"Filial piety, the scripture of heaven, the righteousness of the earth, and the deeds of the people." - The Book of Filial Piety
Filial piety is the first, and filial piety is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation for thousands of years.
It is the essence of the Chinese nation and is deeply rooted in the hearts of every Chinese son and daughter.
Children are filial to their parents, and this is a matter of course.
But have you ever seen a person treat a stranger as filial piety as a biological parent?
Today, we will talk about such a touching story of filial piety to strangers as biological parents.
More than 30 years ago, a baby girl was born less than a month ago because her parents were sent to others because of the four walls of her parents' house.
How many parents in the world are willing to send their children to be raised?
Her parents were very sad and reluctant, but in order for their daughter to survive, they could only do so.
Time flies, and in 2006, when the old mother who was forced to send her daughter for some reason suffered from cancer, and seeing that her life had entered the countdown, the old mother's only wish was to see the last side of the adopted daughter.
After a female college student who had just come to Nanjing to look for a job learned about this incident, in order to comfort the heart of a mother with terminal cancer, she also "realized" her dream of finding her abandoned daughter.
Because of pity and kindness, she resolutely decided to be a daughter to this cancer woman she never knew, and she became a daughter for 6 years.
In these 6 years, female college students cared for and served this strange "mother" for 6 years until she died.
Many people may not believe that such a thing can happen in this world, but it is really happening all around us.
This female college student is the "most beautiful daughter in Nanjing" - Jin Bing.
Jin Bing, a native of Sihong, Jiangsu Province, graduated from a university in Huai'an in 2006 and then went to nanjing to work.
One night in early 2007, Jin Bing sat on the bed with her boyfriend Wang Gang watching TV after eating as usual.
Suddenly, when Jin Bing controlled the remote control to transfer to Nanjing Television Station, looking at the content broadcast by the tv station, she stopped the action of changing the station, only to see that Nanjing Television Station was broadcasting a special search notice at this time:
A farmer named Du Fangqin, who lives in Shiqiao Town, Pukou District, Nanjing, burst into tears in front of the camera, crying and choking to tell the audience about his purpose of being on television, which turned out to be to find his daughter who was adopted by him decades ago.
Looking at the camera, he said tearfully:
"Daughter, when our family was poor, my father had to give you away, and for so many years my mother and I have always felt guilty and missed you." Now that your mother has cancer and can't live for a few days, she wants to see you before she leaves.
Daughter, can you come back and take one last look at your mother? Please, daughter! Rest assured, Dad will never ask you to bear any expenses, as long as you can come and see it, we will be satisfied. Daughter, Mom and Dad miss you! ”
Subsequently, Du Fangqin took out a photo of his eldest daughter Du Jialin and choked up:
"The younger daughter was sent 20 days after she was born, and now I don't know what she looks like, I published the photo of the eldest daughter, and the sisters look very similar!" There are well-meaning people who see that they look similar to my eldest daughter and beg to provide a clue, thank you to the kind people of the world! ”
After that, the TV camera gave a close-up of the photo of Du Fangqin's eldest daughter, Du Jialin.
Du Fangqin actually did not want to disturb the normal life of his young daughter, 28 years ago, his wife Zhu Guancui gave birth to his fourth child Mao Mao, that is, the little daughter he was looking for to be adopted.
Because the family is already surrounded by disciples, plus his two daughters are sick, if the younger daughter is left at home, it is likely that he will not be able to support, so in order to let the younger daughter survive, but also to reduce the burden on the family, he can only endure the pain of sending his daughter to be raised.
Even though a long time has passed, he still remembers clearly:
"It was 3:40 p.m. when she was sent away, and she was just 20 days old."
When sending his young daughter, Du Fangqin and the adopter agreed not to see each other again for life, so he really did not want to disturb the normal life of his young daughter MaoMao, let alone have any impact on the life of the adopter.
