Xi Murong said: Happy love is a kind of appearance, while unfortunate love has its own causes, the most common reasons are two: too early, too late.
Most of the unfortunate loves in this world are due to untimely birth.
Zhou Bingkun and Cao Debao in the TV series "In the World" are also members of the six boys, but their perceptions of life and love are vastly different.
Love came just right
The love between Zhou Bingkun (played by Lei Jiayin) and Zheng Juan (played by Yin Tao) came just right.
With the help of the water flow, Zhou Bingkun met a woman who was more beautiful than his own sister Zhou Rong (played by Song Jia).
When we first met, Zheng Juan stringed rock sugar gourds on the kang at home. In the winter, Zheng Juan wore very little, and immediately attracted Zhou Bingkun's attention.
Love at first sight, this is the best portrayal of Zhou Bingkun's love for Zheng Juan.
Since then, he has fallen in love with the charming and beautiful woman from a poor family in Taiping Hutong.
At that time, Zheng Juan was pregnant in her belly, carrying a younger brother and an old mother who could not see with her eyes.
Zhou Bingkun is the third oldest in the family, and his father is a long-time veteran party member and a technical backbone of state-owned enterprises. Brother Zhou Bingyi and sister Zhou Rong are both people who have seen the world. Zhou Bingkun, who grew up in such a family, does not think about material things, he only needs to follow his heart.
Zheng Juan and Zhou Bingkun are together, which is a high climb. In that era, a woman like Zheng Juan was basically unable to marry a man with an iron rice bowl in the city.
To a certain extent, beauty has also become the biggest plus.
Either way, they all came together because of love.
Love comes too early
Cao Debao is one of the six gentlemen, and his biggest dream is to get it for free, dreaming of marrying a second generation of officials who have fallen into distress.
Qiao Chunyan is a strong, tigerish, capable girl, she is very active in love. First he took the initiative to pursue Zhou Bingkun, and later met Cao Debao, who played the harmonica.
She was immediately attracted to Cao Debao.
Qiao Chunyan made Ji make Cao Debao the son-in-law of the door. It turned out that that night, qiao chunyan and Cao Debao did not happen. The next day, Qiao Chunyan ignored her personal reputation and directly said that she and Cao Debao were together.
Qiao Chunyan has always been very aggressive, and she has actually prepared for the worst. If Cao Debao is not willing, she still has a way back, that is, Zhou Bingkun.
After all, in that era, single women in pajamas early in the morning were in the same room as men, and it was impossible to say anything.
Qiao Chunyan has always been very assertive, and she chose Cao Debao.
After marriage, Qiao Chunyan was not happy, gave birth to a child early, and had to take care of her father-in-law who was sick and hospitalized.
There is also her sentence: love is very beautiful, marriage is very painful.
Their love came too soon. From the family background, work and other aspects, Cao Debao is not worthy of Qiao Chunyan.
Although Qiao Chunyan's work has been changing up and down over the years, the good villains have always been small leaders. Cao Debao's career has not progressed and improved.
Cao Debao is a man full of energy but with a small belly. He didn't even want his good friend Zhou Bingkun to have a formal establishment.
The reason was that he was worried that Zhou Bingkun had developed and could not look up to the six little gentlemen.
After all, Lü Chuan and Tang Xiangyang, one of the six little gentlemen, did not come to the party after they were admitted to college.
Cao Debao's mentality is very dark, he is not willing to be self-motivated, and he can't see others well. Zhou Bingkun is also in the running business period, work ability and vision has been greatly improved and exercised.
And Cao Debao has always been a worker in the workshop, the contact with people is limited, how can he be reborn?
It can only be said that knowledge and ability are the biggest brake valves that limit life.
Cao Debao did not realize the essence of the matter, and would only complain about the world.
The temptation of marriage
Zhou Bingkun and Cao Debao's world both have a young and beautiful girl.
Sun Xiaoning is the younger sister of The Catch-up, a fancy girl in her early twenties. Girls naturally carry spring.
In Sun Xiaoning's mind, Zhou Bingkun is a friend of his brother who knows the roots, has a sense of closeness, and is kind and responsible. He is also a successful person in his career, and their family now lives in the house of Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan.
Middle-aged men are the most attractive to young girls with spring.
Sun Xiaoning is a girl who takes the initiative to chase love, takes the initiative to send food to the hospital, and eats with Zhou Bingkun.
She has no regard for the fact that Zhou Bingkun is already a married man with a family. Such a woman's three views are not correct.
Let's look at Cao Debao again. A woman named Lan Lan walked into Cao Debao's heart.
Cao Debao took Lan Lan to the liquor store in order to find a little sense of vanity in front of Lan Lan. It can be seen from the title of factory director.
In front of the gentle and lovely Lan Lan, Cao Debao found self-esteem that he did not have in front of Chun Yan.
For a woman, Cao Debao beat the customer, and then won Lan Lan's heartache.
The two men not only touched their hands, but also embraced each other.
gap
Also facing young and beautiful girls, the gap between Zhou Bingkun and Cao Debao can be seen.
In the face of Sun Xiaoning's initiative, Zhou Bingkun did not think much at all, he was very frank. From Zhou Bingkun's point of view, he would definitely not do something wrong.
From his reaction to seeing Cao Debao and Lan Lan together, it can be judged that he is a man who is very loyal to marriage. He believes that Cao Debao's behavior is wrong and does not agree with him.
It is worth mentioning here that Zheng Juan's decency. In the face of the young and beautiful Sun Xiaoning, Zheng Juan did not get angry, but was not humble and calm.
Borrowing Sun Xiaoning's hand, she deliberately implied her dedication and dedication in the Zhou family. Last word: I think the same as you. This is the trick between the masters.
It is not easy for Zheng Juan to be able to come together with Zhou Bingkun. The weight of this sentence is very heavy.
If Zhou Bingkun is unintentional, then Cao Debao is intentional.
For the sake of his vanity and self-esteem, Cao Debao acts as a good man in front of Lan Lan. He deliberately borrowed drunkenness to touch Lan Lan's hand, and deliberately threw himself into the arms of others.
Lan Lan was obviously also touched by Cao Debao, and she had been holding Cao Debao's hand.
This scene is full of ambiguity. Cao Debao is undoubtedly a prelude to the derailment.
A man like Cao Debao is indeed not worthy of Qiao Chunyan, full of energy and not working hard enough, but he is still high and far away, and he still wants to marry the daughter of Gao Gan.
Even if he married Qiao Chunyan, he still had regrets in his heart.
The reason for the collapse of adults, everyone is carrying the weight forward. Zheng Juan has been carrying the weight forward in order for Zhou Bingkun to work with peace of mind. Zhou Bingkun was carrying the weight forward for the Zhou family, while Cao Debao let Qiao Chunyan carry the weight alone.
Marriage is all about finding the balance of inner order in the mess of chicken feathers in a place.
Cao Debao was not satisfied and unhappy in his marriage, and he did not know that he was the greatest luck to marry Qiao Chunyan in this life.
As Mr. Yang Dai said: Heaven will not let all happiness be concentrated on someone, and getting love may not have money, and having money may not necessarily get happiness.