#人世间征文 #
There are two disturbing factors that cause the collapse of marriage: one is to meet a demon who cannot help his brother, and the other is a phoenix man who has no principles.
Speaking of the Phoenix Man, in "The World of Man". Zhou Bingyi is a real phoenix man.
He was born in the despised light character film, but he changed his fate through hard study, not only admitted to Peking University, but also won the favor of the governor's daughter Hao Hongmei and became the son-in-law of the governor.
In the eyes of some men who are so ordinary and so confident, if he is Zhou Bingyi, Hao Hongmei looks at him, he will definitely think that he is charming, and find a way to use the power of his father-in-law, not only to climb up step by step, but also to gather his younger brothers and sisters around himself, which can be described as a person's tao, and the chicken dog ascends to heaven.
It is also possible that seeing that Hao Hongmei is an only child, she will have the psychology of eating the family; You may also think that the Hao family is his family sooner or later.
All in all, it will be self-sustaining as the owner of the Hao family.
But the reason why Zhou Bingyi is Zhou Bingyi, the reason why Hao Hongmei, after being rehabilitated at home, still does not abandon him, and even tries his best to harmonize the relationship between his parents and him. It is because Zhou Bingyi is not only upright and kind, but also has a high degree of self-esteem.
His sister Zhou Rong's classmate Cai Xiaoguang once pursued Zhou Rong and often lent a helping hand when the Zhou family was in trouble. But he was blocked from going to college because he failed the political review. In desperation, Zhang Xiaoguang turned to Zhou Rong for help, and Zhou Rong entrusted Zhou Bingyi, and Zhou Bingyi asked his wife Hao Hongmei to speak to his father-in-law.
This matter was completed, and Cai Xiaoguang went to college as he wished. But when Zhou Bingyi and his father-in-law, Governor Hao, ate a family reunion dinner with him during the summer vacation, Governor Hao's cold attitude made Zhou Bingyi feel very unhappy.
At this time, Zhou Bingyi did not jump up to blame his wife like some l, and hated his father-in-law for looking down on him. Instead, he conducted self-reflection, not to trouble his wife's father because of his sister's classmates, to use the power of his father-in-law for a small matter, but to think of other ways to help Cai Xiaoguang solve this problem.
So when the summer was over and they were going to return to college, at the farewell station, Hao Hongmei said to Zhou Bingkun: "If there is anything to help at home, just tell me." ”
Zhou Bingyi opened Hao Hongmei and opened his mouth to Zhou Bingkun, but finally did not say anything. Zhou Bingkun smiled sheepishly, held his head high, and said, "I know, brother, I won't bother Sister Dongmei." ”
Seeing this, I felt emotionally: this is the tacit understanding between brothers.
What you didn't say, I understand: although we are poor, we will never cling to it. How much power, how big things to do.
The two brothers used their eyes and expressions to express connotations that they could not express in words.
As the saying goes, good men don't cultivate the fields. Men should use their own abilities to conquer the world, rather than blindly relying on the power of women's families.
It is precisely because Zhou Bingyi realized what he had done wrong before, and from then on he always maintained a high degree of self-esteem and self-love, thus winning the high respect and appreciation of his father-in-law's family.
The world is like this, don't use others as fools, others will be aware; Instead of trying hard to get other people's things, it is better to temper yourself and use your own struggle to win what you want. This is decent, and it is not ashamed.