Intermittently wrote a public account for several years, the fans are relatively fixed, there is not much traffic, just entertain themselves. Often a friend gives me advice, you have to be bold, you have to find a way to beat out of place, attract the public's attention, let more people forward, and then the traffic will come.
Every time I hear it, I smile: Thank you for reminding me!
Recently, there is a person who has become famous, and he may have been like me, who did not want to fight for the position, but really became famous because of the words and deeds of the position.
This quantitative investor named Ding Peng, because he said a string of words to his son, was screenshotted and posted on the Internet, causing an uproar in public opinion.
This jun's son had just entered the second year of junior high school, and he said to his son: Dad doesn't want you to get rich, you just need to have a few more women, and give your father more grandchildren.
Ding Peng not only said this to his son, but also put it into action. He revealed that when his son was in elementary school, he bought him a mobile phone, opened WeChat for him, and called tens of thousands of yuan in his son's WeChat to let him invite the female students in the class to eat snacks. Ding Peng is proud that his son now has two girlfriends.
After these remarks fermented on the Internet, a reporter interviewed Ding Peng, this guy did not deny that he had said this, admitted that his quality was not high, but also felt that everyone did not need to be so on the line, I just chatted privately, and what I said was the truth.
After the news of Ding Peng's destruction of the three views came out, the Internet fried the pot, and someone openly asked him, you say this to your son is discrimination against women, you let your son make a girlfriend at will, how does your son look at his mother? As soon as this remark came out, it immediately reminded people of the small flower plum in Xuzhou who was chained and gave birth to eight babies.
After the Xiaohuamei incident was exposed, putting aside the old accounts of the past and not talking about it, everyone's biggest doubt was that Xiaohuamei's eldest son was 23 years old, why in this matter, what his father did to his mother for so many years did not see him to do something for his mother, or say something. Not even a little!
The 23-year-old man had been exposed to all kinds of abuse and violence against his mother since he was a child, and from the time he understood things, or from the time he was able to open his eyes to see the world, his mother was chained like an animal, and his father treated his mother like an animal.
In his upbringing, or in his habitual thinking, mothers may be equated with cattle and should not be treated as human beings. So, when some media came to interview their family, he also blamed others, broke the tranquility of his family, let their family be concerned, and brought trouble and troubles to their family.
It may never have occurred to him that the man locked up was his biological mother, someone who needed to be respected or at least treated as an equal. Or maybe he had thought about it, but such a thought was immediately rejected. The Father is his example, and the power of the example is infinite.
A person's attitude toward women will completely affect his children, like the man who locked Xiaohuamei in Xuzhou with chains, like Ding Peng, who told his son early to have a few more women.
In essence, these two people are exactly the same, the only difference is only a poor acid, a waist. No matter how much money and high cultural knowledge, they still can't get rid of the inferiority in their bones. From this point of view, the cultured Ding Peng is more terrible than the poor lock-in Dong Moumin.
Dong Moumin may also have a helpless choice because of poverty, at least in the early days, but Ding Peng is the active choice after the life is better. Dong Moumin's influence on his son may only be because of the unintentional influence of his words and deeds, but Ding Peng is actively influencing, and before his son reaches adulthood, he is eager to let him go to practice immediately.
Men without money lock up women and use them to make short videos to earn money or to make a living. A man with money thinks from beginning to end how to enjoy, how to be a, and he feels that the time is not waiting. I don't know how Ding Peng's son views his mother and how he will look at women in the future.
Writing here, this topic should have ended, remembering that I had just read an article about Rugao Water Painting Garden written by a public account, which wrote "the enviable love story of Mao Peijiang and Dong Xiaowan". Originally, such an article would be good to look at casually, but after pulling the article, it was very sad to see that the author graduated from the Renmin University with a master's degree and the staff of the local local history compilation office. I would like to ask this author, have you really read "The Memories of Shadow Plum An"? Shouldn't people who write local chronicles respect objective facts?
Thousands of words throughout the "Ying Mei An Reminiscences" is a reminiscence article written after Dong Xiaowan's death, I once read and wrote an article, this imposter boy to Dong Xiaowan who accompanied him for nine years, feel that it is a good, even if the Si people have passed away, he came to write a reminiscence, can not get rid of that feeling of good conceit in the heart. To put it bluntly, it is the arrogant and invincible face of the big man in front of the little woman.
If you have to say anything about love throughout the ages, it is probably just Dong Xiaowan's wishful thinking. Or, to be more precise, Dong Xiaowan, as a dusty woman, faced with the disaster of her home country at the end of the Ming Dynasty, her livelihood had no way to go and nowhere to throw grievances, trepidation and helplessness. Don't put everything on love and make people laugh when they say it. Do you take this and ask Ding Peng, or Dong Moumin, do they believe it? He didn't believe it, so he would write it out in the text with that face, and the so-called words are the voice of the heart.
In the final analysis, Ding Peng, Dong Moumin, and the risk of breaking through Xinjiang are all all goods swept by a broom.