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The pain of parting from life and death is something we don't want to experience in our lifetime.
In mythological stories, the immortals are often keen to refine immortality in the hope of breaking the rule of birth, old age, illness and death. Unfortunately, no one has ever succeeded.
Therefore, of all things on earth, no living thing can exist in the world for eternity. Sooner or later, the traces of living in the world will dissipate with the wind.
When you are old, you should be prepared for this kind of psychological preparation in advance. You should understand that people are inherently dead, if your wife takes a step first, some stupid things you must not do, this is the greatest responsibility for yourself.
One: Don't try to give up your life
It is not difficult for people to encounter love in this life, but it is difficult to meet understanding. No matter how impetuous things are, there will still be some spiritual partners who have been sticking to their stories.
However, it is always regrettable that life, old age, illness and death are inescapable curses, and no matter how much you love each other, you cannot resist this cruel rule.
One person leaves, one lives alone. The pain of the person left behind is indescribable, and in this heartbreaking situation, some people will even desperately want to follow the other person.
It's very violent and touching, but I advise you, really don't do it.
The person you love has returned to dust, but the person who truly loves you will never want you to do such a stupid thing. You are not the one who truly loves you, and you don't have to give up your life for him in this way. Don't take the confusion as the truth, what you should do is to live every day for the rest of your life, you are well, the other party can be at ease.
Two: Don't give all your savings to your children
When the wife is gone, the person who stays behind often feels a feeling of having nothing to rely on and being overwhelmed. Once no matter how big the wind and rain will be carried together, now only they are alone to face the future.
In this case, I believe that many people will regard their son as the only one to rely on at the first time. Psychologically, once they have such an idea, they will even choose to take out all their life savings, just to get the care of their children.
This kind of stupid thing, probably the elderly will do. They think beautifully, but the reality is often not as he thinks.
At this age, children are often married, and they have their own small families to support, and work and children's schooling are enough for them to have headaches. Even if he has filial piety, it is difficult to give 100% energy to take care of you.
I have some savings in my hands, which can not only ensure my daily life needs, but also ensure that when I am unwell, I don't have to worry about my children feeling that I am a drag, and I can be responsible for my own health without psychological burden...
Therefore, it is really necessary to have money in your own hands, and if you give all your savings to your children, I am afraid that there will be more contradictions, which is certainly not what you want.
Three: Don't just look for a partner because you're lonely
In the lights of thousands of families, it is happy to have a lover to rely on, if not, the feeling of loneliness will be like a shadow, and when you see others reuniting with their families, it will be even more uncomfortable.
Therefore, many people will think about finding another partner to spend a long night with them after the death of their wife. It's not that I don't love anymore, but I don't want to be alone again facing a cold wall, facing an empty dinner table...
But even if you are lonely, it is best not to casually find a partner. People at this age should be more cautious about the choice of partners than young people.
After all, once you are united, it involves several families, your children, and each other's children, and there are too many interests involved.
Moreover, the partner he is looking for just to eliminate loneliness may not love you enough. If you don't love enough, why let yourself be wronged again?
You should believe that you deserve to be loved no matter what age you are, and that for the rest of your short life, if you really want someone to be with, I want you to be based on love and nothing else.
Everyone has their own destiny, and the rules of life and death are not something we can change with our efforts. If you are old, if your wife is unfortunate enough to leave you one step ahead of you, don't be too painful. Time can heal your wounds and calm the days.
You just need to put down the past and look forward, and live the future days seriously, which is the best explanation for your wife.
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