Mango Station in recent years out of the variety show are very bold, not only love variety, but also the divorce of men and women reunited together variety shows, such as the recently broadcast of "Goodbye Lover", and now has launched a divorce variety show "Spring Day Delay and Departure", among the invited guests, there is one person who has attracted the attention of many netizens, that is, Wang Shuoxin's ex-wife Wu Yating.
Since it is a divorce variety show, it is inevitable to talk about the ex, and Wu Yating, as the one with the highest degree of topic, the program group naturally cannot let go, so let her call Wang Shuoxin.
After the phone is dialed, it is not a long-lost greeting, but a cold sentence: Which one are you? There is a little estrangement between the words, and the official divorce between the two is only more than a year, it has reached such a strange point, the phone number can not be recognized, even the voice can not be recognized, at least it is a person who has lived together for five or six years, presumably Wu Yating was also very cold when she heard such words.
In fact, when Wu Yating and Wang Shuoxin got married, many people talked about whether Wu Yating forced Wang Shuoxin to get married, but in fact, it was because, before getting married, Wu Yating accidentally became pregnant, so she was ready to get married. Later, in the process of examination, it was found that the child had no heartbeat, and Wu Yating's family originally wanted them to postpone the wedding, fearing that Wang Shuoxin was forced to marry her because of the child.
However, Wang Shuoxin said, I married you because I love you, whether there is this child or not, I will marry you. At that time, they may really be in love, but marriage and love are not the same after all, and it is difficult to maintain a marriage by love alone. So slowly, the gap between the two people arose.
First of all: Wu Yating's original social circle was disappeared
Although Wu Yating is not a star, but before getting married, her conditions are not bad, she is the behind-the-scenes choreographer of Hunan Tv, and she is also the pearl in the palm of her parents, after marriage, in just three years, she has had two children, and since then her life focus has been biased towards the family.
Because of wang Shuoxin's work, the big and small things in the family are basically managed by Wu Yating, from taking children to changing light bulbs, Wu Yating needs to do it herself, and Wu Yating, who is only in her 20s, has fully adapted to the transformation from a young girl to a full-time mother in just a few years.
And Wang Shuoxin? He is born to love freedom, compared to boring and dull family life, he prefers the outside world of flowers and flowers, uncontrolled, but also full of freshness, but originally Wu Yating should also be a girl with a social circle, for the sake of children and families, he is willing to sacrifice his career and social circle.
However, such a sacrifice Wang Shuoxin could not feel, nor could he understand Wang Yating's hardships, and for a long time, the only little love that remained between them had also been consumed.
Second: the unequal love between the two
Judging from Wu Yating's performance in the show, it is known that she still loves Wang Shuoxin, even if she is divorced for more than a year, she will still consider him, avoid bringing him more trouble, and even keep the bills saved when the two are in love. And Wang Shuoxin? I have already stepped out of this relationship and started a new life.
Once Wang Shuoxin called Wu Yating a roommate, many people still think it is very sweet, but under the fine grill, it is all glass slag. In a magazine interview in 2019, he once said that he would often tell Wu Yating that one day he would always leave and go to the lifestyle he pursued, and often said that he would let his wife see the right one.
Sure enough, everything has traces to follow, and now it seems that as early as that time, Wang Shuoxin did not have love for Wu Yating, if he really loved someone, how could he be willing to let her go? How can you say something that makes girls feel a sense of crisis? As early as that time, he was ready to leave.
One is fully committed, the other is deaf and dumb, and there is no love that goes in both directions, and one day it will fall apart. Therefore, whether it is marriage or love, there needs to be a reciprocal relationship, and if one party is no longer in love, instead of torturing each other, it is better to leave with dignity, which is good for both parties.
Looking at Wu Yating now, it is very hard to carry two children alone, but she has not complained about Wang Shuoxin, but she has seen it very openly. It seems that she has now let go of the past and started a new life, although the marriage was not perfect, but she can still get back up and live the envy of everyone.
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