In recent times, there are really many melons in the entertainment industry.
From Wu Yifan, to Huo Zun, to Qian Feng, all of them aroused concern because of emotional problems and then "cool".
To say that these young people are still too young, obviously their own strength is not good, but always want to step on several boats at the same time, and finally can only end up with a "drowning" end.
True amorous talents, that is, must be able to achieve the point of "a hundred flowers in the bush, the leaves do not stick to the body", otherwise how dare to easily linger in the flowers?
There is such a person in the music circle, he has no handsome appearance, only by virtue of his talent and emotional intelligence, he has been entangled with Gao Yuanyuan, Xu Jinglei, Qu Ying, Mo Wenwei and other actresses for half a lifetime, and people have been nicknamed "Goddess Harvester".
He is Zhang Yadong, the "gold medal producer" of the music scene for nearly 30 years.

What is even more surprising is that although there have been several love histories, both ex-wives and ex-girlfriends rarely speak harshly about them, but instead appreciate them and maintain them everywhere.
It really makes people wonder, what is the charm of Zhang Yadong, who can charm these goddesses?
1. The emergence of small city talents
In 1969, Zhang Yadong was born in Datongtianzhen County, Shanxi.
Although it is a poor county, Zhang Yadong's family is quite good compared with the average person, his father is the director of the carpet factory, and his mother is a well-known local Jin opera actor in Datong.
From an early age, Zhang Yadong showed great interest in music, he began to learn cello at the age of 8, and at the age of 13, he learned to arrange music and various instruments in the song and dance troupe.
Friends commented that he was a musical genius, "three days to learn staves, when others play sub drums, he can watch two minutes, can play the same rhythm." 」 ”
After several years of study, Zhang Yadong gradually gained some fame in the song and dance troupe and began to write theme songs for some enterprises and activities.
However, fame could not be eaten as a meal, and in order to seek a fixed job, Zhang Yadong entered the Datong No. 2 Power Plant as a dancer, and then transferred to the Cultural and Labor Corps of the Mining Bureau.
It is ironic that a person who insists on pursuing music has to find a job by dancing, and Zhang Yadong also regards this matter as his "black history" and is ashamed to mention it in front of outsiders.
But in any case, he finally got a formal job, and since then Zhang Yadong has devoted himself to the study of music, soaking in the studio all day to engage in creation.
Working in the literary troupe not only allowed Zhang Yadong's music career to further develop, but also allowed him to harvest the first love in his life.
At that time, there was a new dancer named Cao Fang, who looked very beautiful, like the heroine Yamaguchi Momoe in the Japanese TV series "Blood Coagulation" that was on fire at that time, and there were many suitors.
But I don't know what method Zhang Yadong used, it didn't take long for someone to find that the two of them were in love together, and Zhang Yadong also intimately helped his girlfriend to cook every day.
When Zhang Yadong was 19 years old, the two married and started a family, and soon after, Cao Fang bore Zhang Yadong a son.
Cao Fang originally thought that the family of three could live happily together, but she did not expect that at this time, Zhang Yadong's heart had already had the idea of going to Beijing.
Despite his family's opposition and his passion for music, at the end of 1992, 22-year-old Zhang Yadong resigned from the literary troupe and came to Beijing, bent on making a name for himself in this place, but the reality was far more cruel than he imagined.
2. Achieve fame and success alone
Perhaps from the experience of going to Beijing for the first time when he was 6 years old, Zhang Yadong has always been full of beautiful expectations for this childhood holy place, and he once said to his colleagues in the cultural and labor troupe, "In the future, I must go to Beijing to develop, I do not believe that I am worse than the music giants in Beijing." ”
Today, Zhang Yadong is once again standing on the soil of Beijing, and finally has the opportunity to fight for his dream.
When he first arrived, the most urgent thing was to find a place to stay, because there was no money, Zhang Yadong could only rent a basement of a song and dance troupe.
From the iron rice bowl in the system to the unemployed nomads, Zhang Yadong experienced the hardships of life at this moment, in order to save money, he only ate two meals a day, and the winter was too cold to bear, so he wrapped himself in a quilt and held a light bulb in his hand for warmth.
In an interview after becoming famous, Zhang Yadong talked about the state at that time: "The pressure of work is very large, and you have to redouble your efforts to do every job, and every day is like handing in homework, expecting each other to be satisfied." ”
Long-term staying up late and eating irregularly caused him to have duodenal ulcers and a third of his stomach was removed, which was also the reason why his body was always very thin.
At the same time, the father-in-law and mother-in-law could not bear to watch their daughter live and widow, and specially came to Beijing to persuade Zhang Yadong to go back, but Zhang Yadong, who was obsessed with pursuing his dreams, was not moved, and under duress, he proposed a divorce, and his father-in-law and mother-in-law saw that he had an iron heart and did not want to go home to live a life, and could only die of this heart.
Not long after, Zhang Yadong and his wife agreed to divorce, and the son was temporarily raised by his ex-wife.
There is no longer a family bond, Zhang Yadong can pursue his musical dream without any worries, he began to devote all his energy to his career, every day to waste sleep and forget to engage in creation, finally, fate began to favor this hard-working young man, his life ushered in a turnaround.
