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Sanmao once said:
"We refuse to explore our own value, we value the participation of others in our own lives, and we care too much about what others say."
It is true that every human being has his own unique personality and potential, and these things are not reproducible and unnecessary by others.
It's just that more people are happy to see themselves, hear themselves, and even imagine themselves in the eyes and mouths of others.
In the end, living in the evaluation of others is actually a kind of sadness.
The charm and personality of people are actually the most important thing to experience.
Growth is a lonely adventure, as to who can achieve better in this fair game, it depends on whether they can know themselves more comprehensively and objectively, and then live out their true selves, and take out the real level to create unlimited value.
However, what we see in reality is that too many people are integrated into the group, not for anything else, but to gain a sense of belonging and identity.
On the contrary, those who really have wisdom can rationally self-knowledge, choose, and then polish their wisdom and low-key wisdom in a complex society.
These people not only do not like to brush the sense of existence, the personality is simple and unpretentious, and even deliberately reduce their sense of existence.
Capricorn
The charm of Capricorns is that they are so wise.
Of course, the embodiment of this wisdom is really not something that ordinary people can feel, because their personalities seem to be born with a sense of non-brush existence, or even a personality that will not show off.
In Capricorn's view, deliberately brushing up on the sense of existence is no different from allowing oneself to be decadent, both are carrying out some unnecessary life consumption.
Such a mentality and words and deeds, in fact, to put it bluntly, is not confident, but also the embodiment of insecurity. Therefore, in order to avoid falling into such a situation, Capricorn relies more on spiritual and personal independence.
The lives of these guys are like a story of ups and downs, experiencing all the good and bad that can happen, but in such an uncertain process, Capricorn never seems to care about what he is facing now or about to face.
For them, the views and evaluations of others are, in the final analysis, the judgments made by the other party according to their own standards or according to their environment.
Therefore, living in the eyes of others, or living in the evaluation of others, is actually a kind of lack of confidence in oneself, and it is also a manifestation of excessive trust in others.
This way of living is particularly disdainful in the eyes of Capricorns, so they will always be particularly stubborn to treat their lives according to their own way, even if it is difficult, they will not regret it.
It is precisely because of this that we will see in real life that most Capricorns are extremely unsociable and quite simple.
They are accustomed to being alone, relying on themselves for everything, especially afraid of indebtedness, Capricorn will often try to get rid of some superficial, non-nutritional value of the activities, will not hollow out the mind to speculate on the ideas of others.
It will not even adapt to anyone's tastes, preferences, etc., but choose a person to go alone, pay in obscurity behind the scenes, take out ambitions, and create their own life value.
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