After reading these comments, I am also wondering what courage makes me have three children [cover my face] [cover my face], and now my husband in addition to the five insurances to the hand salary is 4000, the mortgage is almost 2000, there are three babies to raise, the minimum standard of living expenses is 2000, the kindergarten semester is 3000 yuan, a primary school, a year old is only more than one year old, occasionally a month also needs 2 to 3 cans of milk powder, most of the time is food-based... You will say that there are deposits, there are family wives to help, these are not [cover your face] [cover your face], a few years without work savings have long been emptied, I did not want to have three children, but forced by the pressure of my family and mr. had to give birth to three children, because our small county feudal thinking is still very strong, there is no way to change people in the environment, so bravely face it, I believe that the difficulties are only temporary... No one looks at it, it doesn't matter, through the headlines to record their own lives, hiding our joys and sorrows, but also putting our Baiwei life [smile], not to show off, nor to cry, but just to record and share, wait until they are old, slowly look over will find that in the past life, there is still a trace of tenderness, touch, helplessness, happiness, there is also sadness [than the heart] [than the heart]...