These two days, because of the Beijing Winter Olympics, Zhang Yimou was banned by the whole network.
As the general director of the opening ceremony of the Winter Olympic Games, whether it is his creativity, aesthetics, or talent, he has been praised and affirmed by the people of the whole country.
And there was once a director whose talent was comparable to Zhang Yimou in people's eyes.
He is Wang Quan'an.
However, because of a prostitution scandal, he ruined himself.
In 2014, Wang Quan'an was arrested for prostitution for three consecutive days.
After that, his career was seriously damaged, and his reputation quickly declined. His wife, Zhang Yuqi, chose a decisive divorce after he was released from prison.
It can be described as a double collapse of family business.
Even though he is still active in the entertainment industry, when people mention him again, the first thing that comes to mind is no longer his works and talents, but the indelible stain on him.
In fact, if there had been no original prostitution scandal, he would have been in the limelight today.
Unfortunately, because he could not control the lower body, he was discredited overnight and became a laughingstock.
Speaking of which, many men's future is ruined, their families are destroyed, and even their lives are ruined, most of them are the disasters caused by the lower body.
Can't control the lower body
Doomed to live the second half of your life
Similar to Wang Quan'an's experience, there is also the "piano prince" Li Yundi.
Last year, Li Yundi was detained for prostitution, shocking everyone.
And at that time, it was the time when he was in the limelight.
Because of participating in the hit show "Brother With Thorns", he gained a large number of fans.
Many people praised him for his handsome appearance, elegant temperament, strong professional ability, and was very optimistic about him and looked forward to his formation.
Who ever thought, because of indulging the desire of the lower body, all the glamorous clicks on his body were suddenly gone.
Originally, according to his popularity at that time, coupled with the blessing of his appearance and piano ability, what awaited him must be a crowd of endorsements, variety shows, performances...
That is to say, he originally had endless money and endless blessings.
But because of prostitution, the label attached to him is no longer a genius pianist, but a prostitute.
What awaits him is no longer a pursuit, but a spurn.
The tragic end is all lamentable.
Some people may think that only celebrities and other public figures will cause disasters and bad consequences because of such things.
In fact, ordinary people can't control the lower body, and they still can't end up with any good end.
A friend nearby once told me the story of a neighbor in her hometown.
The neighbor was dishonest after marriage and slept with women everywhere.
Once, he slept with a married woman, and the other husband came directly to the door and squashed him.
Word soon spread throughout the village.
And his life, therefore, was instantly plunged into darkness:
Because of his infidelity, his wife divorced him and took the only child of the two.
Originally, he opened a small shop in his hometown, but he did not have the face to continue to stay in this place, so he had to close the door and run away and go out to work.
Even his family, because of the dirty things he did, was often pointed out by the people of the whole village and scolded in the spine.
Even if many years have passed since then, and he returns to his hometown every New Year's Day, he will still be talked about by people in various ways because of the events of that year, and he will not even be able to lift his head.
He could have been an upright person, but now he can only bow his head, bend over, and shrink his neck to steal life under the fingers and feet of others.
If he had known that his later life would have turned out like this ghost, I think he would not have stolen everywhere.
Unfortunately not if. One cannot live by one's own sins, all evil consequences are self-inflicted, and all repentance is only the result of self-inflicted wounds.
If you don't manage the lower body well, you are doomed to live a bad second half of your life.
Why can't men always manage the lower body?
Whether it is a public figure or an ordinary person, an unchanging truth is:
Indulging animal lusts will inevitably bring immeasurable consequences.
So, why do men always can't control their lower body?
The answer lies in the following points:
1. Instinctive physiological response
It is often said that men are "lower body animals", which is not out of thin air.
Due to the physiological mechanisms of men, their bodies release sex hormones frequently every day.
This makes their reproductive organs much more sensitive than women's and is prone to "sexual exaltation".
For example, because of the stimulation of a passionate picture, a provocative word, or a thoughtful care, it is possible to make them have a strong sexual desire.
