There is a big brother named Zhao Youcai next door to my house, 52 years old this year, raising pigs for nearly 20 years, a few years ago by raising pigs to earn millions, is now a well-known pig farmer in the village, often people come to the door to learn the experience, from seedlings to disease prevention, fattening to market control, the eldest brother are unreservedly taught to others, talking about Zhao big brother and wife Yu Xiufen, in fact, the early life was very difficult, a few days ago and their husband and wife two chatted about the experience of their youth, the two smiled bitterly.
Brother Zhao was born in 1970, there are seven brothers and sisters in the family, Brother Zhao ranks fifth, due to the poor economic conditions of the family, Brother Zhao has hardly gone to school, and now he will only write his own name, it is said that he is still a daughter church in college, Brother Zhao's father was originally a miner, Brother Zhao was less than 15 years old and followed his father to the mine to dig, and then his father was smashed to death by the stones on the mine, in order to eat a mixed meal, less than 17-year-old Zhao Brother can only follow the foreman all over the country to run, Mixing with some middle-aged men in their thirties and forties every day.
Around 2000, the back mountain of our hometown found a pit, Brother Zhao followed a group of miners to this side of the mine, Sister Xiufen is the only daughter of our village chief, when she was 18 years old, she ran to the back mountain with a group of young people to play, and later got to know Brother Zhao, the two saw each other at first sight, and finally became lovers, but the love between the two was strongly opposed by their parents, because Brother Zhao was a foreigner, and there was no acre in the family, they felt that Sister Xiufen would not have a good life with him, and Sister Xiufen once said that she was young and did not understand things at that time I only know that one heart likes Big Brother Zhao, and the others don't care.
After Brother Zhao and Sister Xiufen got along for half a year, because the amount of mining in the back mountain was too small, the boss decided to give up, Brother Zhao could only follow the miners to leave, Sister Xiufen's father locked Sister Xiufen in the room two days before Brother Zhao and the miners team left, and Sister Xiufen recalled that she cried and her throat was dumb.
The day after Brother Zhao and the construction team left, Sister Xiufen's second brother was distressed about her sister and secretly released her, and then Sister Xiufen ran to the town twenty kilometers away alone, because she and Brother Zhao had agreed to meet in the old place, Sister Xiufen recalled: It was drizzling that day, she trotted all the way in the rain, the road was very slippery, and the result was a few falls, at that time she kept thinking, if this life and Brother Zhao have a relationship, then Brother Zhao will definitely wait for her there, if there is no fate, Brother Zhao must have left with her co-workers. Sister Xiufen ran for more than twenty kilometers, stumbling all the way to the town, her body had already been drenched in soup chicken, but she did not expect that at a long distance, she saw Brother Zhao carrying a cover roll, standing alone in the cold wind, wearing thin clothes, shivering with cold. Since then, Sister Xiufen has followed Brother Zhao to the south and north, and later Brother Zhao found an errand for Sister Xiufen in the mining team, and there was a salary of 200 yuan per month.
Xiufen sister said that when she was too young to understand things, did not understand the pain of her parents, until she became a mother, she did not know the difficulty of parenthood, Xiufen sister's father knew that she eloped with Zhao brother, looked for all the places he had been, the result was no news of Xiufen sister, and then Xiufen sister's father also had a serious illness for this, and these situations were not known until two years later, Xiufen sister returned home.
Sister Xiufen ran east and west with Big Brother Zhao, staying in the jungle on the mountain all year round, there was only one woman in the construction team, and After a year with Brother Zhao, Sister Xiufen was pregnant with their first child, Brother Zhao's family was destitute, Sister Xiufen said that when Big Brother Zhao didn't even have a place to live, after pregnancy, she could only live with Big Brother Zhao in the shed on the mountain, as her body became heavier, Brother Zhao once advised Sister Xiufen to go back to her mother's house to raise a fetus, because the conditions on the mountain were too bad, the dust flew during the day, and mosquitoes bit at night. Sister Ke Xiufen did not agree with Brother Zhao's opinion.
Brother Zhao recalled: When his daily wage was only 15 yuan, the economic conditions were too poor, seeing his wife holding up a big belly, and suffering on the mountain, his heart was very uncomfortable, in order to supplement the nutrition of Sister Xiufen, he hiked down the mountain every few days, to the town to buy some chicken, duck and fish meat, and then hiked back to the mountain for two hours, Sister Xiufen said, once it rained lightly, because the mountain road was slippery, Brother Zhao did not come back for half a day, seeing that the sun was about to set, and then the workers went down the mountain to find him. It turned out that Brother Zhao was lying motionless in the valley, had long since lost consciousness, and the flesh and blood on his body were blurred, and later several co-workers carried Brother Zhao back to the mountain.
One night, Xiufen sister abdominal pain like hanging is about to go to the basin, there is a worker in the construction team who was once a barefoot doctor, Brother Zhao can only ask him to help deliver the baby, the situation is critical, the workers can only reluctantly give it up, fortunately, Xiufen sister was young at the time, physical fitness is also very good, and finally gave birth to a child smoothly, recalling the experience of that year, Xiufen sister was aggrieved, claiming that she was too stupid, if it is a girl now, even if she loves the boy in front of her, it is impossible to sacrifice so much for him, but when I asked Xiufen sister, If there is a wish to be with Brother Zhao in the next life, Sister Xiufen nodded vigorously and expressed her willingness.
When Xiufen sister and Zhao brother eloped, there was no contact with the family, until two years later, Xiufen sister returned home with Zhao brother and children, the old father saw that the wood had become a boat, and could only agree to the marriage between the two, and then gave them a make-up wedding, because of the poor family situation of Zhao brother, Xiufen sister's father could only repair the house for them out of his own pocket. Later, the husband and wife began to raise pigs, in the blink of an eye 20 years have passed, Brother Zhao has transformed from the poor and white boy in the field to the pig breeder in our village, after getting rich, Brother Zhao can't forget the tolerance of his father-in-law and mother-in-law, and took the two old people to his home for adoption.
The above is the love story of Brother Zhao and Sister Xiufen, perhaps this kind of feeling is unlikely to happen again in the current society, but we should still believe in the existence of love, what do you think.