Nowadays, many elderly people who have lost their other half choose to live with their children, in fact, the elderly live with their children, not as everyone imagines, to live in the old age, enjoy the world, but also use their own pension money to paste the children's lives.
Some not only that, but also help to share the housework / childcare, not so much that the elderly live with their children, but rather that the elderly go to their children's homes with money to work as nannies.
Whether it is ideological concepts or living habits, there are no small differences between the elderly and young people, and living under the same roof is also prone to friction and contradiction, especially between the mother-in-law and the son-in-law who are not related by blood, and even between the mother-in-law and the son-in-law, there will also be various problems.
Chenglu family conditions are general, and Liu Xin went to a person when he married, the marriage room is Liu Xin's full house, the car is also Liu Xin's own down payment to buy, but Liu Xin's family did not say anything, in Liu Xin's own words, as long as the road people are good, the most important thing is to live a solid life.
The marriage room and Liu Xin's parents' house are next to the door, and there is a wall in the middle, usually Liu Xin takes Cheng Lu to eat at his parents' house, and only returns to his home when he rests.
A few years after the marriage, Liu Xin's father left, leaving only Liu Xin's mother alone, as well as Liu Xin's aunt's family living on the outskirts of the city, Liu Xin always suggested that his mother walk around with his aunt more, one is that his mother and his peers communicate better, and it is easier to have empathy when he speaks of his own words; second, Liu Xin is getting busier and busier at work, and he really does not have the energy to take care of his mother's feelings. At her daughter's suggestion, Liu Xin's mother does not live in the new house for about ten days a month.
Some time ago, Cheng Lu's brother was ready to marry his girlfriend, the problem of his brother's marriage room had not been solved, the woman was very concerned about this matter, the younger brother found his brother to help, Cheng Lu wanted to come and go, and his eyes fell on the house vacated by his mother-in-law.
On this day, the mother-in-law had just returned to her home from her sister's house, and Cheng Lu went over to her and told her her her plans: "Mom, I see that you get along very well with your aunt, or you can simply go over there and live!" You move back to the old house and give this room to my brother for marriage!" ”
The mother-in-law's eyes widened, and she asked Chenglu, "What?" You actually started the idea of my house? I want my daughter to know that I have to divorce you! ”
Cheng Lu smiled and said, "In fact, she is also aware, she thinks that it is best for you to live with your aunt, so we will live with young people, do not disturb each other, and live easily." ”
Hearing this attitude of her daughter, the mother-in-law trembled with anger, and she casually picked up the cup on the table and smashed it at her son-in-law, scolding in her mouth: "Get out of my house, don't say that you want my house now, that is, when I die, you don't want to think about it!" I won't give it to you if I set it on fire! ”
After this incident, Liu Xin's mother directly moved to her aunt's house, but her house was also locked, and she specially instructed the property that no one was allowed to move the door lock without her permission. In this way, the original warm family has completely broken down the relationship.
In fact, as the daughter of the middleman, it is easiest to coordinate the relationship between the three people, and she can set the bottom line for the husband who makes unreasonable demands, at least not to let him ride on the head of herself and the elder; on the mother's side, she can tell the mother her plan, so that the elder can be reassured and will not intensify the contradiction between the mother-in-law and the son-in-law. It doesn't matter if the blood relatives quarrel and quarrel, the broken bones are connected to the tendons, but the relationship between the mother-in-law and the son-in-law is not the same, and a little attention is a lifetime of mutual contact, and the last uncomfortable thing is the daughter who is sandwiched in the middle.
Many things, can be prevented in advance to do the work in advance, do not wait until the problem really occurs to deal with, at that time it is likely that no one's strength can solve, stealing a moment of laziness, but losing the harmonious home, the gain is not worth the loss.
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