However, the time for the wife suffering from cancer is running out, and the wife's only wish is to meet her younger daughter and listen to the plea of her wife Zhu Guancui:
"I regret my decision, I'm sorry Maomao. For so many years, the thought of Mao Mao's heart was as hard as being fried in oil. ”
Du Fangqin understood that his wife wanted to see Mao Mao, not only to comfort the feelings of missing her daughter, but also to make up for the guilt that a mother had buried in her heart for 28 years.
Understanding his wife's thoughts, Du Fangqin no longer cared about the previous agreement with the adopter, he did not want his wife to leave with regrets, so he decided to find his youngest daughter Mao Mao no matter what method he used, to fulfill his wife's last wish.
Du Fangqin did not know where his younger daughter Mao Mao was now, he only knew that her younger daughter had been adopted by a family in downtown Nanjing.
Nanjing has a population of millions, and to find the little daughter of 28 years ago among millions of people is undoubtedly a needle in a haystack.
In order to find his little daughter quickly, Du Fangqin thought of seeking help from Nanjing Television station and registered a search notice at the TV station.
After hearing Du Fangqin's story, Nanjing Television Station was greatly moved, and immediately expressed its willingness to help and did its best to help him find his young daughter MaoMao.
Thus, one night in early 2007, Nanjing Television broadcast the scene of Du Fangqin looking for his youngest daughter Mao Mao.
At that time, seeing the photo of Du Fangqin's eldest daughter Du Jialin, Jin Bing's boyfriend Wang Gang immediately froze!
Because Jin Bing and Du Jialin looked like a mold carved out, he said loudly to Jin Bing:
"Jin Bing, you and Du Fangqin's eldest daughter Du Jialin look like you!"
After Jin Bing heard it, he took a closer look and found that he really looked like Du Jialin, whether it was eyebrows, face shape or mouth and nose, it was very similar, and his chin was also with a beautiful mole.
What is more coincidental is that her birth time and the birth time of the young daughter given by Du Fangqin are the same.
If Jin Bing wasn't 100 percent sure that she was born to her current parents, I'm afraid she would have doubted whether she was really Du Fangqin's daughter.
Figure | Jin Bing (right) and Sister Du look alike to each other, sisters who are not related by blood
After reading this special search notice, Jin Bing's heart could not be calmed for a long time, and it was difficult to sleep at night.
Her mind repeatedly came up with the sad look of the peasant father missing his young daughter in the search program and the sad tears she shed, and the painful look of the cancer mother who flashed by the show with full expectations for her daughter.
The couple's longing for their daughter made her nostalgic for a long time, both heart-wrenching and unforgettable.
Seeing the sad look in the cancer-stricken mother's sad eyes that missed her daughter, Jin Bing also remembered her mother.
Three years ago, Jin Bing's younger brother's child drowned due to play in the river, and the child's grandmother, that is, Jin Bing's mother, showed the same sad look after she learned that the child drowned, and the cancer-stricken mother who missed her daughter was exactly the same.
Jin Bing knew the pain of her mother losing her brother and child at that time, so she also deeply understood the pain of her mother who had cancer.
Thinking about it, a very "strange" idea appeared in Jin Bing's mind:
Since she and the eldest daughter of the Du family look very similar, why can't she pretend to be her daughter?
In this way, the elderly can carry out their wishes before their death and not leave with regrets.
This is just a good deed for herself, but for the mother who is about to die, it is the fulfillment of her long-cherished wish in life.
Thinking of this, Jin Bing's desire to recognize the mother with cancer became more and more determined, and she soon decided to put it into action.
Just when Jin Bing was about to recognize Zhu Guancui, a mother with cancer, Zhu Guancui had not heard from her youngest daughter Mao Mao for a long time, and because she was tormented by the disease day and night, her spirit completely collapsed.
She pulled out the needle tube she was infusing and refused treatment, insisting on going home for a few days.
To put it bluntly, I want to go home and wait for death, and I no longer have any hope for life.
Seeing his wife like this, Du Fangqin was very distressed, but he had no choice.
That is, when Du Fangqin was at a loss and did not know what to do, he received a call from a strange girl, and this call was from Jin Bing.