By chance, Zhang Yadong met Dou Wei in a bar, the two drunk and confidants and like-minded, since then they often play music and performances together, at this time Dou Wei has a small reputation, is preparing to make a personal album, Zhang Yadong learned about it and took the initiative to join the creation.
In October 1995, Dou Wei's second solo album "Sunny Days" was released, which sold more than 70,000 copies, which was the first affirmation of Zhang Yadong's ability in the music market.
Subsequently, Dou Wei recommended Zhang Yadong to his girlfriend, the singer Faye Wong, and in this way, Zhang Yadong ushered in the biggest opportunity in his life to create an album for the top singers in the Chinese music scene.
At this time, although Faye Wong enjoyed a high reputation in the music world, she was limited to the Chinese music circle, so she wanted to launch an original Chinese album for the world.
Zhang Yadong's cooperation with Faye Wong can be described as a combination, and it didn't take long for "Impetuous" to come out, perhaps because the music is a bit ahead of time, this album is a typical high-quality low-selling, but although it sells badly, it successfully helps Faye Wong break into the international music scene, and likes to mention the cover of time magazine in the United States.
Faye Wong's "man behind it" Zhang Yadong also became a hit, and then served as Faye Wong's royal producer for five consecutive years, participating in the creation and arrangement of music.
With the aura blessing of the queen of the music world, since then, Xu Wei, Park Shu, Wang Feng, Zhang Liangying, Li Yuchun and other powerful singers have come to the door to ask for songs, and since then Zhang Yadong has stood firmly in the position of "the first producer in the mainland music scene".
It can be seen that in order to succeed, strength and luck are indispensable, although Faye Wong and Dou Wei divorced within a few years, but the vision of people is very consistent.
Just as the so-called good things have become a pair, watching the music career slowly improve, the feelings are naturally not lonely, after which Zhang Yadong embarked on a life of opening and hanging, and career love blossomed twice.
3. Accidental encounter with the "National Goddess"
Some people describe Zhang Yadong's love history in this way, saying that "half of the entertainment circle is an ex", although some exaggerations, but also fully reflect the style of this entertainment circle.
Since they called Dou Wei brothers and brothers, the two often studied music together, and Zhang Yadong and Dou Wei's sister Dou Ying sparked a spark of love.
Dou Wei admired Zhang Yadong's talent, and was also happy to see the two cultivate into positive results, and from then on the brother became brother-in-law.
Therefore, under the witness of his brother Dou Wei and sister-in-law Wang Fei, Zhang Yadong and Dou Ying successfully registered their marriage.
But as Zhang Yadong's fame grows, there are more and more beautiful women around him, so it is inevitable to make some mistakes that "men will make".
One day in 2000, Gao Yuanyuan, as the heroine of Faye Wong's MV, came to the studio to find a friend, happened to meet Zhang Yadong who was working, and was instantly attracted by this quiet and gentle man.
Gao Yuanyuan described the acquaintance of the two in this way, "It is love at first sight, the first time I saw him in a friend's recording studio, tall and thin, like a plant." ...... It seems to touch the coolness and fragrance of the plants. ”
At that time, Gao Yuanyuan, although he had participated in several films with a youthful and beautiful image, was already a little famous, but he was still studying in college at that time.
As we all know, female college students lack resistance to boys playing music, and Gao Yuanyuan is no exception.
To this end, Gao Yuanyuan took the initiative to call a friend to hear Zhang Yadong's phone, and coincidentally, although Zhang Yadong already had a wife, he was also obsessed with this pure and lovely temperament beauty.
Therefore, Lang had a concubine intention, and the two hit it off immediately, and they loved each other with pity.
Gao Yuanyuan also wrote a love poem to Zhang Yadong, comparing the relationship between the two to Qian Zhongshu and Yang Dai, "I like the way you hide in the scarf and tie your head,...... You read "The Two of Us" to me..."
But the good times did not last long, and Dou Ying soon discovered the misconduct of the two and resolutely proposed a divorce.
The two wrong combinations made Zhang Yadong lose confidence in marriage, and "escaping from the siege" made him feel like the rest of his life, which slowly became a fear of marriage with time, and a "non-marriage" idea quietly rose in his heart.
But Gao Yuanyuan was completely unaware of his inner changes, and was still fantasizing about becoming Mrs. Zhang, and soon after a piece of news completely shattered her dream.
4. The talent of the wind and currents is in the love field
"I think two people have to want to get married in order to be together." Gao Yuanyuan sweetly emphasized her relationship with Zhang Yadong, in her opinion, the relationship between the two people is already "not he does not marry" and "not she does not marry", but two months later, the media exposed zhang Yadong and Xu Jinglei holding hands and shopping photos.
When did that Xu and Xu get together?
It is said that the two met at a party in 2001 and have exchanged contact details ever since. In 2003, Xu Jinglei filmed the self-directed and self-starring movie "My Father and Me", invited Zhang Yadong to make a cameo appearance in xu Jinglei's husband in the film, and I don't know if it is implied, in short, the two first had a husband and wife addiction in the film, and then walked from the scene to the outside.
