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Pay attention to my | write about the world, but also write about human love
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If you knew that something might not come to fruition, would you stick with it?
Definitely not.
But what about love? You know that there is no such thing as a long day in the world, but you always hope that you can be an exception.
Reason cannot overcome emotion, it has nothing to do with education, it has nothing to do with age, it has nothing to do with gender.
It's like rushing to the Weibo hot search again, the follow-up of the thirty-second story about the library.
Thirty seconds in the library is a meme, first from an anonymous post on Zhihu.
It is a girl who is in graduate school, found the chat history of her boyfriend who has been with her boyfriend for eight years in the last year of mental derailment, and after a decisive breakup, she anonymously wrote down the experience of this year.
After eight years of love, they originally planned to move towards a better future together, but in the end, they were still the latecomers.
She and her boyfriend were together in high school, experienced a different place, both parents have seen, should have gone all the way from the school uniform to the wedding dress,
But maybe there is no long-term love in this world, and everything has a shelf life.
Together, they walked through all the ups and downs, witnessed each other's green years, and in the end, they became the predecessors planted trees, and the posterity cooled off.
Her boyfriend mentally cheated on her sister in the same door, and she learned the truth of the whole thing because of a late-night WeChat message.
That night, the boyfriend slept soundly next to her, and she flipped through the boyfriend's chat history with other girls one by one.
She looked at the chat that dates back to a year ago and felt extremely ironic.
When did it start that the boyfriend's favorite person to share was not himself?
When did he share half of his laughter and anger, half of his joy and sorrow with another person.
He can not contact himself for four days, but he will not forget to send a message to the little sister of the same door in the middle.
On his birthday, he closed his eyes and made a wish for thirty seconds, and he was worried that the little sister of the same door who was afraid of the dark was alone in the library of the power outage.
That's why this post was ridiculed as thirty seconds in the library.
Look at this perfect love that I think is perfect, but everywhere reveals traces of sharing with another person, watching the boyfriend use the time gap outside her to fight with another person, above friendship, under love.
She didn't make a fuss or make a fuss, just gently packed up her things, then lied about going downstairs to buy oranges and left him.
At this point, the eight-year relationship has drawn a not-so-perfect end.
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I read this girl's post on Zhihu, and I didn't expect that this matter would be on Weibo hot search again because of the follow-up.
Of course, I have no intention of discussing here the obvious question of whether this boy is a scumbag or not.
What makes me sigh is some of the views expressed by this girl when she tells about this past.
She has academic qualifications, a family background, and a culture, and she knows very well that it is difficult to have long-term love in this world, and she also understands where the problems between them are.
But even so, she still had a long-lasting dream of love, thinking that the people around her would always love her.
It's not that she doesn't understand that love is uncontrollable.
Everyone wants to be an exception.
But in this world, the most rare thing is the exception.
But where good things are not firm, the clouds are easy to scatter and the glass is brittle, and the love that is as brilliant as fireworks is naturally the same.
No one can love you all the time.
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