Entering marriage carries responsibility, and choosing love chooses responsibility.
Marriage is complex, and it has to restrain its own thoughts, constrain its own behavior, and even change its own ideas.
Some people say that marriage is like sugar cane, it begins to be sweet, the more it is chewed, the more tasteless it is; others say that marriage is old wine, and the more it is put in, the longer it is, the sweeter it is.
Therefore, people living in marriage all hope for happiness, they all hope for family harmony, and they all hope to grow old with white heads and love for a lifetime.
But the reality is too complicated, some love is defeated by temptation, some families are interfered with by three, husbands become enemies, and children become orphans.
Ms. Bu said that from herself, she witnessed the betrayal of marriage and the change of family, and complained that she was a woman whose marriage had failed.
Things started from their own work, Ms. Bu worked in a clothing factory, and gradually learned a little technology, I wanted to go back to my hometown after a while, to see my husband and 15-year-old son at home, and then use the clothing technology that was still passable, to make a few pairs of pants for her husband, which is the wife's heart, but also a little surprise.
Unexpectedly, her husband sent a message saying that he asked her not to come back and wanted to break off relations with her. Ms. Bu thought it was a joke, and she smiled in her heart and did not care.
Then, the compatriots who worked together told her that her husband, Mr. He, had led other women to live in her house, and a 5-year-old boy.
Ms. Bu rushed to the house, and sure enough, she saw that her bed was occupied by someone, and there was a strange child lying on the bed.
The angry Ms. Bu chased after her husband for questioning, and her husband sneered but did not answer, dodged and did not say a word, and even after being questioned continuously, he actually slapped Ms. Bu.
Ms. Bu endured severe pain, covered her cheeks, tears wet her clothes, she did not believe that everything was true, found Ms. Wang who occupied her bed to reason, the other party was even more angry, asked Ms. Bu why she had gone earlier, her child was 5 years old, why did not come to stop it earlier, why did not restrain her husband.
Ms. Bu said that she trusts her husband very much, in 15 years of marriage, her husband is her main backbone, no matter what her husband does when he goes out, he never asks or interferes, in addition to trust is support.
I didn't expect that I was wrong, trust was hurt in exchange, and support was betrayed.
Looking at her own family from poverty to gradually getting better, I did not expect that now I have worked hard to become an outsider, and in the face of such a shameless dove occupying the magpie's nest, Ms. Bu is physically and mentally exhausted. She also understood that crying could not be exchanged for what it had been before, and anger could not be exchanged for pity.
Once again, he questioned how his husband, who had an iron heart, ended up, and the husband was very calm, letting her roll up and leave, accept the reality without leaving, and live together with the three of them.
Finally, the mother-in-law appeared and praised Ms. Bu for her dedication to the family, but expressed her inability to change her own son.
Looking at her morally upright husband and looking at the reality that she was powerless to change, Ms. Bu was devastated, and the only thing she could do was to fight for what belonged to her 15-year-old son. There is a three-story house in the family, which was originally discussed by the family to be left to Ms. Bu's son in the future, in order to prevent her husband and the woman he brought to steal her son's property, Ms. Bu beat her spirit, summoned up enough courage, and the whole family once again made an agreement and signed a contract. Their own families have been destroyed, and their children's lives can no longer be robbed by others.
Digression: Another marriage broke down, another family broke up.
Liking the new and hating the old is the root cause of the breakdown of marriage, and irresponsibility is the original sin of family dissolution.
Ms. Bu's transformation from trust in her husband to the cruelty of reality's betrayal left her speechless and shocked her.
Life still has to go on, life still has to move forward, I hope Ms. Bu out of the shadows and live a wonderful life.
So, in marriage, do and cherish, you say?
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