Today is my son's birthday, I am cooking the last dish in the kitchen, Xinping shouted at me in the living room: Xiaona, the unit has an emergency, I have to go right away, I am coming back in the evening I am celebrating my son's birthday. Before I could react, he was already out the door, and the next scene I saw made me fall into an ice cave...
Shinpei left, and I stood in the living room with my apron on, dazed.
At this time, the son Dongdong shouted in the bedroom: Mom, come and see, Dad is sitting on the big ben.
As soon as I heard the words "Big Ben", I suddenly became nervous, I ran to the bedroom, looked in the direction my son pointed, and gradually disappeared from my sight, it was my girlfriend Xiao Ran's car...
Xiao Ran and I are college classmates, and after graduation, we came to this city together for employment.
Xiao Ran and my personality are just the opposite, I am good at being quiet and not moving, she is active and not quiet. We, two people with different personalities, have become girlfriends who talk about everything.
Xiao Ran not only has a cheerful personality, but also has a pair of beautiful billets, which is a typical person who sees people love and blossoms. During college, she was the object of the handsome guys' pursuit, and after joining the work, she became a goddess in the eyes of her colleagues!
In March 2010, she and our president's son Zhao Yixing flashed marriage, in fact, her secret I have long known, she and Zhao Yixing are married to Fengzi.
From her marriage to the birth of children, I did not suffer less, she not only did not appreciate it, but also treated me as a, I was angry with her, she smiled and said: Who called you my girlfriend? Deserve!
I was so upset by her that I couldn't stop crying!
On the National Day of 2010, Zhao Yixing introduced me to an object, his name is Li Xinping, a buddy of the line, 1.8 meters tall, a graduate student, and the director of the business department of the Municipal Construction Bank. He usually doesn't talk much, and is a typical stable and handsome guy.
The first time we met, it was Xiao Ran who accompanied me, on the way back, Xiao Ran was very happy, she praised Li Xinmin as the best person in the world, she also joked to me: Oh, I really don't know that we have more handsome people here than Zhao Yixing, you know that there is Li Xinmin's number, kill me, I will not marry Zhao Yixing...
We are all old, both sides are also very close, in 2011 May Day, Li Xinmin and I entered the marriage hall!
Xiao Ran and I got closer, and Zhao Yixing and Li Xinmin also became good friends, and as long as there was time for the four of us, they would get together. Xiao Ran often made some very explicit jokes with Xinmin, which I never remembered in my heart, but just laughed at it.
Last year, when my son was on summer vacation, I took annual leave and went back to my mother's house with my son for a month.
When I came back, there was a smell of perfume used by Xiao Ran at home, and I asked Xinmin: Has Xiao Ran ever come?
Xinmin said: Last night she and a group of people had dinner at our house. I'm too real to take it seriously.
Since that time, the new people have been working overtime more often, and I asked him what was the matter?
Xinmin said: The president is old, and many things have been pushed to me as the vice president, which is also something that cannot be done.
Think about it, Xinmin is young, sharing more work is also a good thing for him, you can accumulate some work experience, and lay a good foundation for his future ascension...
A few years ago, Xiao Ran bought a big Ben, and the two families still celebrated together, and what puzzled me was that the money for the meal was paid by the new people. To this end, Zhao Yi and his party did not hesitate to talk to the Xinmin Theory.
Xiao Ran looked at Xinmin and smiled all the time, laughing so much that my heart was hairy, I didn't dare to think about that aspect, because he was two people, one was my favorite, the other was my favorite...
Today is the son's birthday, said well, accompany the son to celebrate the birthday, the dishes are ready, a phone call, he hurried away, he said that the unit has an emergency, why did xiao Ran run?
After thinking about it, I finally woke up, I thought for a long time, dialed Xiao Ran's phone, I told her that today is my son's birthday, let her come to my house for dinner.
Xiao Ran said: You didn't say earlier, I went to play with a group, it has come out more than 100 kilometers, so let's go at night.
Putting down Xiao Ran's phone, I called a group of people again, and the line told me that he was on a business trip to Henan and would not be able to go back for a while and a half...
I understood it all, I was afraid of what was coming, I lay on the bed and cried, my son asked me what I was crying?
I was speechless...
We have made such jokes, saying: fireproof, anti-theft, anti-girlfriend.
Unexpectedly, this matter really made me stand up, to be honest, I love Xinmin, I did not have the courage to divorce Xinmin, I did not want my son to lose this complete home, I fell into extreme confusion.
Conclusion:
As you said: fireproof, anti-theft and anti-girlfriend, you are too real, you believe in girlfriends too much, and the result is that you really walk into the pain.
In the face of the betrayal of your lover, in the face of your girlfriend's stealing (love), you can imagine your mood at this moment.
Since you don't want to lose your whole family, you don't want to lose your loved ones, you have to have the courage to face the facts. Anything that can't be seen at any time is never on the table.
You can talk to your husband and girlfriend separately and tell them clearly that the reason why you don't want to make things bigger is to take care of your children and your husband's face, as long as they cut them off from now on, you can let them go, otherwise, the consequences are very serious...
Everyone understands people and believes that your concessions will definitely get the results you want!
Life is a mess, and no one is moving forward in continuous straightening out!