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Gossip Dream of the Red Chamber: Women's Lives in Different Eras

author:The Ximing Book Garden's Huan Rui is radiant

The women in the book lived in the middle of the Qing Dynasty, and Kangqian flourished. Noble women enter and leave either to enter the palace or marry someone to become a noblewoman. Of the four daughters of the Jia family, only one of them, because she could not bear the humiliation brought to her by her family, stepped into the empty door to escape and avoid the injustice of fate.

Yuan Chun and Tan Chun, one is a selected woman into the palace, and the other is a substitute for the county lord. In history, the princess and the lord of the county are said to be the only princesses of the royal family who are really royal princesses. Others, such as Wang Zhaojun, are the people's daughters who marry the royal women to the Xiongnu. Tanchun is a non-royal woman who marries a royal woman instead of a royal woman.

This is the nobles who are already in decline, and their parents and brothers have no power or position in the court. A woman locked in a deep palace, without strong foreign relatives as a support, with no favor from the emperor, and wanting to live well, only constantly bribing eunuchs, mainly eunuchs in charge. The people yuanchun brought into the palace, in the end, there was only one person who held the qin, a hugging qin who was about the same age as her, at most, it was to accompany YuanChun, and there were very few other things that could be handled for Yuanchun, after all, it was the palace. If Yuan Chun marries the living prince of Belle, as a concubine, BaoQin can have more scope to help Yuan Chun. Looking at the brocade and jade food, it is actually a huge cage. Noble women are proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, not for the sake of vassalage, but to let them have a hobby, to send them to be snubbed by their husbands, to be harassed by their in-laws, and to be reprimanded by their pampered and proud concubines, and they also have a means to alleviate their depressed mood.

Gossip Dream of the Red Chamber: Women's Lives in Different Eras

The most depressed was Empress Cao, who was not waiting to be seen alive, and although she was not deposed as an empress, she was still crowned as Empress Wencheng, a favorite concubine who died early. The two empresses of life and death, as empress Cao, who was born as a shogun, was gentle and virtuous, astute and loyal. The Song Dynasty suppressed the military generals, and Empress Cao entered the palace alone, and also shouldered the lives of hundreds of people in the Cao family. Of course, Zhao Zhen was not a dimwitted jun, but Zhao Zhen was full of interest in his thousands of miles of rivers and mountains. For the woman next to him, Zhang Guifei's human nature is not sensible, and it is only a tool for Zhao Zhen to relieve the pressure in his heart after being splashed by the Yushitai Spit Star Zi.

Empress Cao was decent, and several times wanted to use the excuse of abolishing the lubricant that later eased the pressure caused by the imperial court ministers on Zhao Zhen. When Zhao Zhen was not happy, he would put forward various reasons why after the abolition, the courtiers would let go of all things, and all the reasons why they could not abolish the posthumous.

Empress Cao's lonely heart is the motivation for those noble maidens who are helpless to enter the palace, and in order to maintain the safety of their loved ones, they are helpless to live.

Gossip Dream of the Red Chamber: Women's Lives in Different Eras

When Yuan Chun was a parent, he complained that her parents had sent her to that cage. Yuan Chun didn't have too many ambitions, and if she had Wu Zetian's ambitions, she might not feel wronged. Flowers bloom like brocade, the life of fiery cooking oil, trembling and living.

Tan Chun married far away, away from her parents, if she was a wife, it might be better, but she was afraid that she would not marry a wife but a concubine, and what would be her fate.

The Jia family has fallen, unable to give Tanchun any help, and Tanchun's heart has actually been dripping blood. Aunt Zhao continued to blackmail her by blood, and finally she married far away, and her mother,Wang, wept tearfully, and her biological mother, but cheered that she was far married, and finally she had a bad breath. Aunt Zhao had been looking forward to Tanchun and marrying a Zhongshan wolf and cleaning up Tanchun well.

Yingchun in order to survive in the cracks, reading the Buddhist scriptures is to endure everything to solve, but also caused her tragedy, do not extravagantly ask her to have Xia Jingui's thief nature, she at least a little spicy, can protect herself.

