Author/Pond Fish
In our inherent concept, it is always easy to link the two words of love with youth. Many people think that the love of youth is often more pure, does not contain any impurities, like is to like, like a person, you have the kind of love across the mountains and seas, mountains and seas can be flat mentality.
In fact, no, love at any age has the color that should be had at this age.
Not only are young people chasing love, in fact, with the continuous growth of age, after seeing through the various truths of life, some people can face love at this time.
When we look at the joys and sorrows of life in other people's stories, we may find that the existence of many farces is sometimes more bloody than TV dramas.
Two days ago, I heard a classmate say such a thing.
There was a woman in their hometown, 47 years old, because they met a man online, the two of them chatted every day, and then gradually liked each other. Also because of this man, women are determined to divorce their husbands and pursue the love in their hearts.
And her marriage with her husband, so many years not to say how good it is, but not much bad, is a simple, ordinary day, before the two people worked outside together, the money sent back to the two children to go to school, the old man in the family with children, and then when the eldest daughter went to high school, she came back to take the children to school, after the eldest daughter and then with the younger son to study, the husband and wife have been in a different place.
This marriage model, there are a lot around, anyway, overall, it is for the sake of the family for the children, do not want the children in the important stage of life, the parents are not around, but two people are around, no one goes out to earn money, so it can only be so different.
It's just that the same pattern, different people will have completely different results. In marriage, in order to bring this intimate relationship to the end, there are many things to test, not only mutual love, but also the common responsibility of both parties to the family, but if one party loses the original intention in the middle, or holds a fluke mentality, then the relationship may fall apart.
Some people say that marriage is originally anti-human, because no matter how good people are, in the time of being with each other for many years, they will slowly become so, and the rest is only habit and cooperation, and the interests of each other are competing, coupled with the existence of children, so that marriage becomes more stable.
If, without the addition of these chips, marriage in this process, may only rely on a momentary freshness and love, can not last long.
Many people's love is like this, when you love, it is true love, when you don't love, you really don't love, the past heartache is true, and the later cruel heart is also true.
This woman, in fact, for so many years, has done a good job in marriage, she is a good mother, but also a good wife, has been doing what she thinks is right, but also recognized. Her husband is also a more down-to-earth and reliable person, and after so many years of marriage, he has not faced any challenges.
However, at this juncture, because a strange man suddenly appeared, he easily broke the stable life they had created for so many years.
What does this woman think?
First, she insisted that they were true love.
So that after the comparison, she began to think that she and her husband for so many years is just a coincidence, the original is the parents' fate of the media, she did not dare to express her own views, the parents of the family said yes, and then engaged, and then married, before marriage did not see a few faces, do not understand each other, all the feelings are after marriage, step by step cultivation, just like many people around.
In her opinion, between her and her husband, there is basically no sweet moment of love, that is, pure life, just to get by.
But the appearance of this man, let her have a different feeling, but also has the enthusiasm of love, they can chat until midnight, there are endless topics, but and their husband's words, every day just a simple two words, there is nothing to say to each other.
So, she started wanting to be with him. It is said that the man was also divorced.
Second, she doesn't think she needs to think about her children.
Because both children are older and no longer blindly need to be taken care of by her, she has not considered the child's idea in this matter.
She believes that life should live for itself, and it is not easy to meet love at this age, so be brave to pursue, if you have been hesitant, and finally live unhappily here, people over there will also lose.
So, things end here, began to go in a strange direction, the woman's husband said that as long as she broke off the relationship and went home to live a good life, they still lived as before, he did not pursue, but the woman herself was not willing, she would divorce.
Seriously, you found that no, many middle-aged women tend to be more "impulsive" after being emotional.
I used to think that if people reach middle age, after experiencing many things and lives, whether men or women, they should become more rational in the face of love, and they will not easily make a decision and change their existing lives.
But later, I found out that my thinking was not absolutely correct. On the contrary, there are many people, men and women, after people reach middle age, in the face of love in their hearts, they are braver than they once were, especially in the case of the interests of the two people are not deeply entangled.
Because they will think that people have lived most of their lives, it is not easy to meet love, if they do not fight for it, this life may be like this.
A stable life has been lived for a long time, not everyone will yearn for it, and human nature is always so difficult to figure out.
And the right and wrong of this matter, I believe that from the standpoint of different people, there will be completely different views. But one thing is that no matter how outsiders judge it, life is always your own, and any decisions you make at the beginning need to bear all the consequences later. After all, once some things are done, there is no regret medicine in the world.
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