I am Hui Ge, and I meet you every day in the emotional world. I have a story, do you have wine?
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Introduction: In love, two people can be together, mostly because they appreciate each other and enjoy each other, and most of the reasons for separation are because they don't love each other, so they look at each other and are tortured.
However, not all love in this world is simple, and there may be interests or calculations mixed in. Some people moth to the fire because they like each other's material conditions, some people choose to seek perfection for the sake of each other's social status, and some people will covet the other party's own needs and constantly calculate.
However, after experiencing it, it will be found that love without love-based love can not last in the end, and the constantly calculated love is nothing more than mutual harm. After all, love needs to go in both directions and give to each other, so as to warm each other, cherish each other, and understand each other.
As Hegel said: "Love does have a noble quality, because it does not stop at sexual desire, but also shows a noble and excellent mind that is rich in itself, requiring unity with another person in a spirit of liveliness, bravery and sacrifice." ”
Therefore, only noble qualities can make love full and long-term, and those vulgar loves can only be a moment of happiness and eventual separation.
1, the girl chooses a divorced man as a boyfriend, the boyfriend only looks at her fertility
28-year-old Tong Feifei has recently been very confused, not long after she was pregnant with her second child, her boyfriend was in a state of disappearance, not only resigned from the unit, but also left the local area. She wanted to contact him, but he had blocked all her contact details and couldn't get in touch at all.
4 years ago, Tong Feifei worked at the front desk of a company, so he met Feng Jian, who often came to the company to find the boss for tea. Feng Jian looks sunny and handsome, a table of talents, and works in the financial sector, and his family conditions are relatively superior.
With more contact time, Feng Jian expressed a certain good feeling for Tong Feifei. At that time, Tong Feifei had just ended a failed love, and her boyfriend's betrayal made her heart hurt. At this time, the appearance of Feng Jian, who was in excellent condition, was like suddenly seeing an oasis while walking in the desert, which made her feel surprised.
Tong Feifei is not highly educated, and he dropped out of school to work after finishing his first year of high school, while Feng Jian graduated with a master's degree and worked in the financial sector, so the knowledge and cognition level of the two people is not at one level. Feng Jian once experienced a failed marriage, because his ex-wife would not have children and chose to divorce, so he felt that the youthful and beautiful Tong Feifei was his good love choice.
The two men took what they needed and were soon together.
Tong Feifei did not mind that Feng Jian had a marriage, but felt that he would cherish his feelings with himself more because of the divorce. And Feng Jian also told her that he had two properties, as well as savings, and his family conditions were superior, and he would never treat her badly, so she was dead set on being with him.
Although the two did not apply for a marriage license, it was not long before Tong Feifei became pregnant for him and gave birth to a child.
After giving birth to the child, Tong Feifei urged Feng Jian to go through the legal marriage procedures with her, but he shirked it for various reasons.
2. After getting pregnant with her second child, her boyfriend played missing
Tong Feifei wants a safe and stable married life, while Feng Jian only values her young beauty and normal fertility, and is very concerned about her junior high school education and poor origin, and is not willing to give her fame. For this reason, they often quarreled over marriage.
Tong Feifei felt more and more insecure in his heart, and his temper became grumpy. What surprised her even more was that her son was still young, and she found herself pregnant again.
When she told her boyfriend the news of her second pregnancy, the boyfriend was calm and did not care much, but said to her: "You can give birth to the child, if you don't want to take it, you can give it to my mother." ”
Tong Feifei didn't bat an eyelid and said to Feng Jian, "What do you think of me?" Is it just a fertility tool? Feng Jian said: "Usually I don't need you to do things, I also have money for you to use, and I didn't treat you badly when I had a child, and you were with me at that time, wasn't it just to figure out my house and money?" ”
Seeing that her boyfriend was indifferent and said those hurtful words, Tong Feifei was indignant, could no longer control his emotions, and rushed up to beat him up.
Since that conflict, Feng Jian has left home, not only quit his work and left the local area, but also blocked all the ways of communication with her, completely playing missing.
In desperation, Tong Feifei could only raise a fetus at home alone, and waited for Feng Jian's news with anxiety.
But until she gave birth to the child, she did not wait for any news from her boyfriend, and her boyfriend did not contact her again.
3, face to face to question the boyfriend, he said: you are not cultured, we are not suitable
When the child was about to be born, Tong Feifei suddenly received a text message from a strange woman, saying that she had been pregnant for several months and that the child was Feng Jian's.
Tong Feifei, who was waiting for delivery, learned the news of her boyfriend's betrayal, and her heart was like a knife, but she was suffering from not knowing his specific location, so she could only be in a hurry.
When his youngest son was four months old, Tong Feifei got the news that her boyfriend had appeared in Changsha, so he immediately rushed over with his two children. After careful searching, he was finally found in a hotel.
For the sudden appearance of his girlfriend, Feng Jian did not feel much surprise, just slowly got up from the bed. Tong Feifei questioned him about his betrayal, and Feng Jian denied it.
Under the reporter's inquiry, Feng Jian finally opened his heart. He admitted that because of the constant quarrel with his girlfriend, he was upset, and eventually had an affair with his partner Liu Qi, but the child was not his, and in the end Liu Qi also took the child away and broke off relations with him.
When asked why he and Tong Feifei had been with him for 4 years, had given birth to two children, and had not yet given her a name, he said: "She was not literate, she was just a tea-making front desk at my friend's company, and she had a bad temper, and my family did not recognize her." ”
Hearing him say this, Tong Feifei said angrily: "Since your family thinks that I have no culture, a bad temper, and no advantages, why should I have two children?" Feng Jian said: "You are just greedy for my family's house and money, and we didn't give you money to have a child?" You're just passing on the generations to my family. ”
Tong Feifei exposed Feng Jian only to face, and many of his words were false. The two men argued endlessly.
In order to completely solve the problem of the two people, the reporter invited the two people to the judicial office for mediation. Tong Feifei put forward Feng Jian's request that Feng Jian give her 470,000 yuan, and that each child should be raised. Feng Jian did not agree, saying that he only agreed to pay 20W, and the children would be raised by Tong Feifei in the future.
Under the mediation of the mediator, the two people finally agreed to divorce, Tong Feifei also agreed to feng Jian's proposal, and the four-year relationship between the two people finally ended in a helpless way.
Although this mutually hurtful relationship is over, for the two young children, the difficult life of the future has just begun.
Conclusion: The famous sociologist my grandmother said: "A lot of mutually calculated love is just that you want my money, and I picture your appearance." When the prosperity is gone, it will eventually be a place of chicken feathers. "Deeply impressed.
If a person has no desire in his heart, others will not be able to seduce you; if a person thinks in a down-to-earth manner, others will not be able to fool you. Whether it is to treat life or love, you need to keep to yourself and be content and happy.
In today's society, many people are doing all kinds of deception under the guise of love, cheating money and cheating. As a girl, we must keep a clear head, carefully distinguish the falsehood of each other's true feelings, and must not be like a moth to a fire because of other people's sweet words, or some false appearances, and finally turn into ashes.
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About the author: Hui Ge, a middle-aged uncle who has been running, hopes to use his clumsy words to wake up those who are sleepy.
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