Once upon a time, did you ever think, "If you knew today, why did you do it in the first place?" How nice it would be if I could tell my past self some of the lessons I've gained now. "Of course, some detours must be taken, and we can't get to where we are now without teaching fees, so it is inevitable to experience some setback process." However, we can pass on our own experience to others, hoping that our little life experience can help others take fewer detours and struggle for a few years. The following are some life experiences and advice summarized by people who have come over, and sent to you on the road of hard work.
1, we always have such a group of people around us, the income is not high, the family conditions are average, but always like to play a swollen face and fat, the pursuit of high-quality life, such as buying high-end mobile phones, buying a good car, taking out a loan to buy a big house, traveling all over the country, even traveling abroad, nothing to eat and drink with fox friends, life must be happy, instantly feel how beautiful life is! But the result? It is either the moonlight, or the kanu and the house slaves are overwhelmed, borrowing money everywhere to survive, that is to say, behind the scenery in front of outsiders are sad souls. You have to know that good steel is used on the blade, and you spend a lot of money, such as supporting parents, raising children, making emergency preparations for natural and man-made disasters, and so on. If you can think rationally, please underestimate your life, enjoy life moderately, wait until you have enough money, and then pursue a high-quality life and achieve it.
2, high salary is not as good as high life, high life is not as happy, not afraid of low income, afraid of returning to the west, not afraid of earning less, afraid of going early. Developing good eating and living habits is to store health, indulging bad habits and eating habits is overdrawing life, without a healthy body, your brilliant life will be instantly bleak! This sentence can only be truly understood by middle-aged people who are sick and older people.
3, do not always feel that they are inferior to others, they are a loser, in fact, in this life, the vast majority of pain comes from comparison, rather than food and clothing. Don't be too harsh on yourself, there is a sky outside the sky, there are people outside the people, you work hard to always have better people than you, you can't catch up with Ma Yun or Wang Jianlin no matter how hard you struggle, the most important thing, your inferiority and depression will not change any of your status quo, so you can believe that you are the best person, but the most you can feel that you can achieve life, people are self-aware, overestimating yourself will make you very tired. Contentment is not to make you comfortable with the status quo, but to find the best balance between hard work and enjoyment of life after fully understanding your own abilities and strengths!
4, you can forget everything, sports and fitness can not forget, excuses can not spare time to exercise and fitness people, sooner or later will make time to see a doctor!
5, if you make a mistake, don't care too much, keep the original intention, and continue to move forward. We are ordinary human beings, and there will always be mistakes. We can try our best not to dwell too much on our mistakes and see them as stepping stones to your future success, a lesson. If you can happily say when you make a mistake: "Great, I have eaten another trench and grown a wisdom", congratulations, you are close to success!
6, do not care too much about your small losses, if you look down for your lost skateboard, you are likely to not see the Rolls Royce parked in front of you. Victory or defeat is a common thing for soldiers, doing business has losses and gains, this is common sense, reluctant children can not trap wolves, this sentence is also known to everyone, but why are you still entangled in your own mistakes and losses?
7) Don't always worry about what hasn't happened, the future will always come, and it won't change according to your will. Don't worry too much about unemployment, getting older, dying or losing something, or gaining something, everything should be what it should be, there will be a road before the car to the mountain, willows and flowers are bright and another village, grasp the present, live today, is the last word.
8, healthy longevity, happy life of the 6 lifestyles: can not be hungry to eat, can not be thirsty to drink, can not sleep before sleep, can not be tired to rest, can not be sick to check, can not be old and regret. Now that you look at these 6 lifestyles, is it easy to do it?
9, the so-called happy life is actually very simple, the threshold is very low, that is, to have people who really love you, have close friends, have an upward career or job, and have a warm residence.
10, no matter how much power you have now, how big your career is, how rich you are, remember that your family is always the first, and your family is your life! Cultivate the vine of affection and make it strong and powerful, and your family is the greatest ally in your life, always supporting your rear. Cherish every second of getting together, learn to love and pay, know that no matter how long you spend together in this life, love or not, walk across the Nai Ho Bridge, drink Meng Po soup, in the next life you will not see each other, goodbye, you can not remember each other.
11, coarse tea light rice is the greatest happiness, do not envy those who eat outside all day and drink spicy, people who go to the banquet all day have no meal to eat well, people only do two things in their lives: hungry to eat, sleepy to sleep! Because it is indeed very difficult for people to eat very well and sleep very sweetly in their lifetime, it can be said that the vast majority of people cannot do it, and the people who can understand this sentence are people who have come over.
12, do not seek is expensive, contentment is always happy, no illness is longevity, enough is rich, no desire is a blessing. Life is only thirty thousand days, the red stripe comes, the red stripe goes, the things outside the body, life does not bring, death does not bring, the house is built no matter how big it is also a temporary residence, only the small wooden box is a permanent home. Success and failure must be faced calmly, right and wrong must not care, health and happiness is what you should pursue in your life, do not understand, just imagine yourself as a person in your 90s.
13, smile without cost, but can create wealth; praise does not cost money, but can produce strength; sharing without cost, but can harvest connections.
14, life is not long, other people's views are far less important than your thoughts, do not care too much about other people's views, do not do everything to cater to others. This is easier said than done, but if you are sober, you can really do it through hard work, learn to focus on your goals, don't care about other people's eyes, don't care who pays attention to the results of your work. At this time, life will become a relaxing and enjoyable journey.
15, the cause does not need to be earth-shattering, small achievements are on the line; money does not need to be inexhaustible, to solve the problem of food and clothing; friends do not need to be inseparable, can think of the line; children do not need more and less, as long as filial piety is on the line; life does not need to live more, to maintain health.
16, the biggest mistake in life is to exchange health for things outside the body; the greatest sorrow in life is to use life to correct the right and wrong of others; the greatest pain in life is the son's desire for filial piety and not to wait; the biggest tragedy in life is that the family is not rich and dies first; the biggest waste in life is to use life to solve the troubles created by oneself; the biggest pity in life is to understand what to do at the time of death!
17, no matter how old you are, don't feel that you understand everything, really understand everything, just like these life experiences and advice you see today, you think you understand, maybe you haven't understood, you think you understand, in fact, you don't understand, there are some detours you still have to go, the place where you should fall will still fall. In this world, there are always some things you don't know, when you know, what you need to do is to learn from everything you are exposed to, try to play your learning experience, and live to learn from the old! This is my last piece of advice to you! The world is a trio