Hong Kong actress sunbathing luxury bags, sighing too much and worrying 01 ./cherishing items 02 ./ real "luxury"

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Some time ago, some media reported that Hong Kong actress Lei Kaixin posted her family's brand-name bags on the Internet, which was so many that it was eye-catching. But she said that she bought too much, and had to make it for several hours at a time, which was too annoying and quite a taste of Versailles.

In the photos she posted, bags from various luxury brands were layered in cabinets, and all four floors were packed with exaggeration. And these expensive bags were stuffed by her, like the scene of the wholesale market, and she didn't feel cherished at all.

She also joked that she had turned on the "factory mode", and the bags on the ground were all packed into transparent storage bags, which looked like a stall at a glance. She has many classic handbags from ChaneX and PradX, and she even buys several bags of the same different colors.

But these bags have now become her biggest trouble, and she can't afford to lose them, and it takes her a lot of time to sort them out, and I think she is really annoyed when I look at them.

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Some time ago, a girlfriend sent me a screenshot of the circle of friends of another of my girlfriends, the content is that she transformed the three shoe boxes at home into small cabinets according to the suggestions of a netizen in the Little Red Book.

My girlfriend reminded me to look at the logo on the shoe box, and I took a closer look, and it turned out to be all LV.

The girlfriend sighed that her good environmental protection was vividly sunburned into Versailles, and she was not good to see her whole person.

At the same time as sighing, my girlfriend and I poured bitter water, thinking that after giving birth to children in recent years, I was too indebted to myself, and people of the same age had several luxury bags, but she was not willing to buy one. Now whenever I see my friends using luxury goods, it is very uncomfortable, and my mood will be greatly affected.

I told her that I didn't have any, but my definition of buying luxury goods or not was whether I needed them or not.

Tell me about a colleague of mine, Big C Teacher, whose bags are either Xiaoxiang's, Celine's, or Gucci's, but I have never felt any taste of Versailles and ostentatious wealth from her. And I accompanied her to luxury stores to buy clothes a few times.

What I feel is that she really likes the design of this bag, her materials, such as Chanel some time ago out of a fully embroidered bag, very delicate, big C teacher did not hesitate to buy it. She said that she saw the weaving method of this embroidery at a glance, and she can integrate traditional Chinese handicraft techniques into big brands, which is also a skill.

Another time I accompanied her to buy clothes, a dress more than 10,000 she tried immediately after buying, she said too comfortable, the fabric is 100% cotton and linen, the fit is completely fitted, I bought.

The clerk asked me to try on a dress, it looked good, I didn't have any desire to buy it at first glance, and Teacher Big C also advised me not to buy it, because I didn't think of any occasions to wear her. If an item is just a decoration and has no real practical value, how much money it costs is a waste, let alone let me spend five figures.

In fact, Teacher Big C's love of luxury goods is not out of show off, nor has she been kidnapped by luxury goods, she bought a designer dress worn for ten years, and each bag is very carefully cared for

I give my girlfriend my own philosophy of luxury goods, buy and not buy is your freedom, do not be bound by the idea that buying luxury goods is to show off versailles, not to buy is to cry poor.

In fact, I believe that most people want to buy or buy, the key is how they look at such things, how to define their value.

I remember once listening to a teacher at Chaos University talking about marketing strategy, and he mentioned:

If you agree with its value, it is natural to buy it, just like Gu Jia in "Thirty Only", buying a Hermès limited edition was never because she was a bag, but because she was the ticket to the circle of rich wives.

But if I had to struggle with a bag that wasn't genuine leather to ask me to pay a five-figure price, or buy it everywhere to show off, I was really kidnapped by luxury goods, and I was not free physically and mentally.

Just as there is an episode in "The First Half of My Life", Luo Zijun is wearing a pair of 5,000 yuan high heels on a rainy day, and must call He Han to drive the car to the company door to pick her up, because she looks at the shoes more important than herself, even if the feet are in the mud, the shoes cannot be wet, and they are completely bound by this pair of shoes.

I remember a teacher who said:

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Previously, Lin Qingxia shared the "Top Ten Luxuries in the World" on Weibo:

1. Enlightenment of life

2. A free, joyful and loving heart

3. Courage to travel the world

4. Return to nature and have the ability to connect with nature

5. Sleep peacefully and peacefully

6. Enjoy the space and time that is truly your own

7. Soul mates who love each other deeply

8. There are people who really understand you at all times

9. Be in good health and rich in heart

10. Infect and ignite the hope of others

None of them are related to items. I want to think of her age, enjoy the rich and noble, but also see through the cold and warm of the world. In her 70s, she has long understood what is the real "luxury" for her.

In fact, if you think about it, in the era of measuring value with materials, what is the real luxury for a person?

Many people know that the story of Zhang Xiaohui, a famous Taiwanese woman at that time, who spent money like dirt in the early years to let her ex-husband go bankrupt has been scolded by everyone. But in the years after the divorce, she worked hard through learning.

Today, Zhang Xiaohui, who is more than half a hundred years old, truly feels that the best luxury is a person's knowledge. Zhang Xiaohui once said in an interview: "The outside world is too chaotic, you have to give yourself good energy." Through learning, she found herself and found a career that she really loved and struggled for.

Someone asked me what I wanted most, and I must have told her it was "freedom." You know, it's too hard for a mom to be free. Many times I want to participate in some offline classes, children need tutoring for homework, cram classes need me to send, want to travel, the company can not take leave, can only look hungry.

Many times, there is so much inspiration that I can't sleep at night, and I can't wait to get up immediately to write down my thoughts, but I am afraid of disturbing my children and husbands sleeping, just think about it.

For me, freedom is too extravagant.

There is a saying called "the most scarce thing for people today is concentration", many times we will be taken away by all kinds of information, and it becomes very luxurious to want to focus on doing one thing.

But concentration is precisely the most effective way to get a person out of the tedious affairs, to sink their minds to think, and to stimulate their creativity.

So now all kinds of "fragment time" to do XX popular, fragment reading, fragment learning, fragment writing... every day to give yourself some time to stay focused, even if it is 5 minutes, only do one thing, focus on doing, can bring about change.

My colleague's grandmother suddenly had a mid-stage breast cancer, and it was just last year that everything was normal, and she had to rush back to her hometown to accompany her grandmother for surgery, because if she didn't go back this time, in case her condition worsened, she might never see her again.

And my subordinates couldn't come to work every time their aunt was in, and they couldn't get up from their stomach pain, saying that it was caused by eating ice cream during their previous menstruation.

Modern people's definition of health is often "not serious disease", but in fact, insomnia, lumbar and cervical vertebrae, poor resistance and so on.

This marathon of life, fight for lasting physical strength and endurance, so really pay attention to their own body, healthy life, there is a future of hard work.

Whether you love luxury or not, cherish what you have now, cherish the present!