Recently chasing "The World of Man", I have to say that this is a good drama in 2022.
The actor's acting skills are online, the plot can withstand scrutiny, the texture is also very good, and it is a fairly good period film.
01 Tenacious and kind, single-minded for others Zheng Juan
The most distressing thing about this drama is Zheng Juan, an orphan, an unmarried pregnancy, a brother with a child and blind eyes, all of which did not knock her down.
"Others can pass, and I Zheng Juan can also pass."
She looks very weak on the outside, but in fact, she is very strong and kind, and she pays for the Zhou family wholeheartedly.
If meeting Zhou Bingkun was the greatest luck in her life, then Zhou Bingkun's marriage to a wife like Zheng Juan was a blessing for his life.
Kind, tenacious, beautiful, knowledgeable, and righteous, Zheng Juan is really a very good person.
But let me choose that I will not be someone like Zheng Juan.
1. Too selfless, bitter to yourself.
Since being with Zhou Bingkun, Zheng Juan has been involved in the Zhou family's affairs, first helping Zhou Bingkun take care of the paralyzed Zhou mother, then helping Zhou Rong with her eldest daughter Yue Yue, and finally giving birth to a son for the Zhou family.
The most impressive thing is that everyone returned to the Zhou family for the New Year again, when Zheng Juan was just pregnant with Congcong, and she should have rested more when she was pregnant, but the big and small things of the Zhou family - washing dishes and cooking, taking children are still Zheng Juan's business, and no one has a handle.
To tell the truth, only Zheng Juan does not complain, put it in the present, few people are willing to do it, even if they do, they will be dissatisfied.
But Zheng Juan did not, she was willing to work hard and complain.
Such selfless dedication, but suffering their own Zheng Juan, people are distressed and admired, but they do not want to follow and want to become her.
2. Give up your job and focus on your family.
Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong were able to go to university without worries, further study, and work away from home all because Zhou Bingkun was at home.
But it is not so much because there is Zhou Bingkun as it is because there is Zheng Juan. Later, Zheng Juan was the Zhou family's reliance and armor.
After marrying into the Zhou family for so many years, she did not go out to work, and she single-mindedly took care of the old and supported the small, which was Zhou Bingyi's virtuous helper.
Therefore, many viewers sighed: marry a wife and marry Zheng Juan.
But is this fair to Zheng Juan? "Six little gentlemen" China Qing, Debao, catch-up wife Wu Qian, Dong Yan, Yu Hong have their own jobs, Yu Hong's work behind is not good, Zhou Bingkun also helped to find a good job for her, but what about Zheng Juan?
Her job is to take care of the Zhou family and make everyone feel at ease. She did, but she never had the opportunity to go out to work, and even when the six little gentlemen gathered, she rarely found time to go, and every time Wu Qian, Dong Yan, and Yu Hong went.
Doesn't Zheng Juan want to work? No, she would love to.
Once helped Uncle Gong go to the black market to sell tobacco, alcohol and tea, Zheng Juan met a kind person, helped her earn more than fifty yuan, she turned around and bought something for Zhou Mu, Zhou Nan, zhou Bingkun, and then lay on the bed and said:
"It's a pleasure to spend the money you earn."
This sentence shows that Zheng Juan actually wants to go out to work and earn her own money to spend.
I am just a mortal, I can't be as great and selfless as Zheng Juan, I can't become a person like her, and I don't want to be that kind of person.
02 Selfish and selfish, Dare to pursue her ideals
The role of Zhou Rong is not pleasing in television, and it can be said that it is hateful.
In order to pursue love, she did not fight with a greeting, and went to the countryside instead of Bingkun, seemingly for bingkun's good, but in fact she just went to find her own love - Feng Huacheng.
After a few years of not coming back, it was difficult to say that he wanted to go back, and finally he went to prison because Feng Huacheng wrote poems at the station, and he was unable to go back but hurriedly sent his daughter Yue Yue back.
Zhou's mother was paralyzed because of her affairs, and the child was also Zheng Juan helping to bring it from then on.
After Feng Huacheng came out, they did not think about taking Yue Yue away, but to pursue their college dreams and continue to throw Yue Yue to Zheng Juan.
Later, he also blamed Yue Yue for not kissing her.
On the one hand, I don't want to take it with me, and on the other hand, I want Yue Yue to be close to her, and I really want to be beautiful.
Zhou Rong has been self-centered all her life, she wants to do whatever she wants, will not consider the situation and feelings of others, as long as it is beneficial to herself, she will do it.
In that era, this "exquisite" maverick, can even be said to be "precious", because most people can not do her free, do not know what they really want, But Zhou Rong is very clear about what she wants, and is willing to work hard for it - all efforts, only to achieve the goal.
Indeed, she was very successful and became a university professor as she wished, but her success was all paid for by the sacrifices of others.
All my life, I have not taken on the responsibility of being a daughter, nor have I taken on the responsibility of being a mother.
Such a decisive and goal-oriented person, I can't do it, and I don't want to be.
03 Hao Dongmei, who distinguishes right from wrong and has feelings and righteousness
In this drama, I most want to be someone like Dongmei.
Not to envy her as the daughter of a high-ranking cadre, but to appreciate her independence, reasoning, humanity, the ability to bear the worst, and to enjoy the best.
Dongmei also has a tenacity in her body, because of her parents, she went to the countryside to become a zhiqing, in the words of Debao, Dongmei is "a thousand gold for a high-level cadre who is in distress." ”
Although she went to the countryside as a young man, she did not complain and was high up in the crowd, rushing to the hardest and most tiring work.
Later, she gave up the opportunity to go to college to a person who has always been hostile to her, because the task on her has not yet been completed, and she wants to do it and then go, which shows her responsibility.
Later, after the special period passed, her father became the governor of the province, and she was not on top, and she was as usual for Zhou's father and mother, remembering that they did not dislike her in the first place.
For this reason, she also had a big fight with her parents, thinking that her parents could not see the Bingyi family last week and maintained their own high.
The reason why I want to become Dongmei is not only because she is not snobbish and real, but also her empathy.
Probably because of her experience in going to the countryside, she can especially understand the difficulties of others, and can consider problems for others from the perspective of others, and that kind of consideration is not high,rather than understanding.
Liao Yimei said: When you meet love, it is not unusual to meet sex, but it is strange to meet understanding.
Dongmei is the person who is willing to understand others, has her own ideas in everything, but never imposes her own ideas on others.
I hope to become a person like Dongmei, kind, generous, hardworking, independent, living as my own sun, but also become a light that illuminates others.