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Zhou Rong was scolded very badly.
She is selfish, self-centered, never considers zhou's parents, and has an idealistic posture.
In the drama "In the World", Zhou Rong's dislike is no less than that of Chunyan.
What kind of person is Zhou Rong?
When she was in junior high school, she fell in love with Feng Huacheng, who wrote poetry, so the two sides relied on correspondence to connect feelings.
At that time, Zhou Rong was still a teenage girl, but Feng Huacheng was already an adult.
For Feng Huacheng, a poet, he could easily see in his letters the worship of a young girl, and even regarded the worship as love.
This point is not clear to Zhou Rong's age and experience.
Feng Huacheng went to Dashan, Guizhou, and Zhou Rong secretly went to Guizhou Dashan to follow Feng Huacheng despite his family's objections.
After a poet fell off the altar, he was full of grievances and pain, and such pain had nowhere to vent, so Zhou Rong's arrival gave him strength and comfort.
For Feng Huacheng, Zhou Rong is the one who sent charcoal in the snow.
Zhou Rong's feelings for Feng Huacheng seem to be love, but in fact, they are more of a favor.
Feng Huacheng was grateful for Zhou Rong's efforts, so in the marriage of the two people, Feng Huacheng did more, and he almost took over all the housework to repay Zhou Rong's efforts.
Because he knows that he does not love Zhou Rong, he can only treat Zhou Rong with the mode of love, and force himself to love Zhou Rong by mistake.
Zhou Rong's following gave him comfort in the difficulties, and Zhou Rong's identity also benefited him in the mountains.
For Feng Huacheng, whether it is the love for Zhou Rong or the identity of Zhou Rong, it is what he needs at that moment.
So the afflicted couple can live freely and happily.
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But people's feelings will change, especially men's feelings are more fickle.
After being rehabilitated, Feng Huacheng returned to Beijing, a place that made him feel like a fish in the water, his waist plate was straight, and he no longer enjoyed the life of relying on a woman.
Compared with the mountains of Guizhou, this place in Beijing makes Feng Huacheng extremely proud, and he has finally returned to his own time and place.
This psychological change in his caused a change in behavior, and Zhou Rong was the first to know this.
When a girl slowly grows up, she will slowly see clearly the man who slept with her, and the love that she thought was beautiful at first turned out to be Zhou Rong's imagination.
So Zhou Rong began to quarrel with Feng Huacheng again and again, gift-giving, house problems, it seemed to be small things, in fact, after Feng Huacheng's true face was exposed, he and Zhou Rong's three views had a fierce collision.
This collision also makes their daily life "turbulent", and also lays the foundation for Feng Huacheng's derailment.
The reason why their marriage will lead to divorce was decided from the beginning.
Zhou Rong fell in love with only her imaginary Feng Huacheng, which was a self-fantasy romantic love, and Feng Huacheng had never loved Zhou Rong.
Such a marriage can be maintained under difficult conditions, and once Feng Huacheng returns to his normal state, their feelings will be in crisis.
To put it bluntly, their marriage was the "product" of Feng Huacheng's time in the countryside.
If they lose the condition of "going to the countryside," they will be wiped out, and sooner or later the condition of "going to the countryside" will be lost, and their marriage will eventually be tragic.
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Gratitude when the momentum is lost, cool when the momentum is gained, this is the true portrayal of how many people.
Compared with the sense of morality that Zhou Bingyi possessed, Feng Huacheng was only cold and thin.
Zhou Rong went to Guizhou for him, and left her daughter for him, even if Zhou Rong was sorry for her parents, brothers and daughters, she was wholehearted to Feng Huacheng.
However, after Feng Huacheng was rehabilitated, like an ancient emperor, in the face of Zhou Rong's accusations, instead of trying to solve it, he turned around and fell in love with someone else.
His posture is no longer that of a post-disaster, but "I am in charge of my territory."
Feng Huacheng, who fell in love with others, actually fell in love with the sense of worship of others, just like Zhou Rong worshipped him at the beginning.
This man's heart is always inferior and selfish, and once this sense of worship disappears, he will continue to look for a new sense of worship, never considering the sins that Zhou Rong and his daughter have suffered for him.
He will only enjoy the feeling of being on top of himself complacently, and in Feng Huacheng's eyes, worship is the basis of love, and he forgets that love needs to be treated sincerely.
Zhou Rong has a lot of suitors around her, even after Feng Huacheng has changed, Zhou Rong still has Cai Xiaoguang as a suitor, but the sense of morality she has reminds her not to do that.
The reason why Zhou Rong is not flattering in the TV series and attracts a lot of people's insults is because Zhou Rong is like a girl who makes mistakes.
At the beginning, despite the opposition of his parents and the consent of his brothers, he abandoned his filial piety to his parents and the nurturing of his daughter, and followed Feng Huacheng with all his heart.
How affectionate she is for Feng Huacheng, and how thin feng Huacheng is.
Zhou Rong insisted on going her own way, and the result was Feng Huacheng's betrayal, just like a girl desperately choosing to marry far away, and finally leaving nothing but pain.
In reality, there are too many such girls, they choose love, and eventually lose to the coolness of men.
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