In 2010, Huang Han first appeared on the stage of "Do Not Disturb".
Before becoming an "emotional mentor", Huang Han had been teaching at the party school for many years.
In the show, as long as you hear that adult beauty is a very beautiful thing, you will feel very solid in your heart.
Because Huang Han always showed great intellect, although her speech did not have Meng Fei and Le Jiaduo, as long as she listened to Huang Han's speech, a feeling like a spring breeze would come to her face.
She loves to encourage guests and give hope.
Many people will also wonder, as an emotional mentor, what is Huang Han's emotional life, and whether she has practiced it to bring positive energy to people?
However, what many people don't know is that Huang Han is the one who takes the initiative in her feelings, and what are the little-known stories behind her.
01.
Huang Han was born in Xinjiang in 1966, and when she was a child, Huang Han was lively and cheerful, like a little boy.
At that time, Huang Han liked to play, and every day before the class was finished, Huang Han began to calculate where to pass the time after school.
She often took the bucket and ran to the small river with her pants legs to catch small fish and shrimp.
Such a life is carefree, but when Huang Han was five years old, the family moved to Yangzhou, Jiangsu Province, because of her parents' work.
Before going to Yangzhou, Huang Han followed her parents to Rugao to visit relatives, which is the birthplace of Huang Han's father, which is rich in products and is a land of fish and rice.
After spending a few days in her father's hometown, Huang Han's body showed symptoms of discomfort, and her whole body was covered with small red bumps, which frightened everyone.
Later, Huang Han learned that it was because he had come to Rugao for the first time and was not satisfied with the water and soil.
But the young Huang Han was very confused: "I am all of the blood here, why do I still disagree?" ”
With such doubts, Huang Han began her life in Yangzhou.
It's just that In Huang Han's heart, he has been thinking about Rugao's hometown.
02.
In Yangzhou, Huang Han needs to adapt to a new school, a new learning environment, a new place, and Huang Han feels that it is difficult to integrate into her classmates when she enters school.
Although Huang Han's results are very top-notch, she has no friends, which makes Huang Han very distressed.
So Huang Han found her parents and expressed her situation to her parents, her mother was very patient, and told Huang Han a lot of cultural differences between the north and south, and through understanding, Huang Han also slowly accepted everything in Yangzhou.
After that, Huang Han made a lot of good friends at school, as long as she was brave enough, she could overcome all difficulties.
Time passed in a hurry, and in the blink of an eye, to the tense third year of high school, after the college entrance examination, Huang Han was admitted to Nankai University.
There, Huang Han enriched herself and found the love of her life.
Huang Han is very planned in college, not only the academic arrangements are orderly, but her extracurricular life is also colorful.
In 1991, Huang Han graduated from university with a bachelor's degree, but Huang Han did not choose to go directly into social work, but chose to go to graduate school.
Huang Han's graduate student also studied at Nankai University, and it was also at this stage that Huang Han made a boyfriend.
Before this, Huang Han often fantasized that her other half was a science man in the north, who wanted to be one meter seven or eight tall, to be able to dress up, like to wear black suits, and the age difference between the two was three to five years old, which was no better.
Although Huang Han has been in contact with two people who have only met these conditions, there are only a few who can really go to the end.
One of the boys felt that Huang Han's personality was too cheerful and gentle enough, and the other boy felt that Huang Han was not beautiful enough to be his favorite model.
However, Huang Han, who has always been optimistic, still yearns for love.
03.
One day, Huang Han went to the library to study as usual, and when she passed the playground, she saw a boy playing guitar and singing.
With the breeze and the pleasant sound of the guitar, Huang Han's heart beat faster.
After that day, Huang Han remembered the appearance of this boy, the feeling of heartbeat, and Huang Han has always remembered it in her heart.
Soon after, Huang Han met a boy playing guitar on the playground at an event organized by the school.
This boy is called Yuan Jian, 2 years older than Huang Han, Huang Han took the initiative to talk to Yuan Jian, and the two felt that each other was good in the process of interaction.
But thinking back to the previous two times, Huang Han flinched a little, and the boy in front of him, Huang Han did not act rashly.
In order to get to know each other better, Huang Han and Yuan Jian had several more contacts at various school activities.
Huang Han also couldn't say clearly, obviously this boy did not meet his expectations, but as long as he was with Yuan Jian, there were always endless words, and his eyes always stayed on Yuan Jian.
The two had met more often, and Huang Han felt that she could no longer wait in place.
So Huang Han took the initiative to write a letter to Yuan Jian, and at the beginning Huang Han was very subtle, and the letter only stated that he wanted to make friends with Yuan Jian and learn from each other.
After that, Huang Han was recognized by Yuan Jian, and the two stayed together in school.
After a long time of love, Huang Han confessed to Yuan Jian, and after this layer of window paper was broken, the two officially became boyfriend and girlfriend.
In 1991, Huang Han received a master's degree from Nankai University, and in the same year, her relationship with Yuan Jian also had results.
That year, 25-year-old Huang Han was married back home by Yuan Jian.
Six years later, 31-year-old Huang Han became pregnant, and the arrival of her daughter Yuan Shimeng added a lot of laughter to the previous two-person world.
Although the family has children, Huang Han has not stopped improving her own pace, and after giving birth to her daughter, she entered Nanjing University to pursue a doctorate in law.
04.
At the age of 36, Huang Han began her teaching career, and after coming out of Nanjing University, Huang Han became a teacher at the Party School.
She was also very good in school, and was awarded multiple titles, and her husband Yuan Jian also became a well-known critic in the industry.
In 2008, Huang Han and Meng Fei met, and because of a show, the two became good friends.
Two years later, Jiangsu Satellite TV launched a life service program, and the host set Meng Fei, which was called "Non-sincere Do Not Disturb".