Gossip Dream of the Red Chamber: Women's Lives in Different Eras

The only daughter mentioned in Jia Fuli, Jia Min, was also a gentle and virtuous woman, Lin Ruhaina's concubine, she was also fully accepted, but unfortunately there was no child under her knees, this piece of heart disease directly became the last straw that crushed the camel after the unfortunate death of her only son, and soon Jia Min died.

Lady Wang, who married into Jia Province, lived a very difficult life, but she ate and prayed to the Buddha, purified her heart, and did not treat Jia Zhengna's concubines too sadly, which would lead to Aunt Zhao's flying and stumbling. Aunt Zhao and Jia Huan framed Baoyu many times. With a kind heart, she not only had to take care of her children, but also to take care of the concubine Tanchun, but also to take care of Jia Shu's children, but also to take care of Jia Jing's children. She was kind in heart, so she gave the bitter life of welcoming spring, exploring spring, and cherishing the happy time of spring. Although she was busy with diplomatic affairs, she was overwhelmed. That's also her senior year, and her physical and mental strength can't support the busy care of a large family.

In the book, it was clearly said that Madame Wang would forget to prepare jia Zheng's clothes for the next day. In fact, it is also implicitly telling the reader that Jia Zheng is like Many men to Lady Wang, and the door is right to maintain their façade, after all, Jia Zheng's favored Aunt Zhao cannot complete the interpersonal exchanges between the dignitaries and nobles. Aunt Zhao was very good-looking, but it was a pity that the noble ladies were replacing their husbands in a kind of official interpersonal communication that could not be too clear. This technical work, jia fu married into the daughter-in-law, only Lady Wang and Sister Feng can be competent, Jia mu is already old, unavoidable to invite the old lady jun out of the mountain. In the book, it is mentioned that Princess Beijing and Princess Nan'an came to Jia Province, and the people who received them were Jia Mu and others, as well as the sisters. The only people engaged in madame diplomacy were Madame Wang and Sister Feng.

Gossip Dream of the Red Chamber: Women's Lives in Different Eras

Sister Feng's heartache is not much to say, how sad and desperate a person's heart is broken.

Lady Xing is even more of a flat figure living in the slits, pleasing Jia Amnesty, bullying Sister Feng, withholding the silver she handles, and treating blood relatives in cold blood. Lady Xing's life was very sad, and she was directly turned into a fish eye, or a dead fish eye.

You Shi sacrificed the lives of her two younger sisters in exchange for Jia Zhen to ask the concubines to invite her to celebrate the festival together, and also to say in advance that she did not have money to entertain. How to look a bit of a couple of AA systems today. Jia Zhen felt a little guilty about her, and two people died in Jia Province.

Qin Keqing lived more humblely, she was an amorous woman, but it was a pity to meet a husband like Jia Rong, and then met a father-in-law like Jia Zhen, a veteran of the love scene, and finally had to die to apologize. In history, only Yang Yuhuan has successfully changed from a daughter-in-law to a father-in-law's beloved lover. A good story of love between Li Longji and Yang Yuhuan for 12 years. They are Qinse and Ming, who have a common cause, creating pear orchards and feeding generations of pear gardeners.

Qi Wang's mansion looked for the common Year of Li Gui, and finally had to live a wandering singer life in a foreign country. Only then did du Fu's famous passages through the ages: common in the qi king's mansion, Cui Jiutang smelled several times before. It is the good scenery of Jiangnan, and the flower fall season is also the king.

Gossip Dream of the Red Chamber: Women's Lives in Different Eras

Shi Xiangyun finally said that he was married to Wei Ruolan, and finally had to be a husband who missed going out to fight, and there was a poem that read:

Chang'an is a month, and the sound of thousands of households pounding clothes. The autumn wind blows endlessly, and it is always jade. He Riping Hu Yu, the good people strike the expedition. Unfortunately, what awaited was a short parting of life and death. Since then, the lone lamp has often accompanied this body.

