Recently, a well-known quantitative investor's bizarre view of parenting has aroused heated discussion, and he talked about the education of his son: "I said to my son, dad does not ask you to get rich, as long as you have more women, give your father a few more grandchildren." ”
After the relevant remarks were discussed on the Internet, he also said that he did not care what others said about him, "casually spread, do not care."
The son of the quantitative investor is currently only in the second year of junior high school, but in order to let his son have unimpeded access to the emotional road, the "great" father began "investing" very early. He bought his son a good mobile phone, called him a lot of money, and let his son let go of his hands and feet to spend, even though he invited the girls in the class to eat snacks.
With such a "heroic" father as an economic backing, the child is really not at all tight in the use of money, because it is generous enough, enough to be willing to spend money, and the child's small age is already very open in the eyes of the little girl.
Seeing that the way he spent money to pave the way for his son's emotional road seemed to work, this father was really complacent, and he even began to plan his son's love life in high school and college. He promised that his son would have that life in high school, and he would give birth to his grandchildren in college. In the chat record, the investor also gave his reason for doing so that "Lao Tzu's life is too hard", so he wants to fill in all his lack of son.
Because this investor is too famous in the industry, many netizens left messages saying that the first book they read for introductory quantitative investment was his book, and they have always regarded him as their own role model to learn, but it is really hot to see this parenting concept. He graduated from the Department of Electronics of Southeast University in 1992, graduated from the Department of Automation of the university in 1998, and then, in 2001, received a doctorate degree from the Department of Computer Science of Shanghai Jiao Tong University. First of all, his diploma is quite high, not only a doctorate, but also a doctorate from a prestigious university. Secondly, he read for a long time, and he was still reading until he was in his 30s. After getting his doctoral degree, his work history is actually very beautiful, which can be said to be all over the fields of universities, securities companies, public and private funds and futures. But why did he say that he was very bitter in his life and wanted to take money to help his son open up an emotional path? Some netizens speculate that it may be related to his own growth experience, many people have suffered some injuries or stimulation in their own growth, thus forming a distorted value and outlook on life, when the parents try to "come over" as the identity of the "person" to impose this value and outlook on the child.
Indeed, the values and outlook on life of each of us are either learned from those around us, formed in the process of growing up, or learned from books, films and television works. When we are still in childhood, the biggest influence on our values and outlook on life is our parents, if the parents have a very positive view, then the child can often have a very positive view, and vice versa.
Just like this investor, perhaps he has experienced some things that others cannot understand in the process of growing up, which has made him form a wrong three views, but now that he is a father, when we teach our children, we must always think about our children, reflect on our own concepts and behaviors in time, and parents should be their children's role models, rather than guiding their children to go astray!