The purpose of Jin Bing's phone call is very simple, that is, he is willing to pretend to be Mao Mao to recognize his relatives, so as to fulfill a mother's dying wish.
When he heard that Jin Bing was willing to pretend to be his younger daughter Mao Mao to fulfill his wife's last wish, Du Fangqin couldn't believe it, and he repeatedly asked:
"Boy, did I hear you correctly?" Are you really willing to pretend to be my little daughter? If true, I thank you on behalf of the whole family! ”
"I can't bear to watch an old man leave this world with regret."
After receiving Jin Bing's affirmative answer, Du Fangqin was very happy and thanked him one after another.
After that, Du Fangqin told his eldest daughter Du Jialin about this matter, and Du Jialin was overjoyed after hearing it.
Recalling the moment when she heard that Jin Bing was willing to pretend to summon her sister, Du Yuling said:
"I didn't expect a strange girl to comfort my mother and be this daughter."
The Du family heard that some people were willing to pretend to be Mao Mao, so naturally there was no reason to refuse.
Although, they were also worried that if they revealed a flaw, it would hurt Zhu Guancui's heart and then aggravate her condition.
However, in order not to let Zhu Guancui leave with regrets, they still decided to welcome the fake daughter Jin Bing to recognize their relatives, and told the people around them that they must keep their mouths shut about this matter, and no one can say half a sentence.
On March 3, 2007, Jin Bing embarked on a journey to "recognize relatives" and came to Zhu Guancui's hometown. According to Jin Bing's recollection, when she first entered the Du family, many local villagers came out of their homes, stood on both sides of the road and set off firecrackers to welcome her arrival, which was very solemn.
Of course, in order to cause unnecessary trouble, Jin Bing informed everyone except Mother Du Zhu Guancui in advance that she was just pretending to be Mao Mao, in order to fulfill Mother Du's last wish.
Although she had informed everyone, the Du family and the villagers still spontaneously came to the village to welcome her, and they were deeply touched by Jin Bing's kindness and love.
The moment he saw Jin Bing, perhaps he saw the shadow of the eldest daughter from her body, or perhaps he had already identified her as his youngest daughter who had been separated for 28 years, Zhu Guancui, who had been bedridden for a long time, could suddenly stand up and look much better than before.
She hugged Jin Bing tightly and did not want to let go, crying while saying: "Maomao, you are finally back, and your mother has finally seen you!" Looking at Mother Du like this, Jin Bing's tears unconsciously snatched out of her eyes.
That day, Jin Bing brushed Mother Du's hair, washed her feet, and had her nails repaired; at night, Jin Bing stayed at the Du family and slept in the same bed with Zhu Guancui, and the two of them talked, laughed, cried, and did not sleep all night.
Zhu Guancui told Jin Bing about his thoughts and guilt, and Jin Bing also described his past to Zhu Gaocui.
Remembering the past, Zhu Guancui said with guilt:
, if it weren't for the poverty of the family, your mother wouldn't be willing to give you to someone else, and your mother is sorry for you! I'm sorry for you! ”
As he spoke, the old man's tears involuntarily gushed out.
Seeing that Mother Du was so sad, Jin Bing was very unbearable and very heartbroken, in order not to make Mother Du sad, she pretended to be playful and said:
"Mom, don't you see that I'm not coming back, recognizing my relatives, it will be convenient to meet in the future, and it is the most important thing for you to raise your body!" As long as you are in good health, we will have a lot of time to get together in the future. ”
After staying in the Du family for 2 days, Because of the relationship between going to work, Jin Bing was ready to go back to work.
Before leaving, Zhu Guancui held Jin Bing's hand for a long time, she took Jin Bing's hand to the house, and then took out a package and told her that it was for her.
Jin Bing opened the package, only to see dozens of pairs of finely crafted embroidered shoes neatly arranged inside.
Looking at these embroidered shoes, Jin Bing saw a mother's thoughts about her daughter, and she understood that Mother Du really missed her little daughter who had been lost for 28 years, which also strengthened her determination to complete Mother Du's last wish.
