In the end, what kind of marriage and love concept can be regarded as the "correct view of marriage and love"?
What kind of emotion can be regarded as "love"?
To be honest, when I think of these two questions, I don't have a fixed answer in my head. After all, I was single and had never even held a boy's hand.
But this does not seem to affect the independent thinking of my own set of ideas about "marriage" and "love".
Then, I will talk about my own "view of marriage and love" and my views on "love".
First of all, I would like to ask you, do you believe in "love at first sight"? I believe.
Similarly, I believe in "long-term love".
The biggest difference between "love at first sight" and "long-term love" is the length of time that emotional throbbing occurs. And "love" doesn't it start to germinate from the heartbeat?
What should love look like? Is it Zhang Ruoyun's "memorandum about her"? Or Tang Yixin's emotional dependence on "as long as you have a boyfriend, you have everything"?
I don't know, but I know - love, should be two people get better together, should be let go.
Although the two loves are happy, they accompany youth, accompany them to old age, and accompany them for the rest of their lives.
But it is also necessary to rejoice in letting go and being perfect, rejoicing for her or him, wishing him happiness and happiness with his good people, and wishing her what she wants.
So, in my opinion – love needs to be cherished and retained, but it must not be entangled.
So, what is the difference between marriage and love?
Falling in love can be "just playing and adding some experience" or "I want to save money and marry you when I buy a house.".
This is the difference between love and marriage.
Being in love can take it with a less serious attitude and just try it out. But marriage is "wanting to live your life with you, wanting to conceive life with you."
Marriage represents responsibility, represents two independent people willing to enter the palace of marriage for each other, they are willing to complete 0.5 + 0.5 = 1 after running-in, willing to form their own small family.
This is marriage.
And in the face of love, in the face of marriage, I have a few words to say to you:
1, never fall in love for the sake of wanting to fall in love, and don't marry for the sake of wanting to get married.
2, do not be too anxious to try, do not be too anxious to be sure.
3, communication is very important, misunderstanding is very hurtful
Well, today's Valentine's Day, I wish our singles have sisters and brothers around them, and I also wish you all a good enjoyment of single life, want to get off the single - 2022, take off the single!
What is your "view of marriage and love"? What do you think of love?