Author | Li Meixuan
Parents in the world all hope that their sons will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes.
Aunt Tan and her husband, also looking forward to Jackie Chan, even if the family's economy is not good, but still use the strength of the whole family to provide for the only son to go to school. The son is also very hard, every year is a bully, and then with Aunt Tan and the old two mouths to borrow 200,000 yuan from the east and the west, domineering exposed to study abroad, and then settled abroad to work, get married, and gradually pay off the domestic debt.
The son is so prominent, Aunt Tan and her husband talk about their sons before and after talking about their sons always smiling, and they have also gained a lot of envy in the family circle.
The only deficiency is that the son rarely returns to China, saying that he wants to support his family and find a way to base himself on work and social circles, it is not easy to survive abroad and it is not easy to earn money, the air ticket money is too expensive, and he can save a little.
Aunt Tan and his wife, who were originally from poor backgrounds, naturally understood their son, and also felt sorry for their son, of course, they did not require their son to return to China every year, so that their son never came back from studying abroad, and it was ten years in a flash.
However, as they grew older, the health of Aunt Tan and his wife was worse than a day, and finally, Aunt Tan's husband suffered from a terminal illness and lay in the hospital, thinking that he had not seen his son for many years, and his life was short, so he wanted to see his son and granddaughter.
At this time, Aunt Tan's health is not very good, and take care of her hospitalized husband, although there are two nephews who run before and after to help, but the nephews also have jobs and families, Aunt Tan still very much hopes that her son can come back to take the handle, at least to discuss some things with her son, so she has played several long words to let her son how to take the child's wife back.
The son came back, alone.
As soon as the son returned, he complained to Aunt Tan, saying that the work task was too heavy, the boss was harsh, and he could only stay in The country for two or three days, and there was no way to stay and serve his father.
When Aunt Tan heard this, her heart softened again, and she waved her hand to agree to her son's departure.
After the son left, after another month or so, Aunt Tan's husband finally ran out of oil lamps, and before leaving, he kept looking at the door of the ward and chanting his son's name. However, until the funeral of Aunt Tan's husband, the son did not appear. The two nephews who helped Aunt Tan arrange the aftermath before and after the run were Aunt Tan's two nephews.
Aunt Tan's heart was broken, but it was not easy to think of her son abroad, so she forgave her son.
Later, Aunt Tan's sister saw Aunt Tan living alone in the countryside and felt sorry for her sister, so she took Aunt Tan to her home in the county town and lived with Aunt Tan, saying that the sisters could also take care of each other. The nephews also dragged the family back from time to time, and they were also quite filial to Aunt Tan, and Aunt Tan was in a better mood.
Two years later, Aunt Tan's sister died of illness.
Unexpectedly, this time, Aunt Tan's son dragged the family back from abroad, and the family of three stayed in the county hotel for many days, and also brought a lot of handwritten notes to Aunt Tan and her nephews.
Aunt Tan thought that her son's conscience had been discovered, and she knew how to be grateful, and she was quite happy, so she forgave her son for all the shortcomings before.
However, one day, Aunt Tan returned to the village and heard the gossip of the neighbors in the village, saying that Aunt Tan's son came back this time, in fact, because Aunt Tan's house was going to be demolished, and according to the area, three houses could be divided, and the city was worth millions of yuan.
Aunt Tan was taken aback and quickly went to the director of the village committee to inquire.
The director laughed and said that there was indeed such a thing, and it would be implemented in a few days, and because the director and Aunt Tan's son were middle school classmates, he also told Aunt Tan's son about it.
Aunt Tan was both happy and disappointed. Happily, there has been no savings over the years, and it is rare for my son to return to China, and now that I have such a pension fee in my hand, I am naturally steadfast in my heart; what is lost is that the real purpose of my son's return to China is to get this relocation fee?
The more Aunt Tan thought about it, the more lost she became, so she simply asked her son straight away.
The son honestly admitted that the main purpose of returning to China is indeed so, the son also said that living in a foreign country is too stressful, no money is not enough, I hope that Aunt Tan will leave a house to live in, sell the other two houses, room money to him, so that he can be easier abroad.
Aunt Tan resolutely refused her son's request, saying that over the years, two nephews ran before and after to take care of her and her wife, and the son never bothered to ask her parents, and when the house was divided, she would keep a house to live in, and the other two houses were rented, and when she couldn't move, she sold the set she lived in into the nursing home, and left the other two houses to the two nephews after a hundred years.
As soon as the daughter-in-law heard this, she pulled her daughter around and left. The son was also angry, and finally he couldn't convince Aunt Tan and left.
Later, Aunt Tan was assigned to the house and made a will. The nephews all said that Aunt Tan did not have to do this, even if there was no house for them, they would take good care of Aunt Tan.
However, Aunt Tan insisted on her own opinion, and said both sadly and helplessly: Others say that I have a good fate, and the son who has been trained has studied abroad and opened a company, which is unique. However, the thing I regret the most in my life is to cultivate my son too well!
The above is that I saw a netizen's complaint on a social platform.
I remembered a few years ago a hot series "All is Good", the eldest son of the Su family is a bully, Su Mudong cobbled together a large amount of money to let the eldest son study abroad, and then the eldest son rarely returned to China once in a few years, but opened the "Cloud Filial Piety" mode, remotely directed how the younger siblings were filial to their parents, often blamed the younger siblings on the phone for not doing a good job that was not done well, it was not easy to return to the country, and always criticized the younger siblings for not taking good care of their parents, so that the younger siblings were quite dissatisfied with him...
Aunt Tan's son, because he is an only son, not only has even the model of "cloud filial piety" been omitted, but also naturally believes that the inheritance of his parents after a hundred years should belong to him, and in his heart, he only has to get no pay, complete exquisite egoist, such a son, not too out of the ordinary, but too out of the ordinary!
Moreover, I also thought that Aunt Tan and her husband had lived in the countryside for most of their lives, and they might not know what educational methods were, nor did they have a good idea of educating their sons, and the so-called "cultivation" was only material training, and did not give the son a real psychological training, and the real meaning was not to cultivate a son with a career.
However, the son is not only a bully, but also abroad to study, settle down to live, compared to Aunt Tan's two nephews, can be regarded as a person who has seen the world, but he has taken the initiative to give up the self-cultivation of morality, organically combining the dross of Chinese civilization and the dross of capitalism, and has not appeared in morality to disdainful, sad and lamentable!
I think that a child has the definition of success, that is, he or she can not only rely on his own hard work to get the life he wants, but also have the ability to become a solid shoulder that his parents can rely on when they are old, rather than worrying about the pension money in their parents' hands when they have difficulties and refuse to pay even a little sincerity and help for their elderly and sick parents.
I hope that parents will know how to cultivate their children in moral education, education, sports and aesthetic education in the future to achieve all-round development, and can truly cultivate children with outstanding achievements!
I also hope that those who are children can have and understand the depth and breadth of family affection and blood, and truly become children who have a career in the eyes of their parents!