Write to yourself, you must love yourself well, only by loving yourself, you have the opportunity to love more people
#What do you think about life# #你每天的动力是什么 #
Just like in love, when you are all hiding under the eaves of the house together to avoid the rain, you can't come forward and say "let's go together" because you don't even have an umbrella.
When we don't know where we will meet the person we like, it is better to make ourselves better and better first, because only when we are worthy of being loved can we meet true love.
Floating and heavy life, we are all single individuals, ups and downs, can only rely on ourselves to break through; sour, sweet and bitter, can only rely on their own to taste; responsibility pressure, can only rely on their own to carry. There may be a moment when someone will reach out to help you, but what others give is only for a while, and what they give to themselves is a lifetime.
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Teacher Bi Shumin wrote in "You Have to Love Yourself Well": "If you are angry, you will scream. If you grieve, you cry. If you love it, you express it. If you like it, you pursue it. ”
In fact, life has never been long in Japan. So, don't always think about the future, don't always wrong yourself, and don't always think about loving others. Rather, when you are giving others full of love, don't forget to leave a little love for yourself.
I know that everyone's heart has the most vulnerable moments, maybe because of a song they hear, they will hear tears; maybe they are alone on the street, and they will feel inexplicably lost.
The life of each of us adults is not as easy as imagined. Maybe when the work is stressful, you will often forget to eat, and even occasionally have a little problem with your body, you are putting up with it yourself, never letting your family and friends worry. Maybe when you are in love, even if you are sad, you still have to pretend that you are okay.
Remember the saying: No matter how you cried last night, today's city is still bustling with traffic. So, when you say you want to make the people around you happy and have a better life, then are you happy and have a good life?
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Some people say: I sincerely hope that I will become a very powerful person, you ask me what is great, probably one day, to protect the lover, worthy of friends, support the family.
So, dear self, from today onwards, let yourself live simply and plainly. After all, in this world, you will always be the most unique person, even if no one knows how to appreciate you, you must love yourself and be the most authentic yourself.
So, dear yourself, for the rest of your life, don't care too much about some people, care too much about some things, let everything go naturally, and face everything with the best mentality. Because the world is like this, often the people you care about the most have never taken you seriously.
So, dear self, when you are not happy, find a corner or wrap yourself in the quilt and cry for a while, and when the crying is over, smile at yourself in the mirror and say: Everything starts again.
So, dear self, never embarrass yourself, never torture yourself and punish yourself for being unhappy. After all, in this world, there is only one that cannot go back, and nothing that cannot be passed.
So, dear yourself, you must know that your own world will be more dazzling with its own sunshine.
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In the book "Living Law", I read a kind of gratitude understanding: our lives are actually bad and bad like intertwined ropes, and good things and bad things happen alternately. Therefore, whether it is good or bad, whether it is sunny or cloudy, or whether it is a disaster, do not complain, do not be discouraged, but have a sense of gratitude, because you are still alive.
Therefore, everything in the past is better to let go, be a person with heart, and treat things with love. Forget all the troubles of yesterday, today is still the rising sun!
Well, we all know that people's lives are really short, it is better to stay up less late and shed less tears in the future. No matter what happens later, what kind of weather you encounter, whether it is a rainstorm or a sunny day, you must eat well and sleep well, because only by taking care of yourself can you love others well.
If you like it, add a point of attention to praise it, and finally give yourself a sentence: crowds of people, people come and go, self-esteem and self-love, in order to be free. May you first learn to love yourself in a long time.
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