Text/Flying Fish
Truly beautiful feelings, in fact, have a temperature, even when you think of each other, the appearance of the other party is a good picture of you. It shows that in this relationship, the other party is very good to you.
People who like you must be full of gentleness and tolerance for you, will hurt you, respect you, cherish you, share all the joys and sorrows with you, and can also bear all the unhappiness with you.
However, to see if a man is worth dating, don't listen to what he says, but look at what he does. Some women, once caught in love, ignore themselves, forget the pain, even if men do not love themselves, they are also fooling themselves, thinking that they can be better.
In fact, not to love is not to love, when a man does not love you, what you do is meaningless, you are sincere to him, but he will not necessarily put it in his heart.
So, when you find that the other party has changed and does not love you anymore, you must quit in time and do not fall too deep.
Such a man, forget it, don't linger anymore.
1, there is no sincerity together, betraying you again and again.
The most precious thing about feelings is singleness, which is also the sincerity of feelings.
When a man is with you, here to say that he loves you, but always betrays you, with others, and has no boundaries with the opposite sex, then such a man is a flower.
When you find out that he betrayed you, he sincerely apologizes to you every time, but it is true that he will still be with others soon after.
Then such a man must not want, even if you like it, you can't want it, you must divide it thoroughly, and don't go back to the road.
Because your forgiveness cannot be exchanged for the other party's change and turn back, it means that you do not know how to respect yourself at all, so the other party will be entangled with others again and again.
Women, in the face of feelings, must be sober, sincerely treat your man, must not want, otherwise, in exchange for their own grievances and losses.
2) Men who lack respect for you don't care about your feelings at all.
Sometimes, in the relationship is easy to blind people is a person's personality, the original like is because the other party has a personality, but after getting along, found that the other party's personality is a thorn, constantly stuck in their own body.
A man, with you, he has a personality, but people who don't know how to respect you will not care about your feelings, you have to be clear about this.
A man who doesn't know how to respect you, he will think that you have to go through his permission and consent for everything you do, he thinks your ideas are ridiculous, and will even mock you, and when you listen to him and live the way he gives, he feels very satisfied.
If you have your own ideas, he will always deny you, interfere with you everywhere, tell you not to do it, do not support you to do it, and even secretly destroy what you like, and change your itinerary and lifestyle without your consent, and the man who will change your itinerary and lifestyle without your consent must not respect you.
He is so much, he only cares about himself, not cares about your feelings, so it is the best choice to separate as soon as possible.
Only two people who respect each other, understand each other and tolerate each other can be happy together.
3, always deceive you, there is no sincerity.
If a man always hides some things from you in the process of interacting with you, does not be calm with you, always cheats on you, indicating that he is unreliable and breaks up, don't stay nostalgic anymore.
The man who really loves you will be honest with you, will not mind sharing his past with you, has nothing to hide from you, and will patiently tell you when you ask anything.
If you get along with him, you don't know which sentence he said is true and which sentence is false, and there are lies everywhere, indicating that the other party does not value you at all, but only perfunctory.
Writer Huang Yongyu said: "Clear love, direct disgust, sincere liking." Stand open in the sun and praise yourself loudly and unashamedly. ”
A man is not honest with you, it is impossible to establish trust, it will only make you more and more suspicious, and it will only make you become a look that even you don't like, the more you want to know each other's things, but the more the other party deceives you, does not share with you, does not really talk, let you guess, it is easy to quarrel and contradiction.
If a man is always like this to you, it means that he does not like you at all and does not want to be with you for a long time.
So, no matter what separates you, don't linger anymore and live your life again.
In short, the best feeling is that two people are calm with each other, appreciate each other, and treat each other sincerely.
If you can't see these in men, the other party is always harsh and mean to you, always deliberately deceives you, always betrays you again and again, and always disrespects you, then no matter how much you love, you must know how to stop the loss in time.
Life is short, find someone who can achieve each other, not someone who will only consume you, when you get warmth and growth from the relationship, it makes sense.
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