In the third issue of "Actors Please Take Place 2", Guo Xiaoting publicly exposed her partner Yang Zhigang's reluctance to rehearse, and the behind-the-scenes of having to add comedy elements to the plot, which made the scene slightly embarrassing.
I'm not quite in favor of her doing that.
First of all, we must affirm one point: this matter is indeed Yang Zhigang's fault. He was too stubborn, too subjective, and didn't consider his partner's feelings.
But I disapprove of Guo Xiaoting's approach because it is useless for her to do so.
As a newcomer, Guo Xiaoting has some works, but she has not really made a name for herself. She hopes to be selected by more producers through such a show, and she hopes to be recognized by big directors.
This feeling is understandable, but even if the mentors support you and sympathize with you, they can't imagine what a "better you" is like.
Therefore, you can't point out other people's problems and give yourself extra points.
Let's think backwards.
If this performance did not fail, but won the unanimous praise of the four mentors, then will Guo Xiaoting put all the credit on Yang Zhigang?
A partner is one that is both prosperous and one is lost.
The contradictions between partners are detonated, and many times it is because they cannot accept failure together, and there is always one party who feels that they are implicated.
When considering problems, good partners will put the common interest or even the other party's interests first, rather than blindly emphasizing "I think".
However, the group of partners Yang Zhigang and Guo Xiaoting became partners through blind selection and mistakenly hit and bumped.
They have neither the premise of mutual appreciation, nor the expectation of coming to Japan for a long time, and they lack enough running-in, so they are not so much partners as partners.
Yang Zhigang regarded Guo Xiaoting as a tool person, and he only wanted to use her to realize his ideas. And Guo Xiaoting revealed the bottom of the old bottom afterwards, but it was nothing more than because Yang Zhigang delayed her performance. These two people are also evenly matched.
However, for Guo Xiaoting, there is still a better way than to level it.
A more effective way to get a stubborn person to accept your ideas is to wait until he encounters a setback.
Only by being ruthlessly punched in the face by facts can it be possible to shake their deep-rooted ideas. Only when they are shaken can they listen to the advice of others.
If Guo Xiaoting did not reveal the old bottom on the stage, but waited until she stepped off the stage and the two people privately reviewed it, the effect would be much better.
Without even waiting for her to say it, Yang Zhigang would take the initiative to apologize to her.
In the rehearsal shot, I got an intuitive feeling: although Yang Zhigang is very stubborn and always reasonable, he is by no means a drama bully. The process of his and Guo Xiaoting's lines has generally maintained an atmosphere of discussion between the two sides.
After Guo Xiaoting complained in public, Yang Zhigang also apologized first, first took responsibility, and then began to explain why he did it.
Therefore, Yang Zhigang is just a big brother who has drilled the tip of the bull's horn, but he is not a big card with no one in sight.
For such a stubborn but good character of the predecessor, whether Guo Xiaoting wants to be a friend or a beam may be more important than the result of a performance.
However, in fact, no one will review it after the performance.
If it were not for Chen Kaige's strong request for the group of "In the Name of The Family" to review, it is estimated that they would have dispersed after the performance. Then they will have new partners, new problems and new contradictions, but no one will reflect on them.
The reality of the show business is also like this, a play did not wait for the end of filming, many supporting roles will be killed, there is no collective review schedule.
As a result, the more problems are piled up, the deeper the grievances accumulate, and the more difficult it is to change the problems.
Even if she doesn't review it afterwards, Guo Xiaoting doesn't have to spit on her partner on stage.
A more advanced approach is to take the initiative to comfort Yang Zhigang after stepping down. Big Brother was dropped by the directors on the stage, from S level to B level, and his heart was definitely uncomfortable.
Then at this time, Guo Xiaoting comforted a few words, but don't mention the rehearsal again. If Yang Zhigang took the initiative to apologize, then Guo Xiaoting laughed and ignored it, "all passed."
If Yang Zhigang did not apologize, Guo Xiaoting would not need to mention it again.
In doing so, although there is no replay of the performance, it deepens mutual understanding.
Moreover, this non-review is based on Guo Xiaoting's high self-confidence.
I know you're wrong about this, but I don't need you to admit it, and I don't need you to apologize.
At the same time, as a wronged person, I can still comfort you, which is the height of my Guo Xiaoting.
I give Guo Xiaoting such advice, provided that Yang Zhigang is a person who understands good villains. Although he is stubborn, through his reaction after the fact, he still has a spirit of reflection.
For the villain and the wicked, we do not have to show generosity, but for those who are just confused for a while, we can show generosity appropriately.
Because someone like Yang Zhigang, when he understands it, will say for you in his resource circle, "Xiaoting this girl is really good." This is more convincing than you defending yourself in public, maybe his brother will come to you to shoot in the future.
As for how Guo Xiaoting showed her strength to the on-site tutors, she could only hope for the next game. The reason why "Actors Please Seat 2" set the first round not to produce eliminated players is to prevent a good actor from being buried because of a similar situation.
You have to believe Chen Kaige's words, "Good actors will not be buried on this stage." ”
Even if you don't believe Chen Kaige's words, you can also look at the crooked dates in the show. Good actors are almost hard to find, so you don't have to worry too much.
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