Daughter Kao Kao Ji
Zhou Xiaozhen
On the fifteenth day of the first month, I returned home after watching fireworks in the unit. The daughter said, "Mom, my score has passed the retest line of Chinese Min University." "Really?" "Hmm! The grades are not high, just cross the line, and go to the re-examination after a week. The daughter said quietly.
Speaking of her daughter's graduate school, happiness, helplessness, and torment are intertwined. The daughter has always been at the top of the school from elementary school to middle school, and was selected to enter the top class when she was in high school. However, in the third year of high school, his academic performance went up and down, and he was only admitted to Hainan University during the college entrance examination. My daughter wanted to re-study, and after another year of fighting to enter her ideal university, she was obstructed by us and failed to achieve her wish.
The daughter is now studying agriculture and forestry economic management at Hainan University, and her excellent grades are still excellent class cadres and secretaries of the league branch. Her daughter's situation can be guaranteed, but she gave up her qualification to a classmate with the same conditions, saying that she would rely on her own strength to enter a good university. Last winter, she told me that she wanted to enter the graduate school of Renmin University, and I advised her not to set her goal too high, and she said that she would not be able to pass the examination without trying.
In the following days, the daughter got up early and studied in the dark. On the eve of the exam, my daughter suddenly called and said, "Mom, I haven't reviewed a lot of knowledge, what should I do?" I encouraged, "Just try your best, don't think too much, Mom believes you can get what you want." "That being said, in fact, I feel in my heart that my daughter may not be able to pass the exam."
After the exam, the daughter said that she might not be able to pass the exam. If I can't pass the exam, I will go back to my hometown to find a job, this is my reply to her adventurous action. She suddenly told me that I had passed the retest line, and there was a little excitement in my heart, who knew that what followed was the real suffering. The re-examination requires physical examination, written examination, interview and other links, the interview should submit the paper, PPT demonstration, and also require the whole process of English answer, the most critical is to contact the tutor. From receiving the re-examination notice to the examination in just five days, the daughter's brothers, sisters, teachers, etc. have joined her examination assistant team, explaining her precautions and helping to revise the paper. The daughter did not dare to waste a minute and devoted herself to preparing for the battle.
After the exam, the daughter said pessimistically: "There is little hope, there are high-scoring students in finance, accounting and other majors transferred into this major to participate in the interview." She transferred to Lanzhou University's Pratacultural Science major. I also felt sorry and said, "Come, take a picture of you on campus as a souvenir." The daughter said emphatically: "If not, I will definitely be admitted to the People's Congress, and I will also be admitted to the People's Congress in World War II." "I advised my daughter to go back to prepare for the exam at Lanzhou University, but she was not willing. The eve before I was preparing to go back to Lanzhou to prepare for Lanzhou University, I was flipping through the books, flipping through the mail of my daughter, standing up from the bed, dancing with my hands, saying that the teacher had replied! The teacher replied that she would not be able to know whether she would be admitted until the results of the re-examination came out, but invited her to participate in the group's research activities in Yibin. At this time, she did not drill the horns, and said open-mindedly: "Whether she can be admitted to Renmin University is no longer important, and I am very lucky to be able to study with the tutors of Renmin University." On the plane back, my daughter still reluctantly told me that she did not enter the ideal university in the college entrance examination, and she has always had regrets, and when she was a sophomore, she was ready to enter the graduate school of Chinese Min University, and she paid a lot for the graduate school.
Next, prepare for Lanzhou University. Lanzhou University's examination was relatively easy, and soon after the re-examination, her daughter received a pre-recorded notice from Lanzhou University and asked to fill in the information. However, the daughter has not filled in the transfer information of Lanzhou University, and Renmin University has not issued an admission information for a long time. Whether or not it can be admitted to Chinese Min University is still unknown, if you do not fill in Lanzhou University, Renmin University can not be admitted, then what to do? The mild-mannered daughter ignored the persuasion of her family and always insisted on her own approach. Although she insisted, she was also very entangled, and she did the analysis of the intersection of Shanglan University and the National People's Congress, she said: "When I am tired, I think it is very good to choose Landa, don't think so much, fill in the adjustment system, you don't have to tangle anymore, graduate and go back to your hometown to work, how comfortable!" "But she feels that she still chooses the people's congress, there are many excellent people around the people's congress, and her own shortcomings are like spiegels, forcing herself to move forward." Let me wait, in case the npc can be admitted, and I fill in the Lan Da, I will not lose touch with the NPC. ”
As a mother, my child has worked hard and struggled, and I can't forcibly break her wings to fly, but can only silently support her strong backing. The next few days my daughter and I were tormented by waiting. Every day, I browse the information on the admissions website of the Renmin University and Landa University, on the one hand, there is no information in the admission system of the Renmin University, and on the other hand, the transfer system of Lanzhou University is close. My heart hangs every day, as the closing time of the Lanzhou University adjustment system is approaching, I am more and more depressed, I feel that such support is too risky, and I can't help but persuade my daughter, don't wait, fill in Lanta, my daughter still insists on her original intention. The day before the system was about to shut down, my daughter called me to show renmin university admissions network and said that admissions had been made. I couldn't wait to open the website and finally found the name of my daughter in the numerous lists, and she was admitted to the Agricultural Management Department of the College of Agriculture and Rural Development of Chinese Min University. The heart has finally settled, and my daughter's persistence, persistence, adventure, high goals and what I think are self-inadequacies are all worth learning from now on.
We parents all ask our children to have mature experience, to plan their children's future in a conformist way, but children do not struggle, do not try how to know how to know that they can't do it, challenge themselves to challenge the limits and the courage to fight gave me a vivid lesson in life. May my daughter walk more and more steadily on the road ahead, and the more she walks, the better.
(About the author: Zhou Xiaozhen, working at Gansu Xiyu Tourism Culture Investment Co., Ltd., has published many literary works and a collection of prose works.) ）