Jane Austen said in Pride and Prejudice:
"It is a universally recognized truth that a rich bachelor always wants to marry a wife, and whenever such a bachelor moves to a new place, his neighbors, who know nothing of his thoughts, regard him as the property of his daughter."
In the context of the eightieth century, some parents will marry their daughters to rich people as the goal of the family, with the progress of the times, many women's academic qualifications have improved, their horizons have broadened, and their thinking has changed greatly.
But it is inconceivable that there are still women who marry rich people as their own mate selection criteria, and even do not hesitate to clearly mark the price, and put forward the amount of the bride price at the first meeting.
On the Internet, seeing a rich second generation of two blind dates, enough to remind the girl, when you want to marry into the rich, but also to see their own ability, too superficial chase, will only be despised by the other party.
01. Bride price 500,000, want to be taken care of free of charge
The man is known as Jia Ge, his parents are in business, and there are several companies in the family.
He is an only child, working in his own company, responsible for a company's business, the company's annual profit is several million, he has his own 3 suites, usually like to live with his parents, after all, the villa is big, and the nanny cooks.
There is no shortage of beautiful women around Jia Ge, but he can't meet like-minded people, and he feels that if the other party only values money, it is not interesting to be together, and sooner or later they will be separated because of money problems.
He signed up for a blind date, with only one purpose, that is, to find pure feelings, to make his life comfortable and romantic, the first blind date, the girl is beautiful, claims to work in a beauty hospital, is a nurse.
Her hobbies are face making, nose augmentation and chin surgery, and she feels that she is beautiful and an excellent asset that can meet better objects.
As soon as the two met, she was blunt, the bride price should be 500,000, ten thousand pocket money per month, what she usually likes to buy, the boyfriend should also support, Jia Ge reminded her: "Girls are better independent, others are willing to give you this money, and will also put forward corresponding conditions." ”
The girl was dismissive: "You don't want to take money, it's because you are not capable enough, my girlfriends around me have generous boyfriends, my parents have trained me to be so excellent, why can't I?" ”
In her heart, excellence is to have a beautiful appearance, if it is only so, it is too superficial, and it is naturally difficult to meet the right person, because those rich people do not lack vases.
02. Concealing identity, the attitude of blind dates is very dramatic
The girlfriend in Jia Ge's heart is a zhishu Dali, who has a certain sense of enterprise, and with the efforts of the red bride, she really found such a girl.
Girl Li Dan works in a foreign-funded enterprise, bachelor degree, monthly salary of about 6,000, as well as commissions and year-end awards, she has also been in love, but the man's family is unable to buy a house in the city, the two broke up.
Looking at each other's photos, Jia Ge is very moved, Li Dan's long hair is fluttering, there is an elegant intellectual temperament, the red lady made an appointment to meet the time of the two, and also kindly reminded Jia Ge to hide his identity when meeting to avoid the other party's preconceived impression.
Li Dan came, and after she sat down, she said: "Let's seize the time, I came out on leave, and my boss still refused to approve the leave, it is not easy to come out once." ”
Jia Ge had more good feelings, busy asking the girl what requirements, Li Dan looked at him, to tell the truth, Jia Ge is not dominant in appearance, dark skin, looks very old, she has displeasure in her eyes, and asked: "What do you do?" How much does it earn in a month? ”
Originally wanted to tell the truth, considering the suggestion of the Red Lady, Jia Ge replied: "The staff of a private company has a monthly salary of four or five thousand." ”
Li Dan listened to a sneer: "Waste my time, who is the person I introduced?" Is that enough income? ”
Jia Ge couldn't figure out why he had to be disliked because his income was similar to that of a girl, so he quickly said, "I still work part-time and will have another income." ”
Li Dan softened his tone and asked, "Do you have a room at home?" I didn't want to live with my in-laws after I got married. ”
Jia Ge said cautiously, "Is there a house in the suburbs?" My parents had a good temper and I lived with them all the time. ”
"Then leave it alone." Li Dan stood up to leave, Jia Ge quickly stopped, suggested to talk again, he can see through, such conditions can not keep the other party, simply told the truth.
"My family is in the suburbs, there is a villa of more than 600 square meters, I do not have a clear salary, the annual income is about 3 million, the family's assets have not been counted, probably tens of millions of it, there are houses in the city, but they are empty, and it is not interesting to live alone."
When these words came out, Li Dan's face turned visibly cloudy to clear, and she did not hide her inner joy, saying: "I am also willing to live with my in-laws and mother-in-law, and when I look at it again, you are also quite handsome." ”
If Li Dan was in a calm mood, maybe Jia Ge was really willing, but seeing her chameleon expression, he felt bored and began a series of counterattacks.
"After getting married, I don't want my wife to show her face, my parents urge me to have children, a boy 800,000, a girl 400,000, and 2 nannies."
Li Dan smiled: "I just like children, no problem." ”
Jia Ge said, "You just see the money eye open, I still have an idea, try to get married first, otherwise after marriage, it will find it inappropriate, and you may lose a lot of property." ”
This sentence was obviously provocative, Li Dan worshiped Jin again, and she also heard the sound of the words, she took a cup of tea and spilled it, stood up and left.
To tell the truth, Li Dan's last action is very beautiful and worth appreciating.
03. Girls who are self-reliant and self-reliant will be closer to happiness
Someone on the Internet asked: "What kind of object does a girl have to find in order to get happiness for a lifetime?" ”
There is a high praise below who replied: "Self-reliance and self-improvement are the basis for happiness." ”
Yes, no matter how good the marriage, it is not as good as your own people's life, when you have the mind to cling, you naturally lose the opportunity to be independent.
Girls who marry into the rich are not necessarily happy.
Because you are picking each other, the other party is also picking you, beautiful face is the same, interesting soul to pick one.
Remember Ye Haiyang?
She made the surprising decision not to get married and to be an unmarried mother.
Some people questioned her difficulty in giving her children happiness, she said bluntly: "Compared to widowed parenting, I can give my children enough love, and I can also have the ability to let children have a good living environment, which is the best way of life I can think of." 」 ”
Admittedly, her choice is bold, provided that she is self-reliant and has the courage to deal with an unknown life.
When many girls are still looking for love, she has planned the appearance of her own home, there are children, mothers, and lovers, and when her children go to kindergarten, they choose to have a second child, such a life is wonderful enough.
Of course, most women can't live in the ocean of leaves, but we can live ourselves and run our own lives well, as for what kind of partner we will meet, just treat it with a normal heart.
Remember two principles, don't rely on, don't settle.
Life is different because of love, good feelings are based on love, blindly worship gold, will only give up the end.
Give yourself a thumbs up! Do you think girls should put money first when they are dating?