Introduction: Born lonely, many people think that their wives and children are the closest people in the world, but they are not. Although my wife has spent countless years with herself, she has also experienced many tribulations. But natural and man-made disasters are difficult to predict. Human life can easily be taken. Some people say that it is a child, after all, the child is related to himself. But children also have their own families to often go home to see and take care of themselves. So it's not the closest person either.
Aunt Yang, 73, said: "When people reach old age, the closest people are not their wives and children! ”
What the hell is going on? Let's hear what she has to say.
The 73-year-old Yang Aunt's self-statement
My name is Yang Li and I am 73 years old. When I was young, I worked in a state-owned enterprise. The salary is not high but very stable. Decades have passed in a flash. I retired at the age of 60. I have a pension of thousands of dollars a month, which is enough to spend. Every month I buy myself a few new clothes and some meat dishes. The little days are very moist. My husband and I met under the arrangement of our parents. We are the most traditional parental matchmakers. Got married without any emotional basis.
On the day of the wedding, my wife swore at the wedding that she would love me for the rest of my life. The applause from the audience was thunderous, but I was in a bit of a trance. I thought married life was plain as water. Don't say how much you like it, it should be a very peaceful kind. But I didn't expect that my wife and I were particularly inappropriate. Every time I speak, I have to argue. My wife and I don't have much in common. Every chat was particularly awkward. Sometimes my wife will explode, and I am particularly unaccustomed to him.
I've tried to save our feelings. I talked to him, but he was particularly resistant. He would rather lock himself in his room and read a book than communicate with me properly.
I felt a deep sense of powerlessness to barely sustain such a seemingly detached marriage. Divorce was hard and incredible in those days. So I can only endure. Fortunately, my sons and daughters are more filial. They will always accompany me and bring me a lot of happiness.
But as they grew older, they no longer wanted to be close to me when they had their own lives. I wouldn't want to talk to me about anything. I felt particularly lonely. Later, my son started a family and worked hard in the city. The daughter married far away to the provinces, and it was particularly difficult to see each other once a year.
Every time I think of my wife, I get very angry. He's a hand-thrower and throws everything at me. I did everything by myself, especially hard. And one day I had a cold and kept coughing. My face is not good, he not only does not care about me, but also always satirizes me, every day to show who to look at. I threw the cold medicine directly in his face. He really didn't have the heart. No matter what I give to him, he won't care about me.
Later I also wanted to open. Wives and children are unreliable. My life is still up to me. My children have their own little homes, and they don't have the energy to take care of me. They were so far away from me, in case something happened to me. Maybe they won't see me for the last time. I also watched it, doing exercise every day, watching TV.
Occasionally, he also went out with a few little sisters to play mahjong. I leave early and return late every day. Happy home. At this time, my wife began to nervous me and asked me what I was happy about? I said you can't handle it!
It doesn't matter what happens to men and children. The most important thing is your own happiness. No one can lose themselves.
In addition, sisters, be sure to save well when you are young. In this way, when you are old, you can have material security and more confidence. I don't go around asking for people, and I don't panic in my heart.
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