I don't know if you find it, now many men have lost their way to life, facing the pressure of life, car loans, mortgage pressures, etc., have pressed themselves breathlessly, want to refute, want to resist, but powerless, most of them eventually chose a mediocre life.
But have you forgotten the blood of your youth, want to be a big hero, want to save the world, want to become a unique person in the world, but the adult world is so easy, and eventually become the person you hate the most, once when you were young, hate smoking and drinking games to play games without making mistakes, but you can't imagine that now in the face of various life pressures, you have become that kind of person, but there is no way, the adult world is like this, you can only rely on smoking and drinking to dispel your sorrows, rely on playing games to vent, Let yourself forget the unhappy past, and over time it will be related to "live out yourself, stay up, and love life." "Gradually go farther, can not resist the reality, and finally lost the passion and vitality of the past."
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Back to the point, the main reason why we have become like this is because we are not capable and not strong enough, and if you want to become a strong man, you must do the following things:
The first thing is to have a healthy body
There is nothing else to be sick, nothing else to have no money, the body is the capital of the revolution, no matter how much money you earn is not yours, it is written very clearly, it belongs to the Chinese Bank, only what is spent is yours, in short, money is only money, a healthy body is really your own, now many bosses, living a comfortable life, but the stomach is getting bigger and bigger, the body is becoming weaker and weaker, at this time he even if he has money, there is no health and what is the use.
A healthy body is a bank, how much ability you have, how much he has savings, so you must have a healthy body, so you need to choose some appropriate exercise to enhance your body, such as some stretching exercises, sit-ups, sprints, etc., you have to strengthen yourself, shape a more powerful force, this is through their own self-control need to do, and then on the one hand is to supplement nutrition, choose healthy food, appropriately supplement some vitamins, do not fish and meat all day, As long as you are strong, you can protect the people you want to protect.
The second thing is to increase your knowledge
Live to learn from the old, learn endlessly, give you a choice, you have to have a correct value, life is like a game, since it is a game, no one wants to lose, since you want to win, you have to have a rich consciousness, you have to look at multiple steps, look farther, and take corresponding measures, just like the glory of the king This game, if you want to get a high score, you must have a high segment of consciousness, have a high segment of the operation, to a high segment, the technology is almost the same, then you want to rely on the technical score has not gone up What you need to rely on at this time is your consciousness plus your operation, life is also like this, from the day you step into the society, you should set a clear goal for yourself, such as buying a car of your own before the age of 25, how many years later in each apartment and so on.
Want to enrich their brains to find a variety of useful resources for themselves, so that you can survive on this earth, become a successful individual, just like you run a company, first set up a company, in the operation of the listing and so on, everyone's brain is like a treasure, and knowledge is the key to open this treasure, you want to succeed, you must have knowledge, in some special cases, make useful choices through knowledge, by reading various books, reading every day, let him become a part of your life, Not only can you enrich your posture, but you can also make your life more colorful, read a chapter every day, a day, a month, a year, etc., a long time to accumulate, believe me, your efforts will not let you waste.
The third is one's own purpose, one's goal
First establish a career, then start a family, I think this sentence should be said to be true, many people first start a family and then establish a business, but I don't know if everyone has thought about it, just like everyone in their youth, in school, at the age of their own nothing, met a girl who wants to protect a lifetime, do you know how helpless you are, what do you do, put your goal first, do you know what the most powerful thing in the world is, that is, human emotions, emotions.
Have you ever made a regrettable decision when you are angry, how many people have lost the person they love the most because of gambling, in fact, a hug can solve the problem, because of stubbornness and face, a turn, but it has become a lifetime of regrets, we live in a world where most people have emotional control, learn to control their emotions, let emotions become the driving force to achieve great goals, rather than let emotions control you, use you, when emotions control you, you give up the initiative in life.