Xue Baochao, a woman who refuses to say a word and refuses to take one more step, finally ushers in a life of being alone in an empty house, compared to Daiyu who died early, Baochao's life is more tragic. She had not yet lived a life, toiling hard, going to the fields to collect wild vegetables, and from time to time looking into the distance, waiting for the hope of the return of the good people. Bao Chao himself knew the ending, and he also confessed his fate. The singing classics of thousands of years are also a little better than Baochao:

Harvest the rolled ears, not the basket. Oh I am pregnant with people, and I am walking around.

Shōbi Choi Song, I Ma Yu Feng. My aunt is jealous of Pi Jin, and Wei Yi will not be cherished forever.

Shōbi Takaoka, I Ma Xuan huang. My aunt is jealous of the other side, and I will not be hurt forever.

I am a horse, I am a servant, I am a servant, and I am a cloud.

At least the woman in the poem is full of hope that her husband will return. Bao Chao did not have any expectations, she recognized the reality, and finally the dust returned to dust, and the soil returned to the soil. The last piece of earth is the true eternity.

The most poignant love is the early death. Daiyu's early death makes us sigh at Bao Dai's love. Jack's sacrifice makes us believe even more that the love of the Titanic is beautiful. The reason why Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai are beautiful is to transform butterflies.

After all, love is a physiological effect, and what can go to the white head with the old man is affection and kindness.

The saddest thing is that they have not yet had time to grow up, but they have to bear such an unbearable heavy burden, Qiao Jie and Yinglian.

In the end, it can be regarded as a good home, marrying Jiang Yuhan, at least without having to live an embarrassing life without clothing.

The final winner was only Jia Mu, who had actually suffered for half a lifetime, but she was very good at dealing with the problem of wives and concubines, so that when she was old, she still had two aunts and grandmothers in Jia Province. Jia Mu's housekeeper was good, and the concubines did not act recklessly. Jammu treated them kindly.

Li Yi did a very desperate job, directly sent her aunt, all the property is hers. Li Yi eventually became a scrooge, but unfortunately his life was soon gone.

The daughters in the book have become: Guan Shan March and May, Kezi remembers Qin Chuan. Si Woman is on a tall building, when the window should not sleep.

However, I still think that Baochao and Tanchun can finally live like this:

The autumn wind rises and travels thousands of miles.

Whatever you do, build the Great Wall across the desert.

The little boy is wise, the camp of the first saints.

Trees and ten thousand worlds, anthony million trillion births.

Don't dare to worry about it, and sit high in Shangjing.

The North River sees the Wu Festival, and the Thousand Mile Scroll Rong Jing.

Mountains and rivers haunt each other, and the wilderness is poor and neglectful.

Hit the gold to stop the line, and beat the drum to raise the soldiers.

Thousands of flags move, drink horses great wall cave.

Autumn dusk plugs the clouds, fog darkens the mountains and moons.

Yuanyan Yi immediately took the air beacon to send fire.

Borrowing the Great Wall Marquis, Shan Yu entered the Hajj.

The turbid air is still in the Tianshan Mountains, and the morning light is high.

The release of troops is still rejuvenating the brigade, and it is necessary to do everything in a vacuum.

Drink until the words are swirling, and the credit is returned to the front of the Qing Temple.

Gossip Dream of the Red Chamber: Women's Lives in Different Eras

An epic poem of a daughter, Mulan finally has to face her husband's tendency to cheat, listen to her father's words, and come forward to save her marriage. Don't worry about daring to love and dare to hate, but that's it!

Nowadays, women must have their own lives, do not let the love brain, the last person who is harmed has two empty money, and the old pearl is yellow. To be a wise woman, rationally run a family, happy family is similar, let love from beginning to end, with the hand of the son, with the son with the old, is the best interpretation of the Chinese people for marriage, the family.

Looking at many successful businessmen in the world, half of them grow old with their wives. Unfortunately, he will also maintain a long-term relationship with his second wife.

In fact, in the adult world, there is no longer love, but love, kindness, friendship, family affection, mutual understanding, and mutual support.

Jia Mu did it, Madame Wang did it. Although their lives are bitter, they are generally happy.