The lyrics sing: "The wife is always the good of others, the child is always their own relative", this sentence is from the perspective of a man to interpret the family relationship, it is very interesting to think about it carefully.
A man has been married for a long time, no matter how beautiful and virtuous his wife is, he will have aesthetic fatigue and dissatisfaction, and at the same time he will have admiration for other people's wives, and he feels that it is reasonable for other people's wives to be good.
Men treat children differently. Even if the child is naughty and ignorant, he will treat the child as a heart and liver baby, because he knows that the child is the future of the family, but also the inheritance of the family bloodline, and men regard their children as quite important.
In reality, there is such a man, his wife gave birth to a second child, he found that the child is not his own flesh and blood, where should he go?
The man's name is Zhang Mingliang, he is 36 years old, married for 8 years, and he has a 6-year-old son. Zhang Mingliang is a native of Hunan, he has been doing business in Guizhou for many years, because of the relationship between work, he and his wife Tang Xiao lived in two places, they gathered less and more in a year, and the opportunity to meet was limited.
Tang Xiao looks pretty, loves to talk and laugh, loves to play and make trouble, she has a lot of friends, she eats, drinks and plays outside after work, she does not do housework, regardless of children, and the salary she earns can barely maintain her daily expenses.
What she did caused dissatisfaction in her mother-in-law, who often quarreled with her over this matter, Tang Xiao ignored it, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was very stiff.
When Tang Xiao was short of money, he would ask Zhang Liangming for money, Zhang Liangming knew that Tang Xiao spent a lot of money, he advised her to restrain a little, care more about the children, have a good relationship with her mother-in-law, and do more housework at the same time, Tang Xiao took his words as the wind in his ears, and Zhang Liangming had no way to take her.
Zhang Liangming was living in a foreign country, he couldn't always accompany Tang Xiao, and he couldn't restrain her from disciplining her, which invisibly fueled Tang Xiao's arrogance, and they stumbled like this for several years.
In the second half of last year, Tang Xiao went to Zhang Liangming's place of business for more than half a month, and they enjoyed a rare opportunity for husband and wife reunion. During this period, Zhang Liangliang ate and drank well to entertain Tang Xiao, he bought this and that for Tang Xiao, and he did his best to make up for the debt he owed to Tang Xiao for many years.
Tang Xiao was pregnant shortly after he returned, she told Zhang Mingliang the good news, Zhang Mingming was very happy, he told Tang Xiao to raise a baby with peace of mind, at the same time he asked his mother to take good care of Tang Xiao, he hoped that Tang Xiao could give him a healthy and lovely second treasure.
Two months ago, Tang Xiao gave birth to a son, and the family was very happy, and Zhang Liangming deliberately went home to visit. He hugged and hugged the child, kissed and kissed, and he suddenly had two sons, how could he not be happy?
Not long after he returned to Guizhou, Tang Xiao made an excessive request to him, she wanted the child to follow her surname, which was related to a man's face, he did not answer in person, he said he wanted to discuss with his parents, did not expect Tang Xiao to directly let the child's surname "Tang" when he reported the household registration, her approach made Zhang Liangming very annoyed.
This is not to count, just some time ago, Tang Xiao suddenly proposed divorce, she gave a large number of reasons, such as when she was married, Zhang Liangming did not set up a banquet; her mother-in-law not only did not wait to see her, but also drove her out of the house; Zhang Liangming did not give her money to spend, and sometimes domestic violence...
Her reasons didn't hold up at all, and anyone who knew the inside story could tell at once that she was lying.
Tang Xiao is willful and arbitrary, her mother-in-law is a timid and fearful person, she has never seen Tang Xiao in general, how can she drive Tang Xiao out of the house? Over the years, Zhang Liangming sent living expenses to his family on time every month, and he unconditionally met the conditions proposed by Tang Xiao, in addition, they were not together for many years, and he could not commit domestic violence at all.
Tang Xiao's attitude toward divorce is very firm, coupled with the fact that she let the child's surname be Tang, Zhang Liangming cannot help but doubt the identity of the child. He secretly ran to do a paternity test, and the results showed that he was not related to the child by blood, which meant that the child born to Tang Xiao was not his flesh and blood.
After knowing the truth, Zhang Liangming collapsed, he did not expect That Tang Xiao would betray him, he did not expect that Tang Xiao would give birth to other men, he was angry, annoyed, frustrated, disappointed, many emotions mixed together, he was difficult to accept, he found Tang Xiao to beg for an explanation.
In the face of the fierce Zhang Mingming, Tang Xiao refused to admit it, she insisted that Zhang Liangming forged an appraisal report, his purpose was to slander her and slander her, she said: "This child is yours, obviously your family bullied me, you beat a rake, you are too much!" ”
No matter how cunning she may be, the results of the appraisal report are indisputable. Zhang Mingliang said: "If you have doubts about the appraisal report, we can do another test, whether you are innocent and do the test!" ”
Tang smiled at him, she rejected Zhang Liangliang's offer, and her performance already said it all.
Zhang Liangming's family condemned Tang Xiao's improper practices, they said: "Husband and wife can separate if they have bad feelings, and then go to raise other people's children; you secretly raise children but impose them on Zhang Mingliang, and say that this is Zhang Liangming's children, what is the matter?" ”
Zhang Liangming's mother did not embarrass Tang Xiao, and she did not want to interfere with the affairs of the two families, she said: "If Zhang Liangming can accept you, I will treat you well in the future, if Zhang Liang wants to divorce, I have no opinion." ”
Now Zhang Mingming is faced with a difficult choice, he either agrees to Tang Xiao's divorce application, the two people shoot and scatter, and each starts a new life; or he forgives Tang Xiao and accepts the child, and the family freezes the previous suspicions, reconciles, and continues to live together.
His choice is important and difficult, which is related to his later life, but also to a man's face and dignity.
In the eyes of ordinary people, men usually choose divorce when they encounter this situation, which is a kind of quick knife and chaos, a hundred ways to do it, but Zhang Liangming and Tang Xiao have deep feelings, they also have a son, he does not want to give up this relationship easily, and he does not want his children to grow up in a single-parent family.
However, Tang Xiao was ambiguous with other men behind Zhang Liangming's back, she was also pregnant with someone else's child, she even wanted to hide the sky and the sea, and toyed with Zhang Liang in applause, if she did not take the initiative to file for divorce, this matter may always be a secret. Her series of practices are contrary to public order and good customs, and are despised by the world, which is both a betrayal of the family and an humiliation of her husband, and no man can bear this breath.
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