I used to have a bad problem, I care about what other people think of me, as long as you say that I am a little bad, I will be furious with you to fight for the rest of the day, until the face is red and red. It is my personality that leads to a lot of problems and unnecessary troubles.
For example, I like to show off, and when I make a small achievement, I like to show off everywhere and want to attract the attention of others. I wonder why I have this idea? Is someone else's affirmation that important to me? Later, I met a netizen, she talked to me for half a day, she said that I have been neglected since I was a child, so I am particularly eager for love, resulting in fear of loneliness and being ignored, so I will desperately study, to prove myself, and never allow others to say my shortcomings.
She was right, I would appreciate the opinions of others that helped me, and there was no need to be serious if they did not help. Everyone on the Internet is a netizen, there is no need to argue endlessly, affecting life and mood.
If a person can have a stable emotion for everything, he has surpassed many people without being dominated by emotions. So we have been learning how to get along with ourselves and how to regulate our emotions all our lives. The Buddha said: Bodhi has no tree, nor is the mirror a platform, there is nothing in the original, where is the dust? Many of our troubles are our own, and the essential problems come from our own hearts. In addition to being kidnapped and maliciously injured, natural and man-made disasters are also uncontrollable factors.
With a stable emotion, we will not care about gains and losses, no joys and sorrows, no hardships and hardships. Our hearts are very simple, and we are also very firm in having a clear understanding of ourselves, and we will walk step by step and walk steadily. Nothing can affect us who are focused, and we will always do what we like.
In just a few autumns of life, you still have to be happy! Happiness that is not within the scope of morality and law is more important, and we have to seek the little happiness that belongs to us while taking responsibility, so we have to have a stable mood.
The rest of life is short and the joy is priceless.
Emotional stability, control of life.
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