In the past ten days, there has been no update, but a few new friends have come.
I happened to write an article titled "In Case One Day, This Public Account Becomes History", making it seem like I'm going to run.
To clarify, short-term or not, long-term probability will not, maybe I have developed the habit of writing something, not to send it is a waste.
As for what to do in these two days?
Eat meat and go.
Dogs that have eaten meat
When I was a child, I also had a dog at home.
It is a black and white earth dog, and the high-end name is "Chinese Pastoral Dog".
The only thing I can remember now is that one morning I woke up in a daze, my mother was in the bathroom rumbling with the washing machine, as soon as I got out of bed, the dog ran at me and was still screaming; I was protecting myself with my feet, and I retreated to the couch, trying my best to avoid and fight back against the mad dog under the sofa...
The truth is, the dog was kicked in the eye by me and I was unscathed – I understood that it was my unilateral abuse.
Off-topic, the status of this dog in my family is staggering, leftovers usually eat ourselves, dogs can only eat broken meals and broken pickles, as if every day, I have never seen such a low-cost form of dog raising!
Later, because of the "fight" with me, the dog was given to an old Chinese medicine doctor with a rather superior family.
The old Chinese medicine doctor began to feed leftovers, and then fed some cheap ham sausages or something, and then fed it people to eat meat that did not stumble, and then more picky eaters, many times I can eat chicken wings, which I can't eat, a high-end ingredient that I can't eat...
The living conditions are superior, I don't know if the dog will remember the hard years of eating bad vegetables.
The dog's life is undoubtedly happy: teenagers suffer a lot, old age enjoys great blessings, has always been better, and has never been lost.
But can a dog that has eaten meat still go back to eat?
Frugality and luxury
As the old saying goes: from frugality to luxury, from luxury to frugality.
This sentence describes only one fact: whether a man or a dog, the pain of loss is far greater than the never having.
But it does not show that eating meat and luxury must be better than eating and frugality.
Regardless of the existence of a very small number of M, that is, like to eat and frugality, then almost all people like to eat meat and luxury.
But why should we consider the question of whether to go from luxury to frugality or from frugality to luxury? Don't everyone want to stay luxurious forever?
Because there is still a big gap between reality and expectations.
Because some of the frugality is still meaningful to luxury.
Because some luxury will not be eternal and deserved.
Luxury: Is it eternal?
There was a debate long ago: under the premise of material conditions, it is necessary to let children suffer a little, such as not turning on the air conditioner in the hot summer, eating chaff during growth and development...
I think this is unnecessary, and the young man of this era, in his lifetime, even if he has been impoverished all his life, I am afraid that he will not have much opportunity to experience extreme material deprivation.
The luxury that is almost impossible to "enter into frugality" can be regarded as a matter of course, or even not a luxury - this luxury corresponds to frugality, which is meaningless.
Just like we all know that a fall will hurt, it is very comfortable not to wrestle, and surely no one will be humble to go to special wrestling to be grateful not to wrestle.
And some luxury is a high probability that it will be thrifty, then this luxury is a bad thing.
Usually very frugal state, because some accidental events have been extravagant, and eventually we have to return to the state of frugality, and the happiness of frugality into luxury is far from the pain of frugality.
For example, if you hit 500W and lose it, most people, including me, will be in pain.
If you were to ask if there is such a big prize in reality, do you have to get and lose? Just look at the big swings in the stock market.
And some luxury is likely to be thrifty, then this luxury, in between the above two, may be a bad thing.
For example, if you win 500W, you will be generous, for example, if someone appreciates it, you will inflate it, such as opening Pandora's box by accidentally making immoral profits...
500W, to go to the flower, it will always be spent; conceited expansion, the balloon will one day explode; violation of the crime, one day caught in the net to zero...
For the luxury that has almost zero probability of becoming thrifty, it is regarded as a matter of course; for the luxury that has a high probability of becoming thrifty, it is regarded as never owned, as a beautiful dream, as a goal of struggle; for the luxury that has a probability of becoming thrifty, it is necessary to have wisdom to deal with it.
Frugality: The meaning of luxury
Corresponding to the three kinds of luxury, there are three kinds of frugality.
The luxury of almost zero probability will be thrifty, and its corresponding frugality is basically impossible to happen, and it should be regarded as meaningless frugality.
No one needs to deliberately torture themselves to exercise willpower.
The luxury of thriftiness with a high probability, the corresponding thrift is that it will occur with a high probability, and it should be regarded as a thrift that must be adapted.
How to face the large fluctuations in stock market accounts is a lesson that every investor has to face.
There is a probability that there will be a probability of thrift, and its corresponding thrift is that there is a probability that it will occur, and wisdom is needed to make judgments and choices.
Winning 500W, the best way is to be unearned, in addition to solving key problems, continue the established life trajectory will not be disturbed.
I have found that the meaning of frugality depends entirely on whether this frugality will happen again.
We need to learn to get used to, adapt to, or overcome frugality that we need to face again; we don't need to face frugality again, and we don't think about it anymore.
What we need is wisdom to discern whether every kind of thrift will happen again.
May the Lord give me peace, accept what I cannot change, give me the courage to change what I can change, and give me the wisdom to discern the difference.
postscript
That dog, who has no worries about eating in his life, can indulge in eating meat.
And we may still face the suffering of today or even yesterday again, we can only overcome it step by step and climb up the ladder, until we suddenly look back, those so-called sufferings have long been left at the foot of the mountain, becoming the frugality that we can never go back to, and obtaining a stable luxury.
These days have been enough to live a good life, but such a beauty is still so short and unreal, I can only regard it as a model for a better life in the future, and the current frugality is enough, eating thoroughly, crushing, and far behind, in order to be able to hope for luxury.
Writing, reading, push-ups as far as possible to return to normal, running continues to shelve, investment first look at the Tang Dynasty anthology, Jiuyang soybean milk machine suspended.
I'm back!!!
Keep eating shit~
finish!
This is my 339th writing, a small part of his ordinary and boring life, and a little progress for him.
Welcome to the public account "Knead everyone" to play with me.
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