Looking at Jin Bing's stupid look at those embroidered shoes, Zhu Guancui said emotionally:
"Oh bitch! Since the year I sent you away, I have made a pair of embroidered shoes every year, and now there are 27 pairs, although you can't wear them now, but my mother still wants to give them to you! This is a little bit of Mom's heart! ”
Hearing What Zhu Guancui said, Jin Bing's eyes became moist again.
No one thought of it, including Jin Bing, that this outfit was dressed for a full 6 years, and she made a sweet little cotton jacket for 6 years of Mother Du.
After recognizing her relatives, Jin Bing would take time to "go home" every week, stew soup for Mother Du, wash clothes, massage her whole body, talk with Mother Du, chat about home, and take Mother Du to the hospital for treatment.
Every time she came back, Jin Bing would bring a lot of gifts to Mother Du, including imported drugs and imported supplements.
To Mother Du, although Jin Bing only pretended to be her daughter, she really treated her as her own mother to be filial piety.
On the first day of coming to the Du family to "recognize relatives", Jin Bing saw that the DU family TV was still a 14-inch black-and-white TV, worried that Du's mother would make her eyes very uncomfortable watching such a TV, so when she came for the second time, she directly brought a 25-inch color TV.
In addition, no matter what the season, whether it is spring or summer, or autumn or winter, Jin Bing will buy clothes suitable for Mother Du every time.
Du Dad and Du Mama also love Jin Bing, once Du Mama heard that Jin Bing had a serious cold because the quilt was too thin, and the next year he and Du Dad specially planted 2 acres of cotton at home.
The purpose of planting cotton is to make two thick quilts stuffed with cotton for Jin Bing.
Mother Du is also very dependent on Jin Bing, the "little daughter", as long as she does not see Jin Bing for a few days, she will call her, and on the phone she will always tell Jin Bing not to work too hard, to rest more, not to be too tired, and to go home more when you have time!
Once, jin bing did not go home for half a month, and Du's mother called: "Daughter! You are busy at work, you have to make up for your body, the eggs you gave you last time are almost finished, right? Mom has saved some for you again, and you have time to go home and get it! ”
Du's mother's implication was that she hoped that Jin Bing could come back to see her, and after Jin Bing received this call, she immediately returned home.
Because of the appearance of Jin Bing, Zhu Guancui, who was originally diagnosed not to live long, spent all kinds of dangers and hardships again and again, and her physical condition miraculously improved, walking in the alleys and alleys of the village, it was almost impossible to see that she was a terminal cancer patient.
However, Jin Bing is not Mother Du's biological daughter after all, she also has her own life, she also has her own family, she cannot stay in the Du family all her life, and the lie will eventually be exposed one day.
After years of getting along, Jin Bing has long had deep feelings for the Du family, in order not to let Mother Du be sad one day because of the discovery of her true identity, Jin Bing decided to help Mother Du find her own daughter.
In order to help Du's mother find her own daughter, Jin Bing used her various social connections to search the streets and alleys of Nanjing, and finally learned an important clue from the introduction population that helped Du father to send his daughter:
Mao Mao was adopted by a Nanjing city man surnamed Ge Jing, whose name was Ge Jing.
Unfortunately, since this introducer had not contacted them for a long time, he did not know where Ge Jing lived.
Now that you know the name, the next thing is a little easier.
Jin Bing found a friend in the Nanjing Public Security Bureau, with the help of friends, Jin Bing learned that there were more than 100 people named Ge Jing in Nanjing, and finally through age, gender and other screening, she found 5 people who were most likely to be sent by Mother Du to raise Mao Mao.
Through one by one visits, Jin Bing found Mao Mao, and the boyfriend who accompanied Jin Bing on the visit was stunned at the first sight of this Ge Jing, because she and Du Jialin were almost like a mold printed, and anyone who saw her would say that she was Mao Mao.
Jin Bing thought that if she found Mao Mao, all the next problems could be solved, but the development of things was beyond her imagination.