They can't help but want to find sexual objects to vent their desires, and sometimes they even "don't refuse".
It is also known as "when a man is 'hard', he will want to poke the nearest hole".
Moreover, most of the time when sexual desire arises, their sanity will temporarily abdicate, and they will see women as food is to hungry ghosts, always wanting to be quick.
2. Men are like explorers in the field of sex
Studies have shown that male animals are generally passionate and have a strong curiosity about the opposite sex.
This is especially true for men.
In the field of sex, they are like an explorer, driven by curiosity and challenge, the more they have never seen anything, the more they want to see, and even can't help but want to drill into it and study and understand.
The more unknown women are, the more they can arouse their fantasies, lusts, and sexual impulses.
So sometimes they know that there will be a bad end, and they do not hesitate to take risks, eager to have physical intercourse with each other.
Conversely, for places that are already well known, men will think that there is no need to go further.
This is why some men, no matter how beautiful and beautiful their wives are, still can't help but want to reach out to and have relationships with other women.
Just like Wang Quan'an, at that time, he obviously had a beautiful wife Zhang Yuqi, but he did not hesitate to spend money to find fun in Huajie Liu Lane.
At the end of the day, it's just that it doesn't matter if the food at home is good or not, and the outside is fresh if you haven't eaten it.
3. Distorted view of feelings
Men are born with a desire to conquer, and treating women especially is no exception.
When they incorporate women into their own bodies and charge inside each other's bodies, a lot of times it's not just about physical pleasure, wonderful feelings.
Psychologically, I think I have been accepted, recognized and satisfied.
Sometimes they even enjoy showing off their manhood and masculinity in this way.
I once heard a man say that when he could go up to more women, he made them dizzy and happy;
When they are fascinated by themselves, like a moth to a fire, he will have an infinite sense of superiority, feeling stiff and attractive.
This distorted view of feelings largely allows them to indulge their carnal desires unscrupulously.
So women always wonder, isn't it shameful for a man to have sex with a woman other than his wife?
In fact, under the support of this distorted and even perverted view of feelings, they will not only not feel ashamed, but will feel that intercourse with more women is a symbol of their male strength.
4. Weak will, willing to degenerate
When men can't control the lower body, they always have a variety of reasons.
Some people say that they are just releasing stress and relaxing appropriately;
Some people righteously claim that it is driven by instinct;
There are also people who blame their partners, saying that their wives can't satisfy themselves, so they go out to change their appetites.
In fact, to put it bluntly, these are all excuses for themselves.
The main reason is that, on the one hand, they don't love their partner enough.
On the other hand, it is self-indulgent and not self-loving enough.
After all, when a man loves his wife with all his heart and thinks of his family.
Then this strong emotion rooted in the heart will play a certain restraining role in yourself.
No matter how much temptation he encounters, he can use his own reason to control it and restrain himself from doing things that hurt his lover or even destroy his family.
Therefore, there is no doubt that no matter what reason a man steals, it is only a manifestation of weak will and self-depravity.
The smarter and more reliable the man
The more you know how to manage your lower body
Sexual desire for pleasure and intercourse is the basic appeal of all animals.
The biggest difference between humans and animals is that people know how to exercise restraint.
Know what to do and what not to do, and know that it is impossible to act as freely as other animals do.
I also understand that the future direction and the state of life are in my own hands.
Once they allow themselves to seek pleasure everywhere, the last thing that awaits them is not only a disgrace, but also a variety of bitter fruits and costs.
Therefore, only stupid men will covet sexual pleasure, because a momentary lust pushes himself into an endless darkness.
Really smart and reliable men know how to manage their lower body.
Because they know that this is responsibility for themselves, respect for their partners, and protection for their families.
Only in this way can we get the happiness and satisfaction we want with the greatest probability.
Not all men understand this, though. This requires communicating with them in daily life.
Make them realize from the bottom of their hearts the importance of managing the lower body and the great impact on their lives.
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