Dong Jie once said in front of the camera: "With my son, I am like a woman in love." ”
In a show, when her son dingding played with his peers, Dong Jie felt deeply snubbed.
He complained to the top, "Do you see that the children don't care about their mothers?" Well, I'm also a beautiful woman. ”
Dingding hugged Dong Jie: "Don't cry, my little baby." ”
After saying that, he turned his head to play with the children, and Dong Jie directly walked over and held the top in his arms:
"We rarely have time like this, and I'm really sad that you're like this."
After saying that, he shed tears, and Dingding had to hug Dong Jie again: "Good, little baby." ”
And in order to make Dong Jie happy, the top ran to the camera and wanted to take a picture of her mother.
Because of the distance problem, he did not hear Dong Jie's call, so Dong Jie lost his temper.
Seeing this, Dingding immediately ran to Dong Jie's side and hugged and comforted her:
"Baby, Daddy buys you ice cream, Daddy loves you."
After the show was broadcast, the way mother and son got along was questioned, but Dong Jie said that this was the "expression of love".
In addition, Dong Jie has always stressed to her son that "you don't need a father".
So when Dong Jie sickly trapped the child around, where was the child's father, Pan Yueming?
According to the top of the news, the father did not accompany himself because his father was busy with work for many years.
But is that really the case?
Pan Yueming directly shouted at Dong Jie in the air: "Do you dare to tell the truth?" ”
It turns out that things are much more than that, so let's take a closer look at this story today.
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Dong Jie and Pan Yueming became acquainted because of the drama, and when they were first together, they were known as the Golden Boy and The Jade Girl, a match made in heaven.
And shortly after marriage, he gave birth to the crystallization of love, and Pan Yueming also boldly showed love in the program more than once:
"I married the best woman."
At first, the two were sweet and sweet, laughing at others, and even on the sixth anniversary of the two, Dong Jie posted:
"Tickle next year"
I thought it was a joke, but now it seems that it was premeditated.
In the seventh year of their acquaintance, the marriage went to collapse,
First Pan Yueming's reputation fell to the bottom, and then Dong Jie changed his heart within marriage, and this farce was described as "the ugliest marriage change in the entertainment industry".
After the divorce, Pan Yueming never made an article on Dong Jie, nor did she say behind her back that she was not.
Some say he is a model of a good man, in fact his qualities benefit from his family.
Pan Yueming was born in Beijing on May 9, 1974. Living in a family of scholars.
Influenced by the family atmosphere, he has been proficient in calligraphy and painting since he was a child, and because of this,
There was always a bookish anger in his body.
However, this kind of elegant temperament is an illusion, and he did listen to his parents' opinions in his early childhood.
Learn calligraphy, draw, participate in competitions, and be commended.
But as he grew older, Pan Yueming gradually had his own ideas, and he was unwilling to grow up under the planning of his parents.
So in junior high school, he ran dragon sets in multiple crews and starred in children's dramas.
In the film and television dramas again and again, Pan Yueming has already fallen in love with the profession of actor.
In order to realize his film and television dreams, he began to study hard, and later applied for the North Film and Chinese Opera.
He successfully passed the initial and re-examinations of Chinese Opera and North Shadow, and the result was a dramatic scene.
The three trials of the two colleges collided, and Pan Yueming gave up the Chinese opera to go to The North Film for the interview.
The interview passed, but because he was addicted to filming before the exam, he did not pay attention to it, and the results of the cultural class were far from enough, so he fell into Zhongshan.
It was also at this time that he heard a news of regret, as early as Pan Yueming passed the re-examination of the Chinese opera, the Chinese opera had decided to directly admit him when he waited for the third examination.
But I don't want Pan Yueming to miss the exam, so I lost the opportunity to enter the Chinese opera.
Pan Yueming did not give up his film and television dreams, and he could not do the exam in front of the screen.
After that, he was admitted to the Film and Television Production Major of the Art Department of Beijing Normal University and began his later studies.
But his dream was not shelved.
In 1999, Pan Yueming and his friends went to the crew for an interview, and the director took a look at it and invited him to star in "Very Summer".
With this play, Pan Yueming won the Newcomer Award of the Film Festival, and since then his film and television career has embarked on a broad road.
