Author: Number One Emotion
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"Happy marriages are all similar, unhappy marriages have their own misfortunes", this phrase comes from Leo Tolstoy's Anna Karenina.
To tell the truth, it is not an easy thing to meet the right person in the vast sea of people, especially to spend a long married life, once you meet someone unladylike, you will inevitably fall into an unhappy life.
In fact, whether it is a woman or a man, you should make some preparations before marriage, especially for men, do not be careless, otherwise it is likely to fall into an unhappy marriage because of negligence.
After all, marriage is very important to life, even if you have loved to the point of desperation, you should also consider your future life and strive to make your married life without any accidents.
Generally speaking, before a man gets married, he should inquire about the three things in the woman's family to avoid endless troubles.
Inquire about the reputation of the woman's family
To be honest, a person's character and family are inextricably linked, and sometimes what you see is just a disguise, and the family hidden behind it is real.
Although the two people have reached the point of talking about marriage, before marriage, men should inquire about the reputation of the woman's family in advance, so as not to fall into the marriage life of bad character because of negligence.
If the reputation of a woman's family is not good, then there must be a problem with her character, but women are very good at disguising themselves, but this is not the reason for you to be hurt, but anyone who realizes that there is a problem with the other party's family reputation must learn to stay away from the women living in this family at the right time.
Even if a woman's character is good, it is difficult to face your father-in-law and mother-in-law with poor character, let alone a happy married life, and it is likely to pay the price in the end.
Inquire about a woman's emotional experience
In real life, almost everyone has their own emotional experience, and even the woman who is in love with you now will have several unforgettable emotional experiences before meeting you.
Love can ignore past events, but inquiring about a woman's emotional experience in advance can make you make a more accurate judgment, especially a woman's attitude in the relationship, to see if she has indiscriminate feelings and non-specificity, and effectively avoid being hurt by hypocrisy.
Marriage is not a one-time thing, it is not that you must get married if you think it is appropriate, and you cannot completely ignore the past emotional experience, after all, after hearing about this, you can understand women more fully and make correct judgments.
Therefore, no matter how much you love the woman in front of you, you should try to inquire about her emotional experience, which is not a suspicion of her, but a manifestation of deep love, only in this way can you create a happier and happier married life.
Inquire about women's attitudes towards life
Marriage is not to pursue an ultimate happiness, but two people living together, need to experience trivial things together, and the dullness of chai rice oil and salt.
Especially for a man, everyone wants to meet a woman who is a Wangfu, but if the woman's attitude towards life is very negative, and even often complains about life, it is particularly easy to bring negative energy to men, resulting in a messy situation in life.
Some women themselves are particularly negative energy, and marrying such people, the future life will definitely be affected, it is difficult to have true happiness.
Therefore, before getting married, inquire about a good woman's attitude to life in order to find a woman who can share her happiness and hardships, at least the attitude of life should be positive and optimistic, so that the future married life will always be happy.
Write at the end
Marriage is the most important thing in life, no matter how it can not be ok, if you can not find the right person for yourself, do not easily enter the marriage.
Especially the above three things, before getting married, you must inquire clearly, avoid encountering a woman with poor conduct, complex emotional experience, and a negative attitude towards life, otherwise once you marry this kind of woman, your life will have endless troubles.