The time of life is limited, and everyone has their own way of life and different aspirations to pursue. In the past, maybe we spent too much time and energy on unnecessary people and things, and we worked hard to make a lot of efforts, but the feedback we got was very chilling.
He is often used by others, but he is still unconscious, and he has even become the laughing stock of others without knowing it. He was also deceived by the beautiful ideas in his own heart.
When I think about it, I am really ridiculous and seem particularly childish. In fact, not all of us are worth our sincerity, it is worth our hearts and lungs. We need to develop our good nature, which is true, but our goodness must reveal the sharp edge and know how to grasp the appropriate degree.
Otherwise, good will also become evil. In the second half of your life, please cherish the following two kinds of people, you will definitely live more and more comfortably.
First of all, I want to cherish the people who have helped me. The sea of people is vast, in fact, the fate between people is not the same. It is not because the relatives and friends who live with themselves every day have the deepest fate with themselves, in fact, perhaps the person we meet in life has a great relationship with themselves. They may seem strange, but they are silently helping themselves with their own practical actions.
Therefore, life really does not have to set limits on itself, to divide what is mine and what is others so clearly, to look at all people and all things with an equal heart, and to benefit the people around us with our own kindness and good deeds, we will definitely get the best return. Especially for those who have helped us, we should remember it and never forget to return it.
In fact, it is to cherish those who can treat each other sincerely. Everyone has a kind heart, a true heart, and our greatest gain and satisfaction is to use our true heart in the right place. If you can treat each other sincerely, that is the best. If only one party pays, it will inevitably lead to an imbalance between giving and returning. This can cause annoyance and suffering.
The most constant thing in the world is the law of cause and effect, what you give, it will correspond to what you get, of course, there is a process of generation and brewing, until the cause is ripe, the corresponding result will appear.
Whether the other party is sincere to you or not can be seen from daily interactions, especially when experiencing special events, which can best reflect a person's heart. If your sincerity is used in the wrong place, please take it back in time, otherwise it will only promote the evil of others and add to your own troubles. Why is this so bitter?