The vast majority of derailments do not occur by chance, and many of them have been planned by Xiao San for a long time.
Especially the common green tea type in the small three, most of them are to find the target, and then slowly develop feelings with men,
Step by step through the means, slowly become a small three, and in the extramarital affair to grasp the cheating man.
If your husband takes the initiative to ask for a divorce after cheating, and protects the little three, you are most likely to encounter the green tea type small three,
If you want to defeat the green tea type three, you must understand the characteristics and means of the green tea type small three, and learn to see the tricks.
Lan Fang has handled many cases of green tea type small three cheating, such as the one that was just solved last month.
The original Ms. Li encountered is the green tea type small three, this little three is the sister of Ms. Li's colleague, because of the high vision, thirty years old did not marry,
Ms. Li's husband met Xiao San at the child's full moon feast, although her husband is nearly forty years old, but looks very young,
Because Ms. Li will urge her husband to exercise, the two people also reported for fitness classes together, so Ms. Li also attaches great importance to it.
Therefore, her husband was more conspicuous among the middle-aged male colleagues at that time, plus her husband had strong ability and work was also very developed.
Soon became the target of Xiao San, and xiao San often used the excuse of going to the company to find her brother to approach the cheating man.
Then inquire about the cheating man's fitness place, taking advantage of the fact that Ms. Li has been injured for a while and has not gone to the gym to approach her husband.
At the beginning, I always met as a colleague's sister, and I got along with Ms. Li's husband more measuredly.
Even after Ms. Li recovered from going to the gym, she did not show any abnormality, and often greeted two people and went in and out together.
Therefore, Ms. Li did not have much reaction at the beginning, perhaps because Xiao San behaved generously.
Perhaps because she was too confident in her husband and wife's feelings, Ms. Li's carelessness also created opportunities for Xiao San.
Later, Because Ms. Li was pregnant with her second child, as an elderly mother, Ms. Li was very careful, so she no longer went to the gym.
Xiao San seized the opportunity to start hooking up with Ms. Li's husband, and in order not to let Ms. Li suspect, Xiao San often bought baby and maternity products.
Let Ms. Li's husband take it back, and even go to Ms. Li's house to persuade Ms. Li that she can go to the gym to exercise properly.
While dispelling Ms. Li's doubts and showing her kind side, she began to put Ms. Li's husband in various yards.
Today's injury let Ms. Li's husband go to the hospital, tomorrow in the company was bullied, and then go to the gym and Talk to Ms. Li's husband,
People's talk is mutual, when a person confides in you about their troubles, you will also begin to talk to her about the problems you encounter,
Ms. Li's husband does not want to upset Ms. Li because She is pregnant, so she no longer talks to Ms. Li as before.
Xiao San became the object of his talk, and men and women often confided in each other, and they would begin to be ambiguous, and finally developed extramarital affairs.
When the emotions of the two people were heating up rapidly, Xiao San began to withdraw, saying that he felt sorry for Ms. Li and was unwilling to continue his feelings.
And the cheating man has strong feelings for Xiao San, Ms. Li is pregnant in August and is busy with prenatal fear, whether physically or emotionally can not satisfy him,
Of course, he did not want to be separated from Xiao San, so he begged Xiao San not to leave, and Xiao San also successfully occupied the dominance of extramarital affairs.
So later, after Ms. Li gave birth to a child, she found that her husband was cheating and wanted to deal with Xiao San, and found that the heart of the cheating man had been completely biased towards Xiao San.
Ms. Li tried many ways to get the cheating man back to the family, and finally chose to come to Lan Fang to help her advise.
A simple analysis of what kind of means were used by ms. Li's green tea xiaosan.
Method one: good at ambiguity and attracting men's attention.
The most different thing between green tea type three and other types of small three is that they cherish their reputation,
They do not show affection to men in the open, but like to secretly poke and poke to attract men's attention, and then enter into an ambiguous state with men.
Like this little third that Ms. Li encountered, after taking a fancy to Ms. Li's husband, she tried to get close, and in order not to arouse Ms. Li's suspicions, she also acted in various ways.
Not only does it reduce Ms. Li's defenses, but it also successfully makes Ms. Li's husband full of good feelings for Xiaosan, and can get the opportunity to be alone with Ms. Li's husband.
Means two: pretend to be weak, pretend to be kind, pretend to be empathetic.
After Ms. Li became pregnant, Xiao San did not rush to intervene in the marriage of the two people, but through the words and deeds of buying something for Ms. Li and persuading Ms. Li to return to the gym,
Let the cheating man feel that she is kind, and this will also make her have an extramarital affair with the cheating man, and will not let the cheating man feel that she is deliberately becoming a little third.
Then through pretending to be weak to cause the cheating man's desire to protect, pretending to be understanding to pull into the distance between the two people, and finally reaching an extramarital affair.
Green tea type small three, it seems that the attack power is not strong, never take the initiative to attack the original match, such words and deeds are their best protective color.
Means three: to retreat into the advance, to seize the old and indulge, to occupy the dominant.
The vast majority of green tea type small three, even if they have a substantial relationship with cheating men,
They will not ask the cheating man to divorce and marry himself, and they will also put on a posture of being sorry for the original match,
Do they genuinely feel that it is wrong for them to intervene in someone else's marriage? Of course not!
They just want to gain the sympathy of men through such means, so that the balance of men's psychology is tilted towards themselves.
They won't force the cheating man to divorce, but they'll say, all three of them are hurting, so I might as well quit.
In this type, let the cheating man choose between himself and the original match.
If you want to deal with this green tea, you have to learn their tricks, and then use them on them to expose their true faces.
Create the opportunity for three people to negotiate, the original match do not blame the little three, do not accuse the cheating man, most of the green tea small three face the original match,
In order to maintain their own image will apologize in various ways, and then continue to retreat to say that they want to quit, at this time the original can go along with the little three said,
Xiao San himself is sorry for the original match, the original match replied to me I am very relieved that you know that it is not right for you to intervene in other people's marriages, and I can forgive you.
Xiao San said that he was going to quit, you followed Xiao San's words, I was so moved, you not only know the mistake, but also correct the mistake in time.
Xiao San said what you said, you follow Xiao San, such a reply, you see if Xiao San can continue to act.
If the cheating man says you, you say that interfering in other people's marriages and quitting is what Xiao San said, you just want her not to embarrass her.
You can't debunk the little three, people are always willing to believe what they see, and the cheating men you say will not believe it.
But xiao san said it himself, and when the cheating man saw it himself, he would believe it.
So don't tell the cheating man the true face of Xiao San, and find a way to force out the true face of Xiao San in front of the cheating man.
Finally, if you encounter a green tea type small three do not know what to do, you can pay attention to the blue side, private message chat.
I am Lan Fang, an emotional mentor who tells the truth and does practical things.