After the program was broadcast, the ratings went all the way up, but while the program was popular, there were many problems, and even some broke the news that the plots in the program were scripts and had no authenticity.
Among them, the female guest Mano was even ridiculed by the whole network group.
In the midst of countless controversies, the program team realized that it needed to change, so Meng Fei wanted to make a contribution and invited his friend Huang Han to be a mentor in the program.
At that time, Huang Han had a certain reputation in the local area, plus she was knowledgeable and had lecturing experience, and when she was put into the program, she would not be afraid of the stage.
It's just that when Huang Han heard such a thing, she didn't want to participate, because the stage is a big place, and many unpredictable situations may occur.
What Huang Han prefers is to teach on the podium in a down-to-earth manner.
But thinking of Meng Fei's difficult situation, Huang Han was a little wavering, in Huang Han's heart, Meng Fei was very righteous, and when he had difficulties, Meng Fei came to help without saying anything.
Now That Meng Fei needs me, how can I be invisible?
But Huang Han wanted to record a program while going to class, which would bring a lot of pressure to her life, so Huang Han consulted with her husband, and Yuan Jian also expressed support for her wife and understood her wife.
05.
In June 2010, new guest Huang Han met for the first time with the audience in front of the TV.
However, at the beginning of Huang Han's performance, it was complained by netizens, and many viewers bluntly said that it was incompatible with the program, like an outsider.
However, Huang Han, who was criticized, did not give up easily, in order to achieve a better program effect, Huang Han consulted Meng Fei as soon as he had time, and even kept looking at the previous program content, learning little by little.
At the most difficult moment, Huang Han was asked why a good teacher was inappropriate and wanted to participate in such an entertainment program, but Huang Han did not defend anything, but just smiled and faced it.
After several periods of running-in, Huang Han gradually found her own rhythm, and she began to become targeted, clear in her thinking, and very quick in response.
Slowly, the audience seems to see Huang Han's shining point, it turns out that this tutor is not rigid at all, nor will it be a face to educate others.
For a time, Huang Han's intellectuality, empathy, witty words and other advantages attracted many viewers.
Over time, the audience changed from not being able to accept Huang Han to not watching the program without Huang Han, and it is conceivable that Huang Han has put a lot of effort into the program.
In 2014, when Huang Han was recording a program, she received a special gift from her daughter, and on the big screen, Huang Han heard the song her daughter sang.
Huang Han's way of getting along with her daughter is very special, treating each other as good friends, rather than the relationship between elders and juniors.
Huang Han expressed understanding for her daughter to grow up to have her own world.
Because the child is getting older, she is in contact with more and more people, and her world is becoming more and more abundant, and the children have their own interests, and they naturally run in different directions.
Even in Huang Han's view, if the daughter has been dependent on herself, it is a failure as a mother.
In life, Huang Han also constantly restrained herself from always teaching her daughter as a teacher, although she said that she was a teacher, if she always spoke in the tone of teaching young people and told people a lot of truths, the child would definitely be disgusted.
Therefore, Huang Han has always been a respectful attitude towards her daughter, and she has expressed understanding for her daughter's choice and interest.
06.
From ancient times to the present, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a hot topic, in real life, many wives are at home, it is difficult to get along with their mother-in-law, so that a happy married life has become a luxury.
But Huang Han has her own set of methods when dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, in Huang Han's view, two strangers who did not intersect before, because a man, to live under the same roof, is indeed a difficult thing.
For such a situation, Huang Han gave three things that need to be taboo, one is to treat the mother-in-law as his love enemy, the second is to think that the mother-in-law is a burden, and the third is to treat the mother-in-law as his mother.
At home, Huang Han has a good relationship with her mother-in-law, and the two often have endless words, just like girlfriends who have known each other for a long time.
It was only when the family was harmonious that Huang Han's career changed.
In 2016, Huang Han bid farewell to the stage of "Do Not Disturb".
As for what reasons must be left, Huang Han said that she neglected her family because she worked too much, her daughter lacked the company of her mother, and her husband also took on too much at home.
6 years to accompany everyone, Huang Han had to temporarily leave the stage, after leaving "Non-sincere Do Not Disturb", Huang Han put all her energy into the family and school, she took more time to accompany her husband and daughter, and concentrated on teaching.
For the current life, Huang Han feels very content, because she is rich in her heart, so there will be no lack, even if she is involved in the entertainment industry, but Huang Han's heart has never cared about fame and fortune, a career, a family, is perfect.
07.
Just for so many years, Huang Han has been thinking about her hometown Rugao, Huang Han recalled that when she was 28 years old, she once returned to Rugao, and that time Huang Han went back with her parents.
In Rugao, Huang Han met many relatives, all of whom were her father's brothers.
Only today, Huang Han's father has been gone for many years, Huang Han likes to eat Rugao's soba noodle cake, because his father often made it for breakfast before his death, but after his father left, he can no longer eat such authentic so authentic soba noodle cake.
For Huang Han, Rugao is her hometown, as Rugao's daughter, Huang Han said that although she did not have much time to stay there, her feelings and thoughts for Rugao have never decreased.
Even if you weren't born in Rugao, if you had the bloodline there, it would never change.
08.
In 2018, in front of the big screen, we saw Huang Han's figure again, and that familiar face reappeared.
When she was active, Huang Han also participated in the recording of many variety shows, and she was also the "emotional mentor" of the year, good at guiding everyone.
Today, Huang Han is 56 years old, she and her husband Yuan Jian, have gone through 31 years, the two in these 31 years, there has never been a scandal.
Good feelings have always been two-way, and they know how to manage feelings in order to harvest love.
Give people warmth and spread love, which is why Huang Han continues to shine on the stage!