother will always give her upward strength, give her infinite love, and give her the freedom she should have.
Mom's little profile
Law School: Central Academy of Drama
Main film and television works:
"Fast Gunner", "Daddy's Insincerity Do Not Disturb", "Qia Classmate Boy", "Mountain Red", "Land of China", "Rosewood King", "The War of the Old Cow Family", "Bridge Longbiao", "The Legend of Daiyu" and so on.