Men don't want to, and women don't want to.
Men feel that they are being squeezed by marriage, and women also feel that they are squeezed by marriage.
Modern people are not so easy to be satisfied, especially from childhood to adulthood are cared for and raised.
It's already hard for you to let him or her suffer a little for one person for his or her life, let alone for another person after marriage.
And this little bit of pay must involve the psychology of the game, and everyone feels that marriage is a cage after a long time.
The most ideal marriage cooperation is that everyone thinks that their efforts will be exchanged for a good life, two people have a reasonable division of labor, clear responsibilities, and most modern family responsibilities are actually relatively vague.
In fact, many young people have not really lived now, childhood volumes, juvenile volumes, doing problems, not allowing love, hobbies and hobbies can not develop to see the family situation and parents' attitudes.
Urged to grow up, completely without his own life, it was difficult to graduate from college to live independently, and he saw that he was going to have his own life.
The little time left after work is actually spent on family chores and children, and continues to live a life for others.
Therefore, to have young people, first give them a happy childhood, vigorous and loving teenagers, and see the future youth.
You see a lot of people say that the house is too expensive how to get married, in addition to the can not afford to buy a house, there are more than one house of wealthy people do not get married and have children, because life has just begun.
Only then did I understand what I really wanted in life, what I really wanted to pursue, and to make up for the time I missed when I was young and went with the flow.
In fact, the best love is really on campus.
We will hold a person's hand because of a handsome shot, a quiet smile, a casual turn, a childish love letter, and a handmade gift.
You will make a good wish in your heart at that moment that he/she will be your future other half.
At this time, love is relatively pure, and there is not so much money, conditions or interests mixed,
Just want to be with her/him,
This pure motivation can often stand in the mind for a long time.
And when the marriage is put on the table, the two sides meet and are already considering whether the matching conditions are OK,
In fact, you have lost the ticket to love,
Some are left with finding a fairly suitable person to live with and reproduce the next generation.
In marriage, love is no longer the protagonist.