"Life As We Know" is an American light comedy romance movie, revolving around the "pair of wrongdoers" Holly and Messer after the death of their friends, had to follow the arrangement of the will, moved into the friends' home, and jointly raised their daughter Sophie, who had just turned one year old, and in the life of serving as a grandfather and mother, they gradually discovered that they loved each other deeply and had already become a family.
The film uses a house and a child as the "red bride" of the two protagonists, so as to promote their forced cohabitation, mutual life, mutual understanding, and finally mutual love, which seems absurd, but it actually contains a lot of thinking about love in reality.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > couple is not suitable, and often the onlooker knows best</h1>
Holly and Messer, one is a down-to-earth and responsible girl who is extremely eager to have a lover and a marriage; the other is a playboy who has a date and does not like it. Two people who seem to be unsuitable for each other are very compatible in the eyes of their friends Alison and Peter, and many times of matchmaking have not been successful, and they are still firmly believed by old friends that "you are very suitable", making them quite speechless and eager to clear up the relationship;
Then, in the days of being a grandparent, they met the baby's little nanny Amy, when Messer agreed to invest in Holly's bakery, the two met for dinner together, looking at Holly and Messer, who were dressed up, Amy couldn't help but blurt out: "I think you two are really right", the two have no original quarrel at this time, just look at what Amy said, right as a child's joke, listen to it;
Until Sam, the family doctor who loves Holly, appears, and When Messer is promoted to work in another city, the separation of the two places makes a subtle change in the feelings between the two, at the party, Messer learned that Holly was going to sell the house, the two had a big fight, and in the mutual accusation, they broke up, Holly cried to Sam, Sam said: "If we had such a quarrel between us, then my ex-wife and I would not divorce", as a bystander, Sam saw it clearly, he knew that Holly loved not himself, It had always been Messer, but she hadn't found out about it herself.
The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. If a friend next to you says "appropriate", it may be to look away, but if one after another people say "appropriate", it is not casually said, it must be the inadvertent tacit understanding between you and the eyes that show the stuffing, show it, others see it, but they have not yet noticed it.
As Messer finally said: "I finally know why Peter said that we are suitable, not because we know each other best, but because we were like a family, you, me, Sophie, like their former family", Peter and his wife saw it very clearly, they had seen Holly and Messer's daily pattern of getting along, loving and killing each other, but they could not be separated, so their will chose Holly and Messer as the guardians of their daughters, and they also contributed to their marriage.
Wu Qilong and Liu Shishi, from the initial being spat at "the difference of 17 years, not a good match", to now be praised everywhere for loving couples, their love is actually seen by a group of us eating melon masses, Wu Qilong dotingly pulled Liu Shishi on the suitcase out of the airport, Liu Shishi has no star shelf bent down to tie her husband's shoelaces, no matter when, wherever you go is hand in hand, as long as the other party appears, the eyes are full of love, so to say, in any relationship, whether two people have love, onlookers see it most clearly.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > the unsuitable person into the right couple, and they must have hidden common ground</h1>
In the movie, after the matchmaking of Alison and Peter, Holly and Messer's first date is disastrous, the two people look at each other unfavorably, and they don't like each other within a few minutes of meeting, but the two are good acquaintances, and from then on, in any occasion where they attend and meet each other, they will tear each other down and make a lot of jokes, but with a car accident that takes the lives of Peter and his wife, a pair of wrongdoers are forced to live under the same roof and have to take on the responsibility of their grandparents together.
Some people say that if you like or appreciate a person, it must be because he has the same things as you or has your own needs, and there are shining points that can attract each other. Two people who were originally unsuitable end up as the right couple, and they must have hidden some commonalities in mutual appreciation.
Holly and Messer at first the two still look at each other unfavorably, noisy and noisy is commonplace, but in getting along, the two began to gradually discover each other's benefits and advantages, Holly found that Messer is actually very interesting, very easy-going, like her friend Alison, her most hated person has the shadow of her favorite friend, the attitude has changed; and Messer also found that Holly is independent, strong and mature, when she is vulnerable and helpless, she can let people precipitate and settle down, from disgust to appreciation, slowly, When the two were busy with little Sophie's various affairs, they finally realized that the burden was actually very sweet, and they enjoyed it.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > the smoothest time is not coming, and it is easy to meet true love when it is least smooth</h1>
The climax of the film is the big quarrel at the banquet, Holly's sentence: "We need each other to survive, now we don't have to act", the original they were because of the will and sustenance of old friends, all the time in persuading themselves to be "daddy" and "mother", so that this pressure makes them feel tired, so, in the same situation, the two only rely on each other's existence to try to persuade themselves to survive, so at least they are not alone. When Holly and Messer no longer dislike each other and fall in love, Masser suddenly promotes and insists on going to another city to work, so holly mistakenly believes that Masser does not want to stay and love her and Sophie after all, or wants to get rid of this responsibility, and does not love her at all, so the budding love is snuffed out by a different place.
Soon, Messer returned to see her and Sophie on the weekend, but found that Holly planned to sell the house, Messer resolutely disagreed, the two had a quarrel, Holly's solitary parenting and misunderstanding of Masser, which made her very broken, in the quarrel, Messer poured out his love for Holly, in the end, Messer stayed for Holly and Sophie, and Holly was also relieved, and found that the person she really loved was Messer, so she chased the opportunity for love, and finally the family really began to live.
At the most smooth time, when there were old friends and their own jobs, they lived their own orderly lives as always, and they looked at each other as always; however, in the most unsuccessful times, the two people could not rely on others, they could only rely on each other, in the face of the monthly inquiries and petitions of the community welfare worker Jenning, they regarded her as a common enemy, let each other out, and tried to show the appearance of good parents; in the face of parenting problems, they went around to teach and constantly weighed the conflict between work and children. After surviving the most unsuccessful time, they also ushered in a beautiful love, suffering to see the truth, but also easy to see true love!
In fact, in the world of feelings, the encounter of a boy and a girl, after love at first sight to start planning the future is not necessarily love, real love is in the face of difficulties, in the face of the problem they want a left one to the right, or two people together to the left or to the right, love is a choice, depending on how two people choose, people who love each other will always be together, people who do not love each other will eventually become Mr. Left and Miss Right, may we meet the person who can go left or right together on the way forward!