#为何明星的婚姻难长久 #
Celebrity marriage is difficult to last, this matter is really not necessarily to blame the star.
Imagine a couple who are particularly busy at work, travel frequently, spend very little time together, make a lot of money, work with a lot of beautiful members of the opposite sex, not only work together, but sometimes have entertainment, and drink until midnight.
Can such a couple have a good relationship? Most likely not to get better.
This kind of marriage lacks two of the most basic elements of bonding: stability and intimacy.
Gathering less and more disrupts stability, less physical contact, and less emotional engagement undermines intimacy.
Stability brings security, and intimacy brings love.
Lack of security will cause anxiety about the relationship, and in order to overcome anxiety, you may develop control and want to control each other's every move. Lack of love will cause alienation from the relationship, unwilling to understand, and no longer care, over time, it will become a stranger.
Anxiety to the extreme is hysterical quarrel; alienation to the extreme is indifference that goes deep into the bone marrow.
Some marriages are ruined by quarrels, and some are ruined by indifference.
The relationship status of two people determines whether the marriage can last, and if the celebrity couple can give each other enough security and love, they will also live happily.
