#Our Marriage Essay #Bai Baihe, who has been silent for a while, returned to the screen and cooperated with his old friend Tong Dawei again after 15 years in the hot drama "Our Marriage", interpreting how marriage and family balance marriage and family with absolute acting skills. Although there are very few dramas to chase, but seeing that it is Bai Baihe's new drama, I also hold the attitude of trying to chase, and sure enough, I can't stop the car, and Bai Baihe's performance really didn't disappoint me.
At present, how to balance marriage and family is a hot topic, and it is also a headache faced by "dual workers" and dual workers. In "Our Marriage", the family as the core axis slowly pulls away, telling the story of Shen Huixing (Bai Baihe), a stay-at-home mother who was once a high-achieving student, who returned to the workplace, but had a career competition with her husband Sheng Jiangchuan (Tong Dawei), the two frictions continued, the two collided in the process, and gradually matured and grew.
Bai Baihe has many classic lines in "Our Marriage" that truly reflect the hard work of a stay-at-home mother and the pattern of rejection of mediocrity. For example, "I have the same major as you, the same education, why when it comes to work, you can take me as the second", "If there is a person between the two of us who pays more for the family, then this person must be me", "Anyway, our life plan is different, let's separate it" Netizens have said that Bai Baihe is hanging, this screenwriter is also too cattle, such a sassy line and the high-quality student education of Shen Shen comet in the play is too good.
"Our Marriage" truly put the real workplace and family on the screen, full-time mother Shen Yanxing was once a top university senior, after marriage, she chose to marry and teach her children, and devoted herself to the family. The husband Sheng Jiangchuan, played by Tong Dawei, is very busy at work, and the care of the family is almost blank. As the children grow up, Shen Yanxing returns to the workplace, but the estrangement between the husband and wife is also increasing, the child's education, the pressure of the workplace, and even some of the trifles in life. Shen Comet's position in the workplace gradually stabilized, Sheng Jiangchuan also gradually understood his wife Shen Comet from the relationship with his children, and the estrangement and contradictions between the two were solved, and finally worked together to create a beautiful marriage and a happy family.
I saw my own life in "Our Marriage", my wife and I are also "dual workers", with two lovely daughters, because her parents are out of town, so it is difficult to help us take care of, in order to balance, I even sent her to kindergarten when she was more than two years old. Because of the busyness of work, the usual pick-up and drop-off will also cause disputes, and it feels particularly stressful every day. In fact, I can especially understand the difficulty of my wife, the children are still young, I want her to accompany her every day, especially at night, but also to tell them stories, play with them, sleep. Now that the children are older, we have changed from frequent disputes to discussions and face them together.
"Who stipulates that the male owner must be outside the female protagonist", "Take the husband as the boss, so that you can be much easier." You can tolerate a lot of your husband's shortcomings. "How terrible it is for a woman to give up her work and disconnect from society and put all her chips on a man", "If you spend money on your mother's family, it is no different from a beggar who reaches out for money" Many of the lines bai baihe said in the play "Our Marriage" instantly pulled me back to reality, I think that in a family, whether it is a man or a woman, they should abandon complaining, understand each other, and support each other, so as to make the family more harmonious.
The plot of "Our Marriage" is very real, and Bai Baihe's strength acting skills have once again refreshed my new view of emotional drama. I will keep chasing after it, after all, I can still see a lot of my own shadow in it, and I can also learn a lot of new knowledge and new skills on how to create a happy family.