The woman returned to her hometown after leaving the factory and was even more anxious: she was tired at work and paid less
In recent years, the debate over topics such as "staying in a big city or a small city" and "staying in a big factory or returning to work" has not stopped, and everyone has their own situation and there is no standard answer.
Some Internet companies regard 35 years old as a workplace threshold, giving practitioners a certain amount of pressure. Someone leaves before this anxiety arrives. But in first-tier cities, this conversion is not so smooth. The higher cost of living makes internet companies that can pay high salaries an option that is difficult for them to give up.
Today, a topic of #Women returning to their hometowns after leaving the factory is more anxious# has appeared on the hot search on various platforms, triggering heated discussions.
A female netizen named Dan Dan said that she had been working in a large factory in Beijing since graduation, and now it has been almost seven years. Recently, I returned to my hometown because of the pressure of work and family marriage. But after going back, she found that the work in her hometown was also very tired, the salary was lower, the house price was still more than 10,000, and the pressure of life had not been alleviated, so she began to worry about whether to return to Beijing.
Netizens have sighed:
A lot of chicken feathers, too empathetic.
There is no place for the soul in other places, and there is no room for the body in the hometown.
One of the boys said: She is almost 30, make time to socialize, find a suitable partner to marry, 30 years old the job is more and more unsuccessful, do not consider others, you from a big city to a small city, can not continue to develop, which shows that her dream has been shattered, to accept the reality! So another girl jumped out and immediately retorted: "Why do girls have to get married at the age of 30?" Why can't we fight for our careers? I hope that if all girls choose to go back to their hometown, they must have better work planning or a sense of family belonging, rather than feeling that I should get married, I need to get married, why can't I rely on my own efforts to bring my family to live? Have you ever lived a dull and unhappy life in a small city?
As a girl, I also feel that I can't use age to restrain myself, and it is necessary to promote feminism in this society, but girls are still relatively vulnerable, because the physiological structure is fundamentally different from men. In today's society, there are many elderly leftover women, who are eager to have marriage at the same time, but also afraid that with age, it will become difficult to have children after marriage, or become an elderly mother, threatening their own life safety, so many people suggest that women do not have children after 30. You look at the 30-year-old in the marriage market, are they more married or more single? If it is not Dink or unmarried, at the age of thirty, do not instill poisonous chicken soup into some girls, on the specific analysis of the specific problem, want to get married quickly get married, does not mean to give up the career These two things do not conflict.
Not everyone can chase their dreams without hesitation What do you think of chasing dreams: have time, money, patience, and what do you think you are like at the age of 30? You think that reality supports dreams, but in fact dreams support reality. In reality, you can give up a lot for your own pursuits, you say to pick up your family, but in a strange city can you ensure that your parents are not alone? Can you guarantee that they love the city? Why do so many women today preach feminism? A: Because they are fooled, they are used by capital behind the scenes and become a tool for capital appreciation! But I didn't know it, and I thought it was "advanced" and "correct."
I would like to ask you: How many of them majored in philosophy? How many people know what "human rights" are? How many people know about the "relationships" at which society works?
"Independent women" And in my opinion, the independence that most women long for in their hearts should be: whether they can choose the life they want to live independently, rather than being forced by life to be independent. To put it bluntly, it is to live to understand, distinguish between right and wrong, and dare to do what you think is right. For example, if you want to get married, you can marry, if you don't want to have children, you can have children, you can work, you can also return to the family. As long as you yearn for it and decide that it is right, you can try to move forward.
If you choose to be a full-time housewife, don't have to be ashamed of your choice;
If you need to rely on others for a while, don't feel sorry for your own vulnerability;
Thirty years old is very important for women and a watershed in life. Thirty-year-old single women do not have a harvest of love, and their achievements in their careers are also mediocre, and they are in a dilemma; and thirty-year-old married women, although they have solved the marriage event, they are particularly flustered in the family, not only to be a mother, take care of children, but also to be a housewife, but also want to achieve a good career, in the difficult choices and hardships of life to have children, that means that you will have to completely bid farewell to the workplace for at least four or five years in the future, and when you return to the workplace after forty or five years, You may not have a place in the competitive workplace. Chinese women, 30, are losing their workplace freedom. Where is the future for women in the workplace?