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The male god Su Zhixie officially announced his marriage, and the marriage object was Zhao Enjing, a 17-year-old "e-sports goddess" who was 17 years younger, and as soon as the news came out, many girls fell out of love en masse.
Su Zhixie became popular in Asia with "Sorry, I Love You" that year, was the "Hallyu" star of that year, and then acted in many popular dramas, becoming a male god in the hearts of many girls.
So how did Su Zhixie and Zhao Enjing meet? It is said that the two people met in an interview program, Su Zhixie and Sun Yizhen participated in the new movie "Now, I want to see you", and Zhao Enjing interviewed the two as the host, which also contributed to their future love.
In this interview, the two people also had some interesting interactions, Zhao Enjing said that she has always regarded Su Zhixie as her own male god, and she did not expect that the two people really walked together and finally got married.
After the news of Su Zhixie and Zhao Enjing's marriage came out, there was another strange name that followed - Fanker, many people were sad for this boy, and later, it was learned that Fanker had a crush on Zhao Enjing, and this boy was born in 96, two years younger than Zhao Enjing, but lost to an uncle in his forties.
This also makes many people speculate that Zhao Enjing abandoned Fanker for the so-called money and turned around to marry Su Zhixie?
But the feelings of this thing, which can be said clearly, regardless of age, regardless of time, regardless of place, in love is in love, some girls are more like the uncle type, and do not like the small fresh meat, always feel that the small fresh meat needs to take care of him like a mother, very immature, and the uncle can give her a sense of security.
Now sister-brother love is not a new thing, but the age difference between the two people is too large, or it will cause a hot discussion, so, the difference of 17 years old "sister-brother love", can really be happy?
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This reminds me of another couple in the entertainment industry: Liu Shishi and Wu Qilong, the two of them met and fell in love when filming "Step by Step", quickly entered the marriage, and now have a cute baby, a very happy family.
At that time, the news that Liu Shishi and Wu Qilong were in love, many people were not optimistic about this pair, Wu Qilong was 17 years older than Liu Shishi, Liu Shishi was a little girl, but she wanted to marry a divorced uncle, in short, she felt that it was not a good match, and felt that Poetry could find a better candidate.
But from the current situation, Liu Shishi is married to the right person, and Wu Qilong has really fulfilled her vows at the wedding, spoiling her as a princess, he will respect her opinions and will think about her everywhere.
I remember once a fan wanted to take a photo with Wu Qilong, the female fan wanted to hold Wu Qilong to take a picture, but he refused, he said to the female fan: "Be careful, I am a person with a wife." ”
That photo can see that Wu Qilong's hand has been behind him, this small detail, it can also be seen that he really values Liu Shishi, so even contact with female fans will be rejected.
Since getting married, Wu Qilong's heart has only Liu Shishi in his eyes, the two people participate in activities together, his eyes are always inseparable from Liu Shishi, and from his eyes, you can also see his pampering of Liu Shishi.
And Liu Shishi, from her words can also feel her happiness, in an interview program, she has been saying "my family's that one", this title makes people think that her married life is really sweet, she did not choose the wrong person.
Can the "sister-brother love" with a difference of 17 years really be happy? Look at Wu Qilong and Liu Shishi, as long as he truly loves you, he will win a happy life, which has nothing to do with age.
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If the age difference between two people is too large, will there be a generation gap, or will they be unhappy?
The answer is different from person to person, some people do not know how to manage marriage, they will blame the unhappiness of marriage on age, some people know how to manage marriage, then even if the difference of 17 years, you can still live very happy.
But are uncle-type lovers really reliable? Not all, which also requires the girls to have the ability to know people, here are three suggestions:
First: see if he really loves you as a person, or loves your young and beautiful face
Men looking for little girls is nothing more than two points, one is to look at your face, one is to look at your people, if it is the former, it is still early to stay away, women are not eating youth after all, maybe your age can make him fascinated, can be after?
Marriage is a lifelong thing, when he thinks you are old and ugly one day, will he still spoil you as much as before? Will he have other women out there?
Therefore, when looking for an uncle-type lover, first of all, to confirm whether he really loves you or not, love is regardless of age, and if he just loves your face, then you still have to think clearly, and then decide whether to marry him.
Second: see if he has a marriage history and understand his past feelings
For uncle-type lovers, it is also very important to see if he has a history of marriage, it is not unusual for men in their forties to have had one or two marriages, the key is to understand why he divorced, is it his own reasons, or two people's emotional problems?
Some women always feel that loving someone should not ask about each other's past feelings, and then say that those are all in the past, as long as she is good to me in the future, that will be fine.
The words are correct, but marriage is not simple, especially for a man who has a history of marriage, ex-wife, children, property, will be a problem, in advance to understand clearly, will be more secure for you.
Third: See if he has a sense of responsibility and whether he will be responsible for his family
If you want to start a family, it must look at whether the man has a certain sense of responsibility, which is very important in marriage.
If it is a man who has no sense of responsibility, then after marriage, he will push everything to you, whether it is housework, parents, or children, you are equivalent to a "nanny" in this family, and he is the treasurer.
After such a long time, it is inevitable that I will feel wronged, and I thought that marrying a person older than myself was hoping that he would be able to take care of himself, but I did not expect that I was still taking care of the whole family.
Therefore, it is not too late to see if he can be responsible for the family, to see if he can shoulder the responsibility of a family, and then to talk about marriage.