At the beginning of 2006, Gao Yuanyuan hinted at the event that the two had broken up, and the 5-year relationship ushered in the end, and a piece of the national goddess's obsession was finally wrongly paid, but Gao Yuanyuan did not know that she was also a blessing in disguise, compared to the following one, she was already very lucky.
Although Gao Yuanyuan was sad to die and come back to life, Xu Jinglei's side was not happy for long, and soon, Zhang Yadong transferred his feelings and did not fall in love, and Xu Jinglei also tasted the taste of being "split legs".
This time, the girlfriend is a hot and good-looking model and singer Qu Ying.
In 2005, Qu Ying was concentrating on preparing her second album "Chain Reaction", because she had cooperation experience with Hu Haiquan in the "Yuquan" group, so she invited him again as a producer, seeing that the album was almost made, Hu Haiquan invited his friend Zhang Yadong to give advice, so Qu Ying and Zhang Yadong met in this way.
Soon after, Qu Ying wanted to shoot MTV for the song, and someone suggested that Zhang Yadong's gloomy and low-key temperament just fit the image of the male protagonist, Qu Ying invited him to participate, and Zhang Yadong agreed without even thinking about it.
Since then, the two have cooperated several times in succession, and found each other's advantages in the work, constantly rubbing out the small flames of love, and then Zhang Yadong naturally forgot Xu Jinglei to the back of his mind.
Shortly after Zhang Yadong and Qu Ying's relationship was made public, some media exposed that Zhang Yadong had been married at the age of 19, and there was a 14-year-old eldest son, in the face of rumors of "Happy To Be a Mother", Qu Ying generously said that she did not mind these pasts.
But Qu Ying did not expect that to be Zhang Yadong's girlfriend, she would have to face not only the family past, but also bear zhang Yadong's many scandals.
5. Gossip continues to become strangers
In 2008, a reporter photographed Gao Yuanyuan and Zhang Yadong secretly meeting in the underground garage of a building, suspected of being reunited, but Gao Yuanyuan then clarified that the two were friends for a lifetime, and would only maintain a friend relationship in the future.
Some people say that after the breakup, they still choose to continue to be friends because they are unwilling, so at a glance, I am afraid that the "goddess" is still grumpy about the events of that year.
In 2009, photos of Xu Jinglei and Zhang Yadong walking side by side at the Shanghai airport were exposed.
It turned out that Xu Jinglei had been in love with Huang Jue for a while since breaking up with Zhang Yadong, and as a result, not long ago Huang Jue was caught cheating on a mysterious woman, Xu Jinglei was angry, and she wanted to reconcile with her old love.
In 2010, Karen Mok held a concert in Shanghai, and on the stage, Karen Mok lay on the piano in a sexy makeup, singing while plucking Zhang Yadong, who was playing the piano. Although everything on the stage has an element of performance effect, it is difficult to ensure that the two will not have feelings for each other because of cooperation, after all, Zhang Yadong's feelings for work are always difficult to sustain.
In the face of a series of scandals, the legitimate girlfriend Qu Ying always stood up for Zhang Yadong at the first time, saying that the relationship between the two was very stable, but the explanation was always pale and weak. And the two's 11-year-long love run, as well as the real nameless relationship, have been criticized even more.
In the early years, when Qu Ying faced the reporter to ask about the wedding date, she would pretend that she didn't care, "I don't have any desire for marriage, I think if the two are not married and can still be together for a lifetime, then it is only cattle!" ”
But in the face of the gossipy media and the slowly aging appearance, Qu Ying gradually can't hold her breath, and it is no wonder that what woman does not want to enter the marriage hall with her lover?
In 2016, when Qu Ying was a guest on a show, in the face of the host Ye Yiqian's kind "forced marriage", she could only respond awkwardly: "Soon, fast, this year will be over." ”
Soon after, the two broke up, presumably because of the "failure of forced marriage".
To say whether to get married or not, it is originally a personal freedom, and no one has the right to interfere with the accusation, but Zhang Yadong has caused a woman to pay 11 years of youth in vain because of his concept of marriage, which is inevitably a bit of a "hooligan".
Although Qu Ying left the scene in disgrace, but did not have any impact on Zhang Yadong, he is still self-reliant, peach blossoms, it is said that his new girlfriend is born in 98, younger than his son's age.
epilogue
It is said that love is "starting from the appearance, loyal to the talent", just look at Zhang Yadong's appearance, not very handsome, but tall, thin, long hair, coupled with a melancholy and silent personality, let him have a kind of literary temperament.
More importantly, as one of the best gold medal producers in the circle, his ability is obvious to all.
If it is left in ancient times, this is a talented man, even if he has made a mistake for love, so what?
As Gao Yuanyuan recalled: "It was just a journey, when he arrived at the station, he wanted to take another train to another place, I couldn't go, I didn't want to go, but I couldn't force him to accompany me." That would be unfair to him, I just had to let him go, it didn't matter who was right and who was wrong. ”
Now that the exes have chosen to forgive, what can outsiders say.
I can only sigh: Alas, this damn talent!