In the process of pursuing girls, why can scumbags repeatedly succeed, but honestly hit the wall repeatedly? This is mainly because the scumbag knows these four unspoken rules of chasing girls
One. Don't just invite guests or give gifts
It may be very funny to say, many boys in the pursuit of girls, this is how, you only know girls for a few days, two people are just ordinary relationships, but as soon as they come up, they are all kinds of flattery, and they are sending flowers and gifts, and they also invite guests to eat, and even confess in public, you think about it, when the two people are not so intimate, what kind of identity can she carry you to her, there is not enough understanding, can not talk about good friends, is it a lover, that is not to talk about ah, a normal girl, He can't just know you and accept your gifts, all the scumbags, before the girls have become their girlfriends, are never stupid to give gifts
Two. Girls are not chased but attracted
Don't think that chasing a girl is that she runs in front of her, you chase in the back, you are good to her, the weather is cold, you send her warmth, when you are sick, you send her medicine, your aunt comes and you are more nervous than she is, you ignore the current relationship between the two sides, focus on her wholeheartedly, do not ask for returns to be good to her, and in the end all you can get is to move yourself, women want not docile and obedient little earth dogs, they want unruly male lions.
I know that many boys will often short-circuit the brain in the face of the girls they like, do not know how to attract girls, then I have a combination of many brothers of the single case summary of the analysis, the brothers who have seen are basically off the list, then what I want to say is that the brothers look at the following picture, it is very simple to find me.
Three. Confession should be the final trumpet of victory, not the submachine gun that launches the attack
If love is a game, is a negotiation, then the confession is your bottom card, when your relationship is not in place, you show your bottom card early, it will make you fall into passivity, willing to be very simple, you have no challenge, in the back you have a long time no cards to play, how do you text, and then how to invite each other, girls are easy to ignore you, which is what people often say confession death.
Four. There can be faults and explanations, but don't explain them repeatedly
If there is a mistake, we can also explain, but if the other party does not listen to you at all, do not want to pay attention to you, then slow down, because those insecure girls, most of them have the following performance, there is a problem, make a mistake you explain to her, she does not listen, you patiently explain to her the second time, she is still a unreasonable look, at this time you should let her be quiet, if you continue to go on the pole to please her, to abuse yourself, she will feel that you are very boring, and even look down on you.
At this point, I would like to say that girls are attracted to and pursued, and this sentence sounds like a contradiction with the second point of view we put forward today, but it is actually not contradictory. Everyone look carefully, girls are attracted, not to pursue over, this point of view is undoubtedly right, but today I have to stand up to continue to improve this point of view, the reason is very simple, if you do not take the initiative to chase girls, then in the end, good girls are not chased away, do not look at themselves too expensive, and lack of the premise to support this gold, girls slightly test him, create a little obstacle for her, she will give up on herself, how can this work, girls are attracted to it, But it is also pursued, and the good thing of love at first sight often only happens to handsome men and beautiful women.