This wonderful appearance allowed Pan Yueming to receive an olive branch from many directors, and also gave him the opportunity to play the male lead.
With the increase in the number of exposures of Pan Yueming, Mei Qingmuxiu's appearance left an indelible impression on the audience, and he was also given the title of "National Xiaosheng".
After the career fire, his peach blossoms also quietly arrived.
In 2005, Pan Yueming was invited to star in "The Red Dress", met the national goddess Dong Jie, and fell in love with her at first sight.
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Dong Jie was born on April 19, 1980 in Dalian, Liaoning Province.
She lives in a dual-career family, and the nature of her parents' work is doomed to not give her much company.
In that era of filial piety under the stick, Dong Jie became the most typical "victim".
When Dong Jie played a small character, the parents only put her aside, let her cry, and even started fighting without a word.
Under the arrangement of her parents, 6-year-old Dong Jie entered the dance training room.
Dong Jie, who has lacked the attention of her parents since she was a child, is extremely eager to be recognized by others.
So she works harder than others, because of her excellent performance, she can often get praise from teachers and the love of classmates.
After spending a happy time on campus, Dong Jie was again arranged by her parents to be sent to another training institution and let her apply for the female soldier examination.
Fortunately, her efforts have been rewarded, with a good appearance, gentle temperament and solid basic skills,
Dong Jie successfully entered the People's Liberation Army Art School in Beijing.
Because of her excellent academic performance, she has become a performance leader many times.
What really made Dong Jie walk into the audience's sight was on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, where she appeared hand in hand with Nicholas Tse.
Together performed "This Life Together", this year Dong Jie was 20 years old, relying on her sweet looks to go out of the circle, received the attention of many people,
Among them is Zhang Yimou, who became a "girl", Dong Jie won two film awards with the movie "Happy Time".
In 2003, Dong Jie starred in the role of Leng Qingqiu in "The Golden Powder Family", in which she perfectly integrated gentleness, innocence and coolness, and it was precisely because of Reiki's acting skills that she became the new jade girl leader.
Her jade girl image attracted many people, but also attracted Pan Yueming.
03
Dong Jie and Pan Yueming became acquainted because of the drama, and before the cooperation, Pan Yueming knew Dong Jie and knew her story.
So after seeing Dong Jie and himself filming nervous to NG20 times, he wondered, is the acting skill of the girl not good?
Looking at Dong Jie's shameful apology and cramped and uneasy movements, he gradually became relieved and began to take care of Dong Jie.
Not only did she give her a lot of guidance when filming, but also asked for warmth in her usual life.
Every day, either breakfast was delivered or painted for her, and gradually Dong Jie fell.
In that era when the star's love was about to be pasted, the love affair between the two was not hidden, but very open and upright to hold hands and go shopping.
Pan Yueming also knows that Dong Jie is insecure, so he will pay extra attention to details and often give her romantic surprises.
Or shoot small gifts for her in various places and take her out to play when she is free.
Usually busy with work two people gather less and leave more, so telephone text message communication has become the main way for two people to contact,
Therefore, the memory of the two mobile phones is occupied by text messages, but neither side is willing to delete it, and they have changed several mobile phones in a row.
Even Dong Jie copied down all the text messages.
In 2008, Pan Yueming proposed to Dong Jie on one knee, looking at the person in front of him, he suddenly became nervous:
"This ring is expensive, it's for you."
After saying that, he regretted it, and he stood on his feet for half a day, and his heart was crossed:
"Dong Jie, marry me!"
Dong Jie did not make a sound for a long time, and when Pan Yueming looked up at Dong Jie, Dong Jie suddenly smiled:
"Good!"
The two married in September 2008 and gave birth to a daughter in February of the following year.
After marriage, Pan Yueming never skimped on confessing, and in the show, he confessed that Dong Jie was the best wife.
Marrying Dong Jie was the most right thing he did.
And loudly show love on social platforms, three "good" words are an affirmation of Dong Jie.
In the year when Dingding was born, Pan Yueming had a car accident, and after being rushed to the hospital, he was also issued a critical illness notice.
Dong Jie, who learned of this news, hurried to the hospital and looked at the unconscious Pan Yueming, who cried until she fainted at one point.
In order to better take care of Pan Yueming, Dong Jie pushed off all his work and guarded him day and night for 24 hours.