As soon as Ge Jing heard that she had come to find her relatives for Mother Du, he wanted to leave without looking back.
Seeing that she was leaving, Jin Bing quickly ran over to stop her:
"Your mother is dying, don't you want to see her one last time?"
"She doesn't want me anymore, and now that she thinks of me, I can't forgive, I would never go to see her." After Ge Jing listened, he said very resolutely. In Ge Jing's heart, it was Mother Du who abandoned her, and she would never forgive her.
"After all these years, do you still have such a big grudge?" Your mother's time is running out, and her only wish is to see you! Jin Bing said movingly.
Ge Jing replied with some excitement: "I don't have resentment, I just don't want to see them, let's forget!" ”
No matter how Much Jin Bing persuaded him, Ge Jing did not agree to meet his biological parents.
Come to think of it, Ge Jing's approach is not wrong, it was his own biological parents who gave themselves to their adoptive parents, and the adoptive father and adoptive mother raised her with hard work and hardship, regarded her as their own, and never treated her half a point.
Nowadays, if her biological parents want to see her, she will ignore the feelings of her adoptive parents and go directly to see them, which is too much to consider, if the adoptive parents know that it will hurt their hearts, so Ge Jing's doing so is not wrong, it is really human common sense.
Later, Ge Jing's husband also told Jin Bing that in fact, Ge Jing was also very embarrassed, her adoptive parents have always loved her, and now they are not in good health and need to take medicine for a long time, and she does not want her adoptive parents to feel uncomfortable because of this matter.
For her biological parents, Ge Jing wanted to see her in her heart, but in front of the grace of parenting, she could not do this, she was afraid that doing so would hurt her adoptive parents, and finally Ge Jing still refused to meet.
However, Ge Jing presented Jin Bing with a CD of her marriage, so that her biological parents could see her to some extent.
After finding Mother Du's own daughter, although Ge Jing refused to visit her, Jin Bing did not think to hide it, and after thinking about it for a long time, she still decided to confess everything to Mother Du.
One day, Jin Bing tentatively asked Mother Du:
"Wouldn't you be sad if I wasn't your biological daughter?"
Who knows, Mother Du said that she already knew that Jin Bing was not her own daughter.
It turned out that as early as the second year of Jin Bing's recognition, Mother Du learned from the mouth of her little grandson that Jin Bing was not her own daughter, but Mother Du was reluctant to Jin Bing, and she was afraid that Jin Bing would leave her, so she always pretended to be confused.
After that, Jin Bing saw that Mother Du already knew everything, so she decided not to hide anything anymore, and told Mother Du bluntly that he had found her own daughter, but the biological daughter did not want to recognize her.
Knowing that her own daughter did not want to recognize herself, Mother Du was silent.
However, she also expressed understanding, although she would like to talk to her little daughter, she did not want to break the quiet life of her little daughter because of herself, knowing that her little daughter was living well, she was already very satisfied.
During the National Day in 2012, Zhu Guancui died of illness.
Before dying, she took Jin Bing's hand and said:
I didn't see my little daughter, but I had one more "biological" daughter, and I died without regrets!
At the funeral of Mother Du, Jin Bing and his wife attended as daughters and son-in-law to bid farewell to the "mother" who had accompanied them for six years.
In ancient times, there were "give people roses, and leave incense in their hands", and now there are "filial piety on behalf of people, and there are incense in their hands".
Nanjing girl Jin Bing used the most beautiful lies in the world to compose the most beautiful hymn in the world.
It is not difficult to be filial to one's own parents, but it is difficult to filial piety to people who have never known each other as if they were biological mothers;
It is not difficult to perform filial piety once, but it is difficult to perform filial piety for 6 years as a day.
When we are repeatedly hurt by all kinds of deception and indifference in society, and gradually no longer believe that there is truth in the world, the deeds of Jin Bingdai for 6 years of filial piety are precious, and she makes us believe again that there is true love in the world and true love in the world;
With her kindness and love, she injected a warm current of warmth into the society that has gradually entered the cold season...