Whether it is between husband and wife or father and son, there must always be a truth to follow. That is, "You salute me a foot, I salute you a foot." Our countrymen, especially between parents and children, always lack a healthy way of communication, sometimes very distant and sometimes too close, in fact, very wrong.
But she didn't want to sell her house, "My house is not worth anything, and your father has three long and two short, and I have a nest." 」 ”
This is the original words of Wang's mother and the eldest son, who believes that the eldest son living in a first-tier city has the obligation to sell the house to save his father, otherwise it is not filial piety. But the eldest son was very embarrassed, and his life was far from the appearance of glamorous.
In a big city, there is a house of one hundred and thirty square meters, is it considered a rich person? Maybe in the eyes of his parents he was already a rich man. But they also knew that half of the down payment for the house was paid by his parents-in-law, and the remaining half was saved by himself and his wife.
When buying a house, his parents had no money, but on the front foot they bought the house, the back foot brother got married, the bride price was 200,000, and the parents did not borrow a penny to pay, so his wife has always been quite critical of his parents. Moreover, after more than ten years of marriage, he did not help the family, including his brother running a taxi to buy a car, and his father gambling with people was grasped by the security deposit of the bureau. Big and small spent a lot of money, but they never paid attention to it.
This time, they were so ashamed to offer him to sell the house, not to mention his wife's place, that is, he could not pass this pass. Her daughter is still studying, and she can't finish her studies after selling the house. And over the years, his parents-in-law have been constantly subsidizing them, and he has also continued to help his family.
Although his wife never said it, he himself did not want to go. Most importantly, he and his wife had wanted to have another child, but needed their mother to come and help take care of it. But the mother said that their eldest was a daughter, and she was not in the mood to come over. Because his brother's family is a son, his mother has to be weird with his wife several times a year.
Looking at his father's sallow face and increasingly emaciated body, he was very uncomfortable. He opened his mouth with his wife, hoping that she would go back to her mother's house to get some money to turn around.
"I married you, you can't support your wife and children yourself, and let our family help the poor, your family eats and drinks Lasa."
After the wife refused, she took advantage of the holiday to take the children and her parents on a trip. And Wang's mother knew that she naturally could not let go in the future, and she was mad with her eldest son in the hospital. He said that he had a daughter-in-law and forgot his mother, how she had money to go out and play, and did not have money to treat your father.
"You know how much we spent, but this time it was all her parents' money." Although he explained it this way, he knew that his mother must not understand.
"If your father dies, I'll take you to your house."
The eldest son's eyes widened, and he could not imagine that it was a vicious word uttered by his mother. When he gave birth to his daughter, he had not yet let go of the two-child policy, and one day he came back and his wife quarreled with him, saying that his mother was going to send her daughter away so that they could have a son.
At that time, he had always thought that his wife had thought about it after giving birth, until this moment he found out that perhaps his mother had always been like this, and he had been blinded in the past. Because he is the boss, he has always taken on his responsibilities. After going to college, he worked hard and didn't spend a penny on his family. After graduation, he also provided for his brother's education, but because he was expelled from school because he fought with people at school, his parents blamed him for not taking his brother well.
As a son, he was never ashamed. But he never paid attention to his parents' eccentricity, because their parents still loved him no matter what.
As everyone knows, for his parents, he may just be a tool to pay home, and other relatives have long gone