Serve him three meals a day and daily cleaning.
Perhaps after the test of life and death, Pan Yueming loved Dong Jie even more after being discharged from the hospital.
With the excuse of recuperation, Pan Yueming took care of housework at home, made some nutritious meals for Dong Jie, and often visited Dong Jie.
And say that he is happy for a happy home.
In fact, this car accident caused Pan Yueming to lose this shooting opportunity, and he was also sued by his peers in court.
Although he later made a few comebacks to make a few works, he did not stir up much splash.
Of course, the main reason is that Pan Yueming does not have much fighting spirit, and he likes the happy life of the family today.
Who expected the opposite, this sweet time was suddenly broken by a statement.
04
On October 20, 2012, Dong Jie suddenly issued a statement saying that she was divorced from Pan Yueming.
Before this, someone had revealed that Dong Jie and Pan Yueming had broken up for a long time, and Dong Jie also had a new love.
And then listed the "third party list", and the new huan mentioned in it was Wang Dazhi.
Wang Dazhi and Dong Jie met in 2011 with "Please Forgive Me", and later collaborated on "Ten Years of Love".
The private relationship between the two should be good, when he learned that someone broke the news of Dong Jie's black material, Wang Dazhi also stood up and supported it.
For this reason, the scandal between the two has intensified.
After that, Dong Jie issued a statement accusing Pan Yueming of counting his "four deadly sins":
Unenterprising, gambling-obsessed, selfish, rude.
Later, photos of Pan Yueming gambling in Macau were uploaded, adding evidence to the statement.
For a time, this matter caused a hot discussion on the Internet, and pan Yueming's image of "Good Mr. " collapsed overnight.
He was sprayed with dog blood, although he had posted an explanation later, but the statement that "there is a picture and the truth" has won the trust of netizens.
Forced to do so, in order to prove his innocence, Pan Yueming sued Dong Jie's agent in court, and after layers of legal inspections,
Only to prove his innocence was that the so-called gambling was actually a trip to Macau.
For this, Dong Jie's agent was fined 4,000 yuan.
Although the law confirms Pan Yueming's innocence, no one cares about netizens.
His scumbag image has become solid.
Even at this time, it was reported on the Internet that Pan Yueming had a physical disorder, which also made Dong Jie look very pitiful.
When attending the press conference, Dong Jie's eyes were red and her state was extremely poor, so many fans who came to the scene expressed their support for Dong Jie.
It looks like a fan, but it is actually a pawn. When Dong Jie's fans criticized Pan Yueming, a big melon suddenly broke out:
"Dong Jie's marriage affair is obsessed with Wang Dazhi."
In order to get the first news, the photographer climbed the water tower opposite the hotel, took turns to monitor, and finally took a photo of the two kissing.
At that time, both of them had a family, so in the face of their stealing, the public realized that they had been tricked.
Dong Jie's jade girl image collapsed violently, cheating and sitting solid, and netizens were vented out of their anger by the teasing.
The two were sprayed without finishing their skin.
Despite this, Pan Yueming is still waiting for Dong Jie to return.
After the divorce, Dong Jie took away her son's top, and she pinned all the sources of her security on her son.
Gradually, her love began to morbid, taking the top as her personal belongings, not allowing Pan Yueming to see him,
He also did not let the man's parents see him, even if the grandfather at the top died, Dong Jie did not let the two meet.
In front of the top, Dong Jie often warns her son, I am divorced from my father, you do not have a complete family, so you have to accept,
Your dad is too busy to see you.
In the face of Dong Jie's obstruction, Pan Yueming did not dare to use tough measures, he did not know what Dong Jie would do.
All he could do was send a blessing without a photo every year on Top's birthday and let Top know he was loved.
05
Pan Yueming, who experienced this farce, was seriously injured and did not appear on the screen for a long time.
And lack of body management, he has become more and more rich, and even been jokingly called "greasy uncle" by netizens.
It was not until the release of "White Night Pursuit" in 2017 that his career improved.
After that, he participated in "Nuqing Xiangxi" and "Longling Labyrinth", and successfully shaped the image of the melancholy uncle.
Today, his career is steadily rising, and there is still no lace news.
He was also advised to find another one, but he replied that it was up to him.
Perhaps in his heart, not being able to see his son